Ladies, Im curious. What info do you ask for when contacting another provider for a reference on a client . We understand you want to make sure he's safe,  but what other factors if any do you take into consideration? And gents, have ever asked a provider whom you've provided a reference , what that provider said about you. And if you did , did she tell you? Again , Im just curious.

Is he safe, and respectful? Would you see him again? Is there something that you feel I should know before deciding to accept an appointment w/him?  

are best left secret.  Ignorance is bliss.  

... my ATF, if she could "put in a good word" for me before I saw a friend of hers. She just smiled and said she told the other provider I'm "VIP", which appears to be her code word for telling other providers there's nothing to worry about.  It must have worked because her friend greeted me as if she'd known me for a long time.  

Remember I said exactly that when you made an even dumber post than usual.

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I'm sure it is innocuous and we don't rate long detailed conversations, but... some things are best left to the gals.

Just kidding.

A couple of providers told me what another provider said about me. One provider just said, "clean and safe." Another said, "a real gentleman, I'd see him again".  

Circumference is spoken of on a case by case basis, however.

That is Exactly what I ask as well....and that's generally exactly what I'm asked also.

Discretion is at the heart of this profession.  

One provider told me another lady said I like to take a shower. Kind of an odd thing to say but then I remembered that the last lady I saw was using another girl's apartment and didn't seem to like that I wanted to take a shower.