must be 2good to be true..
You ever think about reference checks /background checks in the hobby. providers want personal/private information to buy pussy. None of the providers use real names or even personal phones. yet they want real names, place of employment, email, phone number, address etc. I assume drug dealers will soon be asking for reference checks. Get real this is bull shit. Backpage providers asking for reference checks when more than half of them use fake/stolen pictures and look nothing like the pictures.
Hobby is full of shit.
find another hobby. If you want to play then you have to accept that nothing is standard in this hobby and every women out there has the right to ask for whatever they want to ensure their safety.
... since I don't do business with them.
As for what providers ask for, you do realize, don't you, that no one's forcing you to give anyone more info than you feel comfortable giving. Just don't see the providers who ask for that info you don't want to give. Real simple.
I expect, heck I WANT, providers to ask for references, OKs, etc for new clients. I've never had a provider ask for my full name, employment info, non-hobby phone number or email, or home address. But I've always given references when asked, and having many P411 OKs has made screening easy for me.
Maybe try seeing well-reviewed providers instead of those on BP with no reviews? Also try P411 if you haven't yet, it can make your hobby life a lot easier.
If you want to risk your self with providers who don't care about safety, be my guest.
But consider this fact: LE doesn't screen.
The ladies are only concerned with their safety and security by using the screening process..
If you are not willing to play the screening game then I suggest that you find another hobby..
Because you are not gonna have a lot of fun!
If you see reputable Well reviewed ladies that screen properly then you are set for some mind
blowing experiences!! A boat load of fun!
Besides what the others have said, also bear in mind she is agreeing to
1) Let an unknown male, far larger and more powerful into her personal space. Careless girls have been robbed, raped and beat up, even killed.
2) She is allowing you to put your penis inside her.
So take your angry whining somewhere else.
Or at least the smart ones do. Do you really thing some stranger can just call up his local drug dealer and say "Hey Vinnie, Jake says you've got some good shit, can I score an 8 ball tonight?"
Yeah, drug dealers don't like going to jail either. Nor do they want you showing up with a gun rather than an "envelope" just like a hooker. lol
This is not only an illegal business, but it also involves allowing a bigger stronger person to enter her body, at least giving her family a place to start looking for the person that murdered her is most likely not too much to ask.
Make sure you do so with someone who is much bigger and much stronger than you, who may be under the influence of alcohol or drugs, and who may have a record as a felon.
And when you do it, make damn sure it is with a TOTAL FUCKING STRANGER.
Do all that, and THEN you can lecture the women here how they should handle the verification process that could potentially save their own lives.
It's very simple...most guys who complain about the verification procedures providers use can't pass them...
the OP sounds quite bitter.Perhaps he should be looking at reputable ladies who are not using stolen photos,have an internet presence,and a website.Majority of providers have reviews here or another site,ads,photos,a website,some also have social media.So guys already can form an opinion if she is reputable or not.But for a guy to expect since we are asking for screening info from him we should provide our real life info is absurd.Doesn't make a bit of sense.
I don't want to go to a guy's hotel room who has not been screened for my safety.
My safety is more important than money.
A provider asking for references/screening is bs the OP says and just like jelloman42 mentioned the guys the most upset are usually the ones who cannot pass any provider's screening.
Smh...
Either they can't pass them or they believe they are so important that they are 2good for them, which is really 2bad...lol.
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their work. If any hobbyist doesn't want to give the information a provider asks to said provider, they can just move on and find someone else.
must be 2good to be true..
I bet you don't have any problem with a bank wanting some form of ID/reference when you want to cash your check (although it has occurred to me that you might cash you're at the liquor store), so why do you have such a problem with a girl wanted an ID/reference before letting you use her pussy? The back has a lot of money. The girl has only one pussy.
References were not done at the "Call Girl" level at agencies pre-internet. They did check to see if a hotel was in the guy's name but there was no Google or Spokeo to check guys out.
Then references became a way to supposedly check to make sure the guy was not "dangerous."
References are now used for things that you guys don't know about. Sure, bad hygiene is a reason to not see a guy but there is more to it than that.
Some of these girls keep extensive notes. Example: Long time Joe, Short time Joe, hotshot, limpdick etc. Don't believe for one minute that references are solely to avoid dangerous clients.
I'm surprised (well not that surprised) that so many guys blindly follow along with whatever the girls tell you.
Get raped, kidnapped, or rip offed (which is still rape)? Then if it's our household incall, we should allow stalkers?
Thanks for the warning to all us better ladies.
Don't compare fake ass women to us ladies who keep it honest. Not hard to check reviews. Don't even need college degree!
You want to enjoy your time, then research, takes little out of your day!
What is wrong that ladies are asking THIS much info from you? Did you not exist before or never passed P411 screening? Do you not have multiple references? I mean, come on, if you are not solid new, there should be at least 3 references for her to call......
and that also puts your safety and freedom at risk. Women brunt most of the risk involved in this and we have every right to feel comfortable with whom we choose to entertain.
It tells me that she's careful and screening helps ensure safety for BOTH of us. She knows that I am safe. She's less nervous about seeing me and that leads to a better session for BOTH of us.
Once when booking an appointment with someone I hadn't seen previously, I emailed her with a brief introduction that included my number and my references. I got an immediate reply that said in part "ooh, I've heard really good things about you." Needless to say, she quickly booked me and then proceeded to rock my world.
If she feels safe, she'll be more relaxed and so will I. If you have great references you'll never have a problem. If you don't, well, you likely know that booking an appointment will always be a problem.
...is seeing situations in the main Red Light District of Amsterdam when a "window girl" (legal in the Netherlands) hits the panic button in her room. A siren wails and the police are on the scene very quickly (female cops included) to interrogate the parties and take appropriate action. I can see why escorts check references.