Some time ago I had a session with a Tantric provider who showed me how to find her g-spot and ejaculated on my hand.  Later I had a conversation with a lady I trust about her experience with female ejaculation.  Last week Faye Desiree talked to a lunch group that I attended about female ejaculation and the 30-minute female orgasm.  Since then I have talked with a lady about what Faye said and confirmed a portion of what Faye said about how women feel.  I thought that the rest of you might be interested in what I think I have learned.  I would be interested in further comments from both guys and ladies, of course.

First, and probably most important.  If any of you are going to try any of this you ABSOLUTELY MUST talk about it with your partner and have their full trust and cooperation.  This stuff is not something you spring on a partner to surprise them with.  There are a lot of psychological barriers to overcome.  Faye said, "One of the first things that gets ingrained in you as a proper young lady right after 'Don't fart in public' is 'Don't pee on your date'."  Faye said that her ejaculate is clear with a slightly sweet taste and she is convinced that it is not urine.  However, I can testify from my experience with the Tantric lady that your subconscious doesn't know that it isn't urine the first time it happens.  Guys if you are going to do this you have to get comfortable with the idea of her spurting liguid on you.  Then you have to convince her that you are comfortable.  Then she has to get comfortable.  All of this MUST be discussed and you both need to be comfortable before going on.

Now for what the Tantric lady taught me.  The g-spot is on the front wall of the vagina.  (My personal opinion is that it is the inner end of the clitoris that you can stimulate through the vaginal wall.) It is about the right distance in to be stroked with a slightly crooked index or middle finger.  If you are lucky you will be able to feel it.  If you can feel it it will feel hard and slightly corrugated, about the size of a walnut.  Stroke it lightly with your finger.  (Guys, we all tend to do things too hard.  A woman has as many nerves in her clitoris as we do in our cock -- concentrated in a MUCH smaller volume.  Don't overdo it.)  Faye added that using your tongue on the outer end of the clitoris along with your finger on the g-spot will make things really intense.

Now, for what I learned from Faye that I didn't know and the second reason that you REALLY REALLY need to talk about this with your partner in advance.  Faye said that the lady is going to cum from this stimulation and when she does she is going to say, "STOP".  According to Faye at this point the lady feels satisfied, feels too sensitive to touch, and feels like she has to pee, which she is desperately trying to hold back.

Faye says that the secret is that you don't stop.  You just keep going. She says that as the energy starts to rise along the spine (she is into Tantra) that the woman goes into a state of continuous orgasm where she forgets where she is and even who she is.  She says that she tries to crawl backward off the bed and that her legs involuntarily lock around the guy's head.  She says that it is quite an experience for the woman, but that the poor guy feels like he is drowning with his head in a vise.  (If any of you have attended either of Faye's chat sessions on TER you know she has quite a gift for vivid description.)

I haven't yet had a chance to experiment with this.  If any of you have experienced a female ejaculation (either as spurter or spurted upon) I would be interested in your feedback.



-- Modified on 8/22/2001 4:43:39 PM

I have had similar experience, but the ejaculation is not was dramatic as a just. It just drips out. In my experience, I
concure that it is clear and if she eats something spicy prior. It can be sweet or bitter. I got many bruises during her O's. It is very intense to her. But after she is extremely sensitive. Not to brag but I once had her go 7 times, and she got sick the following day. Guys, take it lightly. She is usually in control if she wants to hit the O or not. She is on the top most of the time. Every chick is different, you need to probe her out.

Mathesar, good friend!
Sorry I missed the luncheon last week, I spent the day
in various airports with a certain provider, on our way
home from a very nice vacation!
My experience over the years with this is it can last from
30 to 90 minutes depending upon the lady and the endurance
of the gentleman!  I recently, chased a young lady across
at king size bed in the manner described for over 90 minutes.
Needless to say a good time was had by all!

Fellows, IMHO there is nothing better in love play than pleasuring a lady in the aforementioned manner.  Though  I know YMMV and everyone likes something different, it is not uncommon to have a woman pull you to her and whisper "I want you in me" shortly after she has this prolonged orgasm.

Smiling
LM

Operates pretty much the way you (and Faye) describe it.  My experience (and its only happened with a few women I've been with)is that it works best with a crooked index finger AND you can rub the base of that finger (where the finger attaches to the hand) on the outside of clit for additional stimulation.  It's a pretty incredible feeling for both participants when the lady let's go - mabye better than anything else (for those of us that are as much or more into giving than merely receiving).

Yes, I've had it happen but not at all as a result of the activity described.  It came about (NPI) strictly as a matter of intercourse....foreplay was certainly involved, although I can't really recall/describe exactly what it might have been.  It hasn't happened often, & the first time was long ago when I was much very inexperiened...so inexperienced that I didn't even know what had taken place.  

Then I got married & it never happened with the wife---then I became involved in a long-time relationship & it never happened with the girlfriend.  These two relationships (yeah, I was a pretty "loyal" individual) involved so many years & were a few years ago...I wasn't even sure my memory was accurate when I heard the subject discussed again a few months ago.

Then it happended again...this time I knew what had happened.  It took place with a provider while in my rear yard near the pool.  She was someone I'd seen several times previously.  Anyway, to shorten this story...we were going at it doggie fashion (or would it be better desciribed as reverse cowgirl--anyway, you get the picture).  I was sitting in a chair & she was literally doing almost all the "work".  

We're doing this for quite a while (not sure how long, but I'm not Superman either) when she gasps (moans, screams, whatever) obviously reaching an intense O.  Then she climbs off almost immediately & says "My God...I'm squirting."  Yeah, she was...very visibly---& no, it obviously wasn't urine (like I'd heard some others say before).

I'm certainly not sure how common all this is...it certainly hasn't happened on more than a very few occasions with me.  But that could easily be due to my ineptitude...the ladies are of course much too polite to ever say such a thing.

I have been praised by many ladies over the years on my experrtise, and I have performed the whole course of foreplay as described on most of them, but most have pleaded "too sensitive to continue" after a single orgasm, and I have always obliged by moving on to the final act. I never even HEARD of a woman actually ejaculating visible fluids before reading it here. It must be a very rare event. I plan to discuss it with my favorite lady and see if we can go there (strictly for its educational value, of course).
He he he he.

Nearly any woman can learn to experience G-spot orgasms, but female ejaculation is much more rare.  I've never personally experienced it either with any of my partners in over 30 years (I have had my head squeezed to near exploding, but no gushing partners).  

Earlier in the year one of our resident medical experts posted the chemical make-up of the female fluid, and it is definitely not urine.  At the chemical level it can be shown to be something quite different.

A female friend of mine told me she once dated a guy whose penis bent up at the end (a bend left or right is not that uncommon, but up is unusual).  She didn't think much of it until they had sex and he was able to give her the first G-spot orgasm of her life, followed by a string of them.  Just like the upward bend of a dildo designed specifically for the purpose, he was able to constantly stimulate the G-spot without really trying, just by using a normal motion.  She said it was exhausting.

I don't necessarily want to experience the ejaculate of a female orgasm, but the sensual imagery really intrigues me. If the experience is so exhausting, I can't help but wonder if this would be something a woman (especially a provider, who presumably would rather save her energy), would want to experience again, once having had the experience?

Interesting post, sir. There was a fairly well reviewed lady (who seems to appear, then disappear from time to time) where there was a common thread to the reviews. It seems she would hold the gentleman's head in place and request a finger to be inserted until she was satisfied with his efforts. It sounds much like what you described in your post as far as stimulation of the g-spot. From the tone of the reviews, it was obvious that we guys (ahem, myself included) were oblivious to what was going on in the sessions. In hindsight, she was showing us how to really stimulate her (and probably others as well), but it was interpreted as simply her getting off (are guys dumb or what). Oh well, might as well make use of what little brain cells remain to store this info for future use. Thanks for the insight.
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Yep, female ejaculate is the real thing (Ph balance is the opposite of urine; check out the website www.doctorg.com for more specific details.  I know Dr. Gary; he did his PhD on the female ejaculate).  And it can happen anytime - during oral or penetration or just getting excited!  And the taste can range from bitter to sweet, depending more upon what's going on for the woman - it comes out in her chemistry, none of it being bad, and can change in the same session!  It's considered the nectar of the goddess...

I mention just continuing to go for it cuz it's easy to let up (guy figures she's cum and complete) or the woman can think it's all over (she's hadda big one or is getting sensitive), but I swear, if ya just keep after it, it can go on and on and on.  And if you keep on the woman, even if she's feeling sensitive, like she's gonna "lose it," she's probably worried about peeing all over the place.  And the ejaculate can be buckets full (afterwards the woman can get up and still piss in the toidy)!

I've got this one client, who pays me for half an hour, stays anywhere from 40-45 minutes (last Thurs, after my trip to LA, I was back home and had no one after him, and he stayed with me for an hour and a half).  Well, however long he stays, he's on me the entire time, except for about 5 minutes that I'm on him and he's in me.  Anyway, it usually takes anywhere from 5 to even 15 minutes to get me going (who knows why?), but once he does, it's long, continuous orgasms, sometimes so intense, I crawl right into the wall (from my mat on the floor) and have almost fallen off the bed, ejaculate laden... just amazing!  And afterwards, I feel real peppy!  So, it doesn't bring ya down, brings ya up!

So practice on, dear boys!  What a delightful area to play!  xo Faye Desiree

I have had the pleasure of experiencing "Amrita", as the Tantric followers refer to it, 3 times with 2 different women.  The first was about 15 years ago with an old girlfriend.  We shared this on two occasions, both times with her riding cowgirl.  The first time it happened she was mortified as she thought she had peed on me.  I tried to explain it to her with no succcess.  The next time it happened, she KNEW she hadn't peed and, so, believed my explanation. (Both times I was soaked to the bone.)

The second time was with an experienced tantric provider.  After performing oral on her for quite a while, I inserted my finger and began to massage the g-spot.  After a couple of minutes of this she expelled a virtual torrent of clear ejaculate with surprising force.  She soaked the extra towels that she had put down just in case.

I have tried this with a number of providers since, but most of them have not been into the experience and a couple of them claimed that it actually caused some pain.  One young lady that I am currently seeing has been warming up to the experience gradually and seemed to be surprised at the intensity of the orgasms she experienced in our last rezendevous.  I think, when she finally relaxes and trusts me enough, she might actually ejaculate too.

If you haven't experienced it, it is amazing!