Hi Guys,

I am new to this, I was just wondering what were your takes on giving providers your cell phone #s driver's licsence #...

I have a S.O. and I love her, I just wanted to have some fun, and I have a good career too, dont want to ruin it.

Have the providers ever called you guys afterwards? do they call you to tell you about their "special offers" like whats in the junk emails???

and also what do they do with our drivers licsence #?

Thanks a lot guys!!!

Tim

First, I have to tell you: nothing is true of every provider.  However, you could always find one that asks for less information in screening.  

For the cellphone number, I suggest you get a prepaid cellphone dedicated only to this.

Mostly, when trysters ask for screening information, it's to verify that, yes, you have a stable job and career and an SO, and that you are not 1) a career criminal who's likely to rob, assault or kill on the first session, and/or 2) that you have said career and you're not likely a career vice squad cop trying to collar her, and/or 3) that you are not likely to rip her off.  

No provider I've ever seen has ever called me out of the blue, nor spammed me with news on her "special offers."

I would say the independent trysters I've dealt with are very professional, and I'd put their ethics a little above those of most industries.

However, remember what I said at the top of this message.  Also remember, there's a lot of imposters: grifters and rip-off artists who prey on guys.  Read reviews carefully.

don't fall for thr old" I destroy your info after the session is over" Most girls KEEP the info in a database for future reference. If they get busted and the cops get the database, you can expect a police and newspaper inquiry that could ruin your life. Don't give out personal info unless you can stand such an inquiry and don't frequent providers that demand it.

before giving out ANY personal info.  Maybe you should set-up a separate email account for hobbying, much like zinaval's idea of a pre-paid cellphone...

Search the provider's name, phone #, etc here on TER, read reviews & make sure she's a legitimate provider.  Zinaval is right again...there are scam artists out there, BUT, there are also some fantastic providers, too.

I have never gotten a "sale" offer from a provider, though...that is kinda funny.

Good luck.

As the guys say above, don't give out info if it's going to worry you afterwards.  Choose an established, well reviewed provider.   Her career depends on her discretion as much as her bedroom skills.

Choose well and you will be well

NEVER give home phone or work info out.  Only cell number.  And if a provider asks for your license plate number, move on.  I hae had providers call the cell with 'special offers,' trying to drum up business, but I screen all calls and let the unknown numbers go to messages.....  Anyway, NEVER give out personal info...no matter how hot and seemingly trustworthy the gal is, it is not worth the risk if you have a wife/SO.  MA

is what it's all about to begin with, although safety can never be a gurantee in this business. When I ask for a work number it is because I am initiating a call to someone other than the hobbyist for a reference without that person (usually a receptionist) actually knowing what I'm doing. For instance,  I ask for the client when speaking to a receptionist. I also ask for a cell number to confirm the appointment the day of and when I might be able to call that number. However, the most important thing for me is provider references. All the rest are sketchy at best and even a reference from a provider can be inaccurate, but I feel more comfortable if a lady (especially one I know) has seen a gentleman before and tells me he's not LE, that he is a nice guy and not an ax murderer!  The only time I would ask for a driver's license is when someone is new to the hobby and from out of town. Usually, LE does not carry out-of-state driver's licenses (hopefully). The only thing I'm looking for on the license is to see that you're the person who called for the appointment and that you're actually from another state. I do not take down information. This does not, however, guarantee our safety in reference to other concerns. However, the provider with a website and reputation already has much more appeal. The hobbyist -- on the other hand -- has none. Wink!

Hugs,
Ciara

I've never heard of the "driver's license number " request, myself.

You will know it is me - cause you will see the green skin coloration!  I will be out of town -so you will need to see my driver's license... do you recognize Metropolis?  Finally - what do ya do with us superheros who are LE associated but we don't now nor have we ever been interested in getting rid of legit providers...!!! hee hee.  

nod nod.

As being an ax murderer....  Well, there was this time when I picked up a locamotive and .... then there was the green kryptonite incident...  I also remember the time that I used my X-ray vision to see.... well never mind...

I have NOooOoOO Problem in being screened to the fullest. I know how dangerous it gets.  The ladies have to beware.  

Think about this:

Alot of customers of fast food places show their ID when using their credit cards.  Those are minimum wage workers, who hate their jobs.

The NSA is spying on all of us.  Privacy is an illusion, much like a provider's affection for her clients.