I actually ask my friends if they have requests for attire.  I don't find these requests any more inappropriate than letting me know that you would like chamomile tea for your visit.  General requests are easy - a red dress, heels, etc.  However, 4" stilettos with an ankle strap?  Sorry, you are out of luck.  If you see an item you like on a ladies site, ask if she still owns it and would mind wearing it for you.

IF your requests are that specific, consider asking the lady for her size and if she is willing to model what you bring.  It's the only way to guarantee you will get what you are envisioning.

Etiquette?  Be willing to leave the special request clothing with the lady.  A nice tip, if you will.

I can't see someone getting bent out of shape just as long as you are tasteful and tactful and judging by your post, you probably are.  Just be reasonable based on your location, the time of year and your plans for the evening.  

There are many gentlemen and hopefully providers concerned with standing out like a sore thumb in public.  There is nothing like an outfit from a store like Ann Taylor to assure the rest of the world that you are not trouble.  So, I would probably not wear a pair of "stripper shoes" out to dinner or stumble through a hotel lobby wearing "fuck me shoes", but would be happy to use them for entertainment purposes in private.  

You also might want to purchase the items for the lady in question if she does not have them or if they are expensive or difficult to come by.

Best,

Kate

I recently saw a Lady and asked her to wear that specific outfit that she had on the first time I saw her, she complied, I was enthralled with the look when I entered the room and it made for a perfect morning.

I appreciate the opinions these ladies have expressed, but I can assure you that there are some providers out there who do mind. I know this because I have met a couple of them. It isn't obvious until you arrive for the appointment and find out you are SOL. My particular fetish is VERY easy to satisfy as it isn't shoes, and I am always certain to ask about it before I even set the appointment up. I only ask escorts who wear the item I am interested in on their site or in ads. One time I had a date with a certain escort who I requested wear the item(she promised but didn't) and I even asked if she had brought it with her at the start of the appointment and she said no. Another hobbyist I know was seeing her the very next appointment after mine(she didn't know I knew) and she wore the outfit for him even though he prefers nothing at all and told her so. So sometimes gamesmanship comes into play and you can just get crapped on. Most escorts are great about it, but there is a percentage out there that don't want to give you what you like. Its like a strange game they play. Repeating with them is out of the question.

I once knew a gynecologist who swore that his greatest fantasy was a fully clothed woman.  Mine?  Whatever makes the lady feel sexy.

YOu should come out and ask for exactly what your looking for or you could just make reference to the exact photo your referring to.  mentioning that you really like the "shoes"  she wore and why.  I am sure if you do it this way she will get the hint.


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Just ask!

I always ask my friends if they have any special requests before our meeting (if it's within my reach and affordable). I also ask what his favorite color is, if he is allergic to perfumes or scented oils, and whether he likes his hair buned with a torch or by candle (just kidding on the last one -- wanted to see if you were paying attention). Wink!

Hugs,
Ciara

I am often asked for specific attire and as best I am able comply.  I actually like dressing to please my client.  If you read some of my reviews here on TER you will find mention that I dressed according their criteria.  - Lia