When contacting a lady you have seen before, do you feel comfortable enough to ask certain things via email?  We all know that code words and "certain topics" shouldn't be discussed via email when scheduling for the first time with a lady.  Does this situation change once a guy has become a regular?  Does he feel more comfortable with the lady to ask certain questions when wanting another session or does it matter anymore?

Would love to hear some feedback from ladies and gentlemen.


XoXo

You never know who's gotten themself in trouble and now is trouble themself... you may as well put a tape recorder in the ladies face.  Emails (even when very careful care is taken) are a high risk of resurfacing.

Speak to her face to face.  

Or, what I invite my friends to do:
Feel free to send general emails, not associated with an appointment request.
"Hey, I loved this story!  Check it out."
"This toy looks fantastic.  Do you know if they carry it at BabeLand?"
Etc.

I recommend that you NOT ask to recreate the scenerio, play with the toy, or any other such questions.  They may be seen as solicitation and nary a reply.

Just my thoughts...


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However, if he must, then hopefully he has the sense to say "I'd like to make a donation to the Red Cross in your mother's honor, so how much do you think is appropriate to give them?"

Hugs,
Ciara

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My thoughts exactly.  This is a person I have seen twice who has asked me about a trip to the islands in the Mediterranean Sea.  I just deleted it.  Perhaps he'll have the common sense to know why I haven't responded and don't wish to see him again.

Thank you for your reply.

Never, never, never if it's someone with whom I'm a repeat or a "regular."  It's just really bad taste.  If it's a "beyond regular" situation, then the contours of the relationship determine what should and shouldn't be discussed, just as it would be in any relationship.  I love to flirt, tease and get dirty in emails, but only when the comfort zone is very, very big.

Hell, I ask that before the first date.