What does low volume get you? I could see the problem if the previous date were to be walking out as I walk in. or the provider wasnt clean and prepared for me.
I have never been asked by a provider how many times I have had sex that day.
Does it matter to us how many clients somebody else sees in a week; day; month?
Below, someone referenced somebody who saw between 20-25 clients per week. Is that a five day week, or a seven? If it were 7, then that would be three a day.
Is that every day of the month, or any days 'off'? What about 'that week'?
But, does it matter? I know there are ladies who crank out more than 3-4 a day. I'd even say as many as 6 a day, especially if they are 'open' until 11 or 12pm. There are some ladies who make $200-300k a year. Not many, but there are some.
There are some who crank up the volume for just a time - maybe pay off some bills, buy a car, put some money down on a house, pay off student loans, etc, and then back down their schedule to their 'norm'.
Personally, I'm glad there are all kinds. Because there are all kinds of men, who have all different schedules and different tastes. So, I'm glad that there are all kinds of ladies to accomodate the 'demand'. I'm even glad for the SW types, who, thankfully, take the clients that some of us probably wouldn't want to service. I'm glad for the ladies who are fulltime, so I can refer when I'm not available to fill a request; I'm glad for the ladies who keep late hours for those of us who want a regular bedtime.
Heck, regardless of whether I would WANT to, or even whether I COULD possibly handle that many clients in a day, or week, I can't help but at least ADMIRE someone's ability to keep up with that kind of pace! I do know of one lady, and that's a LOT of work! (No wonder the average 'lifespan' of a provider is three years..) AND, year in and year out? Wow. I don't even know how they would manage the time to go work out, run, or do anything else to maintain the stamina and good health to have that kind of schedule, but they do! To handle and juggle the 100+ emails a day! I'd have to hire some help! Seriously, I'd have to have somebody help with the housecleaning, laundry and cooking; walk the dog and run errands; be my driver; help with correspondence..but these ladies don't usually. They juggle it themselves. It might get an 'ewwwww', but, it also has to get a 'wow'.
For just a teeny while, I fantasize about being that much in demand to receive 100+ emails a day and the phone and pager going off all day long! To have the bank account, after working as many years on this planet as I have, finally look the way it should..that's a nice fantasy.
The average provider has how many dates per month do you think?
Would it be fair to say 6? How about 10? If they were one hour dates, at $300 an hour, that's $3000. Times 12, is only $36k for the year. Not nearly what a lot of people think.
But, I like what I have because it works for me, and I am who I am. And hopefully, others are happy with what they have going, too.
Big hugs for you all out there,
Sedona
I really enjoy your posts, you are so well centered. I always figured most ladies made in the 80K-100K range. But then, I haven't benefitted from anyone's company yet. I'm now near the range you initially spoke of and remember the manual labor of my younger days, under the Texas sun, where 15K seemed more than enough. It seems to me, if you chase money because you think it will make you happy or makes you either somehow "better" or "equal" to others in status; you will always be disappointed.
I dont' think it matters as much as some of the guys here like to say it does. If it did matter to these men, the "assembly line" method providers wouldn't have much business... I mean somebody's seeing them if they have that many appointments.
Just as there are some questions a provider just doesn't ask a client, so are there questions clients don't as providers... "How many guys?" is one of them.
"Does it matter to us how many clients somebody else sees in a week; day; month?"
Not really, though I suppose the fact that some providers do see a lot of clients in a day or week makes some clients uncomfortable because it reminds them of the business aspect or they get "please take a number" images in their head. ![]()
My only concern would be that the provider would be worn-out by a heavy schedule and thus be uanble to give her best to clients who come (ahem) later.
--b.
I am not a woman and have no idea what the capacity of a woman to have sex is, but if she is enclined to make many hundreds of thousands of dollars, who am I to stand judgement.
Sedona, I think of you as an amazing human being. If you chose to do business one or fifteen times a day it would not effect how I feel about you.
Lets face it, unless we all only slept with virgins, we are all running a risk. It is a calculated one and I have chosen to accept that risk. Just like it is reasonable to ask that I am clean, I ask for the same respect in return.
So anyone that thinks or speaks poorly of a woman because she makes money by adding volume should go to a mirror and take a good hard look. (or cast the first stone as it were)
I have never actually thought about this, and I don’t think I would care one way or the other so long as:
--The appointments aren’t so closely spaced that they impinge directly or indirectly on each other
--The frequency doesn’t affect the Lady’s attention
--There isn’t some inconsiderate lout who already took MY time with you!
As long as the lady is clean and fresh, rested and ready, and interested in me (not just the money), I could care less whether I'm her first or fifth of the day. If she's too tired (or too sore or over-sensitive) to enjoy the activities, if she's too mentally/emotionally worn out to carry on an intelligent conversation, if she's packing 'em like sardines to get 'em all in within a short number of hours, or if she's so jaded or hung up on the assembly-line process of making money that she's not what most reasonable guys would consider a GFE, then yeah, it matters a lot.
Which I think is what you're saying as well.
I just wanted to reinterate the point.
I think it only matters to some clients who feel that part of what they are getting by paying higher or in some cases top end rates is a certain amount of quasi exclusivity. In other words they believe the lady fits their definition of a low volume provider. The client's perception may or may not be reality.
Again, I agree with you Sedona. What more do I need to say?
Hugs,
Ciara
-- Modified on 12/9/2003 1:27:16 PM
What a wonderfull, thought provoking thread to follow after that little "pissing contest" in the "good girls list" thread below.
Low or high volume; As long as the lady is clean, unharried and sensitive to her clients needs, wishes and "fantasy" then her personal work volume should make no difference.
Being recently made privvy to a closer look at what all you ladies go through to to do what you do I can only add that I would be interested in seeing how some of our gentlemen here would fair if the tables were turned.
-- Modified on 12/9/2003 8:39:53 AM
Sedona,
Wow! Another classic post and example of why you are one of this boards most esteemed members. Lady, you must have some good karma coming your way. Perhaps it's headed towards your bank account.
Like you I marvel at escorts who have figured out how to handle more volume.
LJ
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