I say go for it! I think most men like to see a woman show some agressive behavior and maybe even loose control a little.....just my opinion....

you seem perfectly comfortable and i'm very happy for that, but chrome down there seems so harsh! all that pounding and grinding  going on ...

shouldn't the man know the basic daty techniques anyway? ... start at the top of the cleft, work the tip of the tongue down the deep of the crack (if you lose your way, go back to the beginning); work the woman's lips apart with this a few times until you feel the deep softness of the hole or the bump of the hood (very interesting to know the tastes and smells all through here); stroke the sides, back and forth until the nerve cord begins to stiffen; follow the ridge to its tip, gently circle, back down and up; let the saliva flow (good to reduce viral stuff anyway); put the pad of the tongue on the shaft of the clit and roll it against the deep bone; suck it very gently to pull blood down, increasing sensitivity; repeat with increased pressure at the most sensitive points (the minx will let you know where those are with her breath and voice); increase speed and pressure; probe the center of the now opened flower; etc., etc., ...

wait, am i in the "how do you do daty" topic? sorry i got started.