Your right, it should be the personality that counts; I believe 99% of the providers think it should be personality also. I'm a diabetic and have poor blood flow, so for example I have trouble doing MISH and DOGGIE, but I'm very good to my main provider and she goes out of the way for my disability more than for anyone. It is due for my extra nice attitude towards her.

I don't discriminate against Anyone that knows how to be a Gentlemen!

Now, if they act like a Jack Ass, that may be Another Story! LOL

WOW! Looks, like I may have too much time on my hands!

Shame on ME!

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Re: In the 3 years I have been in this biz.............

I have had many clients with dissabilities some from birth and other due to accidents later in life. I have always found my time spent of quality . I have learned that as long as you have communication that is all that matters.Using your creativity is a lot of fun for both partners.
The people I have seen are very honest about their dissabilities and their limitations......
One conclusion I have come to is that a quadrapligic's oral skills are above normal.........most definately.

kisses & licks........
mara of san diego

Im a male with a physical disability. I would like to take this oppurtunity to say THANK YOU to all of the providers i have seen.   Due to my disability I find most girls are very hesitant to get involved with me. Therfore I sometimes find hobbying to be a nice outlet for me. ( I just wish it wasn't so darn expensive ).....

Fear Not!

Respectful, Well Groomed Gentlemen come in all shapes, sizes, and modes of movement. Both in and out of this lifestyle, I enjoy the company of people who walk with wheels. I love people and won't let a chair get in my way! And ladies, if you are concerned that a man is too fragile for fun... you'd be surprised how well he can talk you through it! Even the smallest woman can help a grown man get into position with the proper instruction. Relax and follow his suggestions and advice. Just make sure he isn't so new to his situation that he needs his professional assistant to guide you... then again, that may be fun, too...

kisses~Cindy

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Hi Megan,

I have a disability and I have met some wonderful Providers who don't let that get in the way of the session. Thanks to all of them. -DJR