Though perhaps too difficult to answer for my needs.
I've used this technique myself and gotten burned a little. Of course the objective is to test the waters so to speak. If I feel that the session is lack luster then I'm out of there at or before the end of the scheduled hour. But if things are getting really good I ask if we can carry on for more.
I've had dates where I asked them to stay overnight with wonderful results. I've had providers, with drivers waiting, call and tell them to wait some more because she was having such a good time. But then I had a date where we hit it off so very well with conversation before the physical play began only to be just getting warmed up and the sparks begining to fly when the time was up. And the reality set in that she and I both wanted to extend, but her prior commitments wouldn't allow it. She started to consider calling and cancelling her next fella as she kicked herself because she never books dates so close together. I objected to her cancelling on him and she said that she really couldn't do that either. I would have booked another session in a New York minute, but LE got to her first. Bummer!
So how do you know? You really can't set up a date and ask if she has plans for the next X hrs. after you. Do you say,"hey, hold those hours open I might want them, but I'm not committing to pay unless I like the first hour"?
If she's a great provider, she's always gonna be pretty busy. If they aren't busy, I think it's just sort of a random kind of thing. Although holiday season does seem a little bit slower for them I think.
I would think that booking an hour in the late PM may be a fair bet. Assuming that a provider needs some down time between appointments to get herself ready for the next encounter, and also assuming that at some point she may want to eat a meal, or at least something if she'd been working all day, then say a 5PM appointment might work because she has an hour she may otherwise spend eating to spend with you, then getting a quick snack somewhere to tide her over prior to her next appointment. The earned $$ would probably be motivation enough for her to stay on.
Since I usually book more than 1 hour, and typically I book a morning appointment (just my choice and comfort level), I carefully study reviews before choosing the provider. This has helped considerably in justifying the cost of 2 hours because I've had very few bad experiences this way.
Another possiblility might be for you to split the difference and ask the provider if she'll book for 90 minutes. This is a compromise that might work for you initially.
Still another idea is this: ask a provider if she'll meet you for a drink or for coffee, or even lunch without an appointment for "horizontal" time, Pay her a fair but smaller fee for her companionship time, then decide to book based on that experience. I've seen a number of providers advertise this type of arrangement, and I think that it makes some sense.
I apologize for the length of this post. My fingers often get carried away. I hope I was helpful.
Thanks That's actually a bit of a surprise. I travel, and usually arrive Sunday night (tired) then never sleep well the first night in the hotel, so tired Monday also. Generally book Tuesdays, Wednsdays, or Thursdays.
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