So what type does it for you?

Issues of size and performance don't equate, and never will.  Everyone has there own thing where size/shape are concerned...everyone has their own agenda on engagment (some want a permissive set of holes to fill and don't care about anything else, some want to feel an intimate connection and bond, some want a good actress...).  There will always be a wide variety of options to mix and match to meet every possible combination...

But the really juicy enticement is the chemistry isn't it??  Who you can meet that knows how to push your buttons, and visa versa??  That is were the *meat* is in all of this...and that has nothing to do with the superficial question at hand.  In instances of true connection, an average performer goes above and beyond, and curves are nothing but a blur in amonst the passion and intensity.    

And when it gets down to it, I want what *I WANT*, and I don't really care what anyone else's opinion is on that...  I'm sure I'm not alone on that fact.

Regards,

Megan

Does anybody really want 'average' in anything?

While I don't think size has much to do with it I think the vast majority of guys would prefer to be with a provider who makes him feel like the centre of her world for the duration of their date rather than a fantastic looking woman who doesn't care/try.

Superficial aside of course.

Attitude is almost everything for me when it comes to sex.  But I also like women with a little junk in her trunk.

On any given day, my preferences fluxuate with my mood, my appetite and what outside forces inspire me.  There are is no set criteria in my sport fucking other then it being fun!

Cheers!
Megan

Being slim doesn't automatically make a gal a dead fish in bed.
Being plush doesn't automatically make a gal a nymphomaniac.

Why make the choice between stereotypical western beauty and performance, or lack thereof? Why not make the choice between terrific chemistry and awesome performance, or lack thereof? I think there are far more people who think to themselves after a session, "Hmmm, everything went just fine, but somehow I wanted more. She must not be the one for me." I think it has less to do with physical traits, or physical actions, than the feelings someone has when all is said and done.

Gotta like that Redhot and sport fucking though not in my reportoire is a good thing. Do you prefer women more than men in your sport fucking?

Absolutely (at least for me).
If, for two or three hours, she can make me feel (against all evidence) that there is nothing else on earth she would rather be doing, THAT makes me a happy man...
I know why we're both there, and I'm fine with it.  But looking into her eyes & being able to believe is a large part of what I'm paying for.

...I agree chemistry is the ultimate essential ingredient.  I think that in the search for the right chemistry we may often look for a "type" that is appealing, as well.  I have a thing for redheads, but that doesn't mean I try to see redheads all the time.  If I may use you to further the example, the combination of looks, body type and personality that you present in posts and on your website (and the yummy red hair!) are very appealing to me and if I had the chance I'd try and see you because I think it would be a very enjoyable time.  Besides, I've seen Molly and she is way hot for you....lol.  Ever get to Phila?

Attitude is everything.  Do consider visiting Minneapolis on your next US tour.

Give me the Playboy playmate/swimsuit model chassis with a predilection for the prurient; please!

Bolt-on beatification is ALWAYS appreciated, and a J-Lo butt makes me feel like Caesar when tossing the salad..

When out on the prowl or at a swing party, *in general*, I'm more about the ladies...  I get lots of dick in my life already (we always want what is not as readily available, don't we??), and quite honestly, a man has to be a total package of charm, skills, freakiness, size/angles (to a certain degree) and function to *do it* for me.  I find I it easier to connect on a more intimate level with women, even as strangers, then men, but I know this is also about what I bring to the table on that.  I know how to make women feel comfortable and open up more, which is a very erotic thing to be a part of...indeed!

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Don't we all want a total package if we can get it??  If I can't, I'll take chemistry anyday over looks though...

And are you talking about GoodGollyMsMolly??  She's "THE BEST"... *wink*

And sorry, no plans for Philly...I'm trying to simplify my travels starting this fall, and will be focused mainly on NY and Chicago for the time being.  I *might* try and fit in a trip there somewhere...drop me an email and I'll be sure to touch base if I do.

All the best,

xoMegan

Somehow, I know in my heart of hearts that you can and like to fuck. That's usually enough for me, albeit chemistry is an elusive and sometimes hit or miss proposition. Best of luck love.

sometimes, Kimi, a guy can score big and get the best of all possible worlds, walking out with that huge grin and glow, thinking "damn, that was everything i hoped for and more!"

you are living proof that "Being slim doesn't automatically make a gal a dead fish in bed".

Kate Moss gets me hard just thinking about her scrawny little butt.

You are top notch.  Awesome post Carrie.  Wish you were in the States more often.