Yeah, Sham, it's her personality above all else.  And, by the way, she also knows who she is.

Jacksonlips

Let's start with her french pedicure and proceed to the high arches of her exquisitely formed small feet. From there we'll stop briefly to admire her nicely turned ankles before running a finger up her achilles tendon. Notice the gentle curve of her calf and the softness of the back of her knees. Did I mention that here is where we find one of her erogenous zones?

Notice the smooth, toned, thighs. You wouldn't know from looking at them, but gentle caresses and soft kisses on the inside of them cause her to shiver. The higher we go, the more likely she is to convulse or twitch uncontrollably. Before we discuss the center of creation, I'd like to direct your attention to her hip bones. Now I've heard that there are those who consider them a little too boney, but I love how they form soft shadows on her abdomen and mons pubis when the candlelight is just right.

Candlelight is also the perfect illumination under which to observe her stomach. You can't help but notice her abs and navel, which is the perfect vessel for holding and warming 1/2 dram of cognac or port. Note how her waist curves inward from her hips. A gentle nibble here can be very stimulating, though it has been known to tickle on occasion. Circling around to the rear, we find  a soft, curvy backside that curls in and rises sharply to form the hollow that is the small of her back. You can just see her spine underneath the skin.

Following the spine, we will stop occasionally to run our hands over her rib cage. Now, you may be tempted to immediately caress her breasts, but if you start at the bottom of her rib cage, run your hands up and around to the back, you will find a pair of beautiful shoulder blades. When she's stressed, she loves to have these massaged in order to release tension. Afterwards, you may proceed around to the front.

What I like most about her breasts are how responsive her nipples are. She can get very excited and wet simply from the careful application of lips, tongue, and teeth. I'm pretty sure that one of these days I'll get her to come strictly through breast-play alone.

Now then, cup her breasts and run your fingers up and along the inside of them until you find her sternum and, above that, her collar bones. The area above her collar bones turns purple when she orgasms. It fades after a few minutes, but that flush returns every single time she comes. (For you ladies out there, this is very common, but not universal. We _can_ tell when you're faking if we're observant. See Masters and Johnson.)

I must digress for a moment to mention her hands, fingers, and arms. She has smallish hands with long fingers. Her nails are always well done, and she's careful not to scratch too hard or deeply. (Most of the time, anyway. She doesn't always maintain control when her collar bones do that chameleon trick.) Her arms have just a hint of light, soft hair that stands on end when you blow on it.

Follow her arms up past the shoulders to her neck and we're back on the main tour route. Her neck is soft and very kissable. The back of it (where it meets her hairline) has a slight musky scent. It's a natural scent. She doesn't know what causes it, but others have mentioned it so it's not just me.

If you follow her hairline, you'll come to the area behind her ears. You have to be careful here, because her ears are very sensitive. She doesn't particularly like a tongue here, but she loves it when nibble on her lobes or breathe gently through your nose into them. Something about the soft, warm breeze.

Kiss gently around towards the front of her ears and down her cheekbones and you'll reach a soft, full set of lips. Now, it is worth spending a considerable amount of time kissing here. Occasionally, move down slightly to kiss her chin and the hollow below it.

Afterwards, move back up and kiss her eyes closed. When she opens them again, note the rich brown color. This is the only thing I'd change about her. I'm a sucker for blue eyes. But her eyes change color from brown to hazel, depending on her mood, so I'll let it go.

As you gaze into those eyes, run your hands through her hair. It's long, falling to just below her shoulder blades, and smells wonderful. It also changes color from time to time, but I'm pretty sure it's not from anything I do.

But the best thing about her, the thing that attracts me most to her, is her mind, personality, and spirit. She's sharp and witty, even acerbically funny at times. She's educated, opinionated, complex, and honest. She's also a friend. I can't spend enough time with her. Without what's _inside_ her head (and heart), she wouldn't be my ATF.

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Oh, personality and attitude are important.  A sense of sincerity is essential.  I'm sensitive enough to recognize honesty, and if it's present, I can make a connection.  It can be as simple as the way she talks to me.  Everything I've written here assumes I'm interested in her on all the basic levels.  But when the other stuff occurs, then she can be the ATF.  

tennis

My ATF knows who she is and she would kick my ass if I were to get "gushy" about her on this board. All I'll say is;
She most certainly has me under her spell.

  Cm.

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I've had the pleasure of two ATFs.  Both of which I've manage to still see at the same time.  One has a great body and has a constant and consistant personality.  Never goes crazy on me.  The other is gorgeous but is as constant as the wind, forever changing, but somehow we have hung onto each other for a year.  Finally, both of them have seen me when I was very ill and looking like a corpse and they still loved me somehow!  I need them both and love them both and I'll enjoy them until the day they walk away and retire.  Then I'll find another!!