I ask because this post has the same whiny, petulant, self-absorbed flavor as DTS's posts.  If she was only "one of" your ATFs can't you simply call one of the others?  Sheesh.

Alot of women do not contact gentlemen directly, even if asked to do so. I certainly don't. Refraining from contacting you is part of being discrete. Even if a gentleman assures me that I can contact him with certainty that no one but he will see the e-mail, I don't trust myself to remember who can safely be contact and who can't. It is better to refrain from contact and be thought of as being rude by one man, than inadvertantly land some other man in divorce court with an irate wife.

My suggestion is to keep an eye on her calender so that you will know when she will be visiting your town again and contact her when she's coming to visit.

Just my two cents.

You knew she was in town and you didn't contact her?
If she is an ATF, why not?

You are supposed to make the first call, not her, in the interest of discretion.

So I went to another dealer.  Boo fuckin' hoo.  Smokey the Grow Up and Be a Man, Silver.

Create a new one.
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