a nice Gentlemens club does NOT promote sex.
they may turn their backs and not see whats going on, but they don't promote it only the sleezy ones do.

Most women in this biz do NOT start by stripping that's a myth. there is a percentage of ladies who stripped first but its smaller than you think.

my suggestion to you is Stay out of her business. you don't belong in it its just messy. shes a big girl and can handle herself and if she isn't and needs someone to champion for her she shouldn't be in this business. It will eat her alive. Walk away my friend.
she needs to be able to handle this on her own.

A friend of mine decided she was going to be a stripper a few weeks ago.  To say she would be the last person you would expect to be a stripper would be an over statement.  Not that she doesn't have the looks because she is beautiful (think Julia Roberts).

1) Many strip clubs frown on actual sex taking place on premises.  Your friend needs to find one of those.
2) I know a gal who worked at a strip club where no sex was permitted.  She wanted to provide sexual services and started doing it on her own.  She's quite proud of the fact she blazed that trail.
IOW, there are lots of ways this goes down.   Your friend needs to do some homework.

it is actually a nice club so I am not sure I agree with your theory.

Nicole is right. The more respected "gentleman's clubs" would never promote, or frankly encourage sex. Ever. The fact that your lady friend refused to have sex from a client and was later threatened by a working member of the club is all we need to know about the establishment she is working in. It's a dive. Period.  

Agree...100%
I have been in a lot of clubs and all of the girls were very paranoid about management knowing what was going on. Typically just hj through the pants & I found impossible to finish except for once & that took 90 minutes & I had raw spots a week afterward.

I've been in strip clubs in quite a few parts of the country and  have yet to see one where actual sex was promoted.  Of course I avoided going into places that looked skanky. Your friend needs to get out of the sticks.

That your "friend" found herself in a bad situation?
Or that you seem to live in the Sticks too?

Rather be a dick than a complete naive Mangina.

That they are forcing her into being a prostitute?  LOL

CPA's Commonsense Court air?

Shark Tank

1 offered HJ
1 offered BJ
2 chicas who let me DATY
2 chicas who went down on each other while I watched
1 chica who took me home and taught me how to f@ck

Promotion, demotion, and discipline based on sexual activities toward the boss and/or whom he so chooses is not legal and yes, she can sue for a pretty penny.

Because she shook her tits in front of a crowd legally, and rejected someone for trying to manipulate her into prostitution?

But I'm sure some moron of an attorney would take on a case that is baseless.  Certainly won't be the first time...nor the last.

just don't expect me to email back and forth 50 times/day.

I sincerely hope you heed that advice, this can only end badly for you in so many ways. The olde, and hopefully wiser I get the more I've come to realize that it's best to concern myself with my business and not anyone else's. I've read between the lines enough to understand that you are genuinely concerned and that your intentions are mostly noble and for that very reason you are even more vulnerable to be the bad guy if you attempt to intervene. This is not to say you shouldn't offer your sincere and honest opinion on the matter if you are asked for it, but only if asked. Good friends are hard to come by, I hope she knows she has one in you, and appreciates that.

Think for a minute.

As I posted to BCG...there's whores out there who'll take on any unfounded claim.  

Perhaps some shister attorney can convince someone of some  baseless convictions...but in the real world the gal knew exactly what the gig was.

she has the text from the idiot VIP Jug Head that clearly hangs himself and therefore the establishment as it relates to him pushing her to have sex with a guy that paid for the VIP.

the court doesn't rule in her favor?

...5 providers personally that danced in strip clubs before becoming escorts. I have had sessions with three of them as providers. One was fired from the club because she was caught giving a blow job in the VIP room. That's when she became a provider. She is now out of the business. Two are still providing. Two are out of the business but I hear one of them is occasionally taking appointments in another state. I knew three of them while they were dancers. I met the other two as a providers. It turns out I had seen one of them (never spent time with her) in the club about 10 years earlier. I had blow jobs from the three in the VIP room on many occasions.  

First...no stabbing my foot.  My comment was the attorney's get paid regardless of the outcome.  Hence the plaintiffs (that's the stripper) attorney gets paid to get body slammed in court...if the judge even allowed a hearing on the case.  If he doesn't allow the case to be heard due to insufficient evidence, the plaintiffs attorney still wins as he got paid to do nothing (aside from filing a brief).

Never ended up doing it bc I chickened out. I will say, I did feel strange at the atmosphere when I walked in --- which is why I opted out.

Bwahhhh!

..would indicate that you are pretty far off base on this one.. google "a popular tits and wings national chain" sexual harassment case and you will see that not only can a case be brought, but successfully litigated on the part of a person working in a sexually oriented atmosphere claiming sexual harassment.. Neither logic nor common sense have been applicable in the US legal system for quite some time.

First...no stabbing my foot.  My comment was the attorney's get paid regardless of the outcome.  Hence the plaintiffs (that's the stripper) attorney gets paid to get body slammed in court...if the judge even allowed a hearing on the case.  --- tell me why, and how many cases do you know of this?

Go ahead and hire the attorney that C.o posted about...I'm sure he'll be very excited to get your advance retainer and get cracking on this multi-million dollar harassment suit  LOL

and valuable use of resources?   lol  

Sounds to me like you are really just fishing for information in a voyeuristic way.

something.

YOU (or the OP's gal pal) had an option.  YOU knew that shit was going on that you didn't want to participate in.  YOU elected to leave.

You win hands down and are in the lead for PUSSY of the year keep up the good work.

And a marketing blog from an attorney is a far cry from legal precedent for winning or even forcing a settlement.  

Elsewhere, he's talking about quitting hobbying for a SO but is posting ISOs and these voyeuristic fantasies.

another dipshit heard from... google didn't tell me anything.. it provided a link the article I was looking for at bit faster than running down to the library and flipping through the microfiche files..

and clueless about the legal system.

there are hundreds of losers.

You need a written communication proving he was told to do that.

I met someone I really liked and I also feared.this man in particular was just not the person you would want to get caught lying to. never the less I came clean about my massages with the hand jobs in the few gfe people I had started seeing. we worked it out and I moved in with him and I found a place to go to cosmetology school nearby.
after working several different minimum wage jobs being up at 5 in the morning then going out to school from 5 to 9 and not getting home till 11.
as well as not having support our financial help from either parent.
not having the proper attire I was expected to wear for school. I was rolling pennies for gas and I had to switch to JP ligets.
I persuaded him to let me dance as it is very common for women to dance while they're going to school especially if they do not have any financial support from family. he took me around and showed me a few clubs he approved off and I chose one. I won't say any names the one I chose is on Salisbury beach and there is a no contact rule. there are bouncers everywhere and the customers must a arms length away. even during the dances.  
the man who owns it has both of his daughters working there as well as his wife.  
so at that place there was obviously never anything going on like that.
I worked at another club in downtown Boston and 3 in Rhode Island.
and a bachelor party company in Malden which no longer exist, or moved to a different location or something.
there was not a one where anyone in couraged extras.  
there was one where it was a little obvious that it was going on and it had a reputation for being as such.
but it was extremely down and dirty and scary there and you would know it before going into that that's the kind of place is it was it was very low end.
of all the other places except that one they were all places that forbid that.  
in fact you have a reason to get very angry if gentleman expect that.  
for me I was there because I was trying to change my life I would get very angry if anyone ever expected anything in VIP from me and I would not feel bad about taking their money and not doing the appointment they had expected they get.
I got 375 from a guy wants for a private at a certain upscale huge club
he got mad he thought he was going to get an extra and walked out on me
I was extremely mad because shame on him to go into an entertainment clubs and expect a model and answer to provide prostitution.
being a dancer is being a dancer and doing extras is doing extras.
they are two separate things if you do choose to do the extras the people should be very careful because it can cause the club to get fined and shut down.
one of the clubs I worked out did get find several times
I am unsure what kind of a gig she went to but it sounds like it was a bad experience
I hated dancing every minute of it and I am glad I don't have to do it anymore

Don't you have a sexy girlfriend that you're supposed to go and kiss her ass?

You are enjoyable to play with.  Like dealing with a 2yo

I have more support for a woman's right to make the decision, that do not place her in those situations to begin with... You are looking out for are femme fatale, I want her to have to the prudence to look out for herself as well.

It's the way the legal system works in the US.

Conflating the two doesnt help your point. The hooters girl serves food and doesn't take men back to an empty booth to at minimum let them fondle her with clothes on. The lines drawn there are publically light years apart.  

Since you're so busy running that empire of yours...and saving the teeny-boppers from prostitution.  LOL

Pls go play with the girlfriend now.  

It must be difficult to be you.  I have no doubt you sit alone, living on these boards and hoping you are not turned away by the next provider.

I don't give a shit about some lawsuit.

Not according to some of your recent posts elsewhere  LOL

And for some CEO that is a world traveler I would expect more.

Best way to show you got creamed in your argument.

You should stop while you're only this behind.

Hence his digging to get into the Olympic Village.

that it's a true story, it is definitely the exception and not the rule at strip clubs. My info comes from 40 years of patronizing strip clubs, dating a few strippers, befriending many, and also befriending bouncers, staff, bartenders, and owners of strip clubs

Old MacDonald had a farm, e-i-e-i-o.....

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and when I pulled into the drive, it hit me.

I bet that business is thriving under your visionary leadership!  CEO and traveling dogsbody perhaps?

a very bad one, but still. No one has to know.

Perhaps you can discuss your differences, maybe identify with each other on insecurities or questions related to the hobby…  

Some of the best clubs have hookers...  I remember one that would send a bus for the VIP guys, and transport them to private parties set up by the club. It was 300 a pop to get in and got you 2 girls, free food, and open bar.  There are cameras in most VIP rooms nowadays, but the door man is who you tip out to take care of that. It's really not all that strange of a thing, in ANY club. Some owners promote it, some don't but it's more about greed and stupidity vs. being upscale or not.

Hooters... uses provocatively dressed young females to serve over priced drinks and wings to male customers.. has a business license and presumably pays taxes on operating profits..

If she is an hourly employee ,  she might have a case .  
That's another reason gentleman club strippers are hired as  independent contractors  .

And in most cases it would be argued that they are employees.

Went to a strip club in Charlotte (very nice place downtown) and took a girl up to the VIP room after we had a nice talk downstairs.  I was used to being told at other clubs that my hands had to stay on the back of the couch, but she was grinding and apparently having a good time so I asked if I could touch.  She leaned over, said "That's what I'm here for, honey!" and stuck her tongue through my ear to tickle my tonsils.  She had no problem with me doing anything I wanted with my hands and she slid her hand into may pants a few times for some strokes.  Great foreplay!
After a second lap dance (of course) and we were walking downstairs, another stripper that was upstairs putting her outfit back on pulled the girl aside, saying excitedly "You're not supposed to do that!  If they saw you do that on one of the cameras, they'll fire you because of the police!"  
My girl looked for the cameras and there were places that they could have been, behind some plastic screens.  She said to me "Don't worry about it, honey.  Just let me get you down in Fort Lauderdale and you can do anything you want!"
Conclusions:
1.  They have surveillance cameras, almost certainly are taping.  Didn't sign up for that.
2.  Despite local ordinances, LE will vary with what they allow in different areas, maybe by different clubs depending on relationships.
3.  If doing a VIP dance, always spend a few minutes before committing to build some rapport, then a minute into the dance, ask if you can bend the rules.
YMMV

A lot of clubs hire the strippers as independent contractors, not employees.  That may limit liability.

How many hooters get zoned out of residential areas? How many strip clubs? Ever heard the term "Red light" district?
 
How different is a stripper from a dancer wearing the same clothes to start? Have you ever read the entertainment trademark of Jenna Jameson? ...I'll enlighten you. It has a specialized set of language for erotic services. You would not need this trademark to cover your time at Hooters but you would at a strip club.
 
Of course if you want to sit there and make the (dumb) straw man's argument that Hooters girls are scantily clad and have a business license, therefore they are the same as strippers, you look the fool. The operational definition of allowing nudity and groping puts it under the category of sex services. The business license is different. or do you think all businesses get the same license? Doi. That's what puts light years between a waitress and a stripper, however they are clad, for the purposes of a potential sex harassment suit...Not the clothes. Lol.

She can legally fuk him up.  
Law now allows victims to sure these predators.
Laws have caught up with these predators. First step in minimizing the abuse by others like sexual exploitation.