On Sunday, I told you guy/gals, that after I had a session I had with a provider I was meeting for 1st time, I was surprise to see my ATF sitting in the living, after the session was.

This morning I got a text message from ATF, wanting to have a date this evening before she leaves tomorrow morning.

for dates and you approve of this? WOW!

It is not like I have to hide it. But asking for a date just isn't cool.

I don't bother keeping info. because I feel if a guy needs me, he will contact me. If he needs a reference, same thing.

And many guy don't want them to. I don't mind as I am open to a real friendship  forming (nothing more), and I don't need to hide anything. I don't require it of them. I get and respect that most need to keep the hobby world separate form the rest of their life. No problems there. ")

I was just pointing out some are open to the ladies getting a hold of us. Asking for a date is a bit cheesy and classless though especially after seeing him with someone else the day before. So basically I was agreeing with the spirit of your post but not with what you said.

The appointment.  

Seriously though, don't let her own you brother. She's not doing you a favor be seeing you, you're paying her.

from the norm here. Most guys are married and don't want any bs calls or emails unless they are expecting it. That's why I posted what I did, but moreso because as you stated "she asked for a date" vs. just saying hello.

Living a lie must be rough. I couldn't do it. The best thing that happened to me in this hobby out side of making some friends I have is when my cousin outed me to many of my family and friends. Life is so much simpler when you are not ashamed of what you are doing and can be open about it. I get that life doesn't always allow things to be simple and fun. I guess I am just lucky that way.

I got what you were saying and why. I am just being difficult.

Most of the ladies I have seen know my situation. I'm cool with it if they want to send me random messages or chat. I actually find it flattering.


It also doesn't bother me if they just let me know when they are going to be in the area. I have even asked a few to do just that. They know I want to see them again at some point anyway so why not give me a heads up?


There is one local lady who makes a habit out of letting me know when she needs money and/or pushes me for a date. I have told her to back off a tad but things haven't changed much. Totally uncool!!

you speak of too lol!

hope you at least extracted a little pain for the outing... personally would have whopped his ass!

Dear ChipJeep... I'm having trouble with my rent, utilities, and car payments. Things have been slow and I know you haven't seen me lately... Can you please see me...but seriously, need more than an hour, like I said its been slow, can you book... oh I don't know...maybe two days? That would really help me out... Did I forget to mention that my mom moved in and she needs help, can you fuck her too. Her SSN doesn't cover near enough of my expenses... But seriously, you are such a great guy and I just love your penis, you are the best ever and I know you would just love to have me for three whole days, I know I said two, but just realized that my child needs braces too. You don't mind do you??? Your so sweet... so I have you down for four days and you can go ahead and leave a deposit since you are booking five days, wow you are just so awesome. I can now make me husbands truck payment, he will be so happy...Your the best! See you next month, don't forget to make the deposit today for that week your booking....wow you are so great. I can't wait to tell momma your gonna fuck her instead of me... your the best xoxox

More of the family ostracized him than me. He was a cop and many in my family filed a formal complaint. He ended up getting suspended then dismissed from the force. he ended up losing his house as he had no job and couldn't make his mortgage. My family does not take kindly to rats aim to ruin a marriage with gossip.

In the end I had to rescue his rear from his choice to try to hurt me or he would have ended up in the shelter and as a former cop that may not go to well for him. In the past I have done some horrible things to him. He had reason to hate me. He is now staying at an apartment I own with greatly reduced rental rate.

Karma is a bitch!!!!!

I'm single, no g-f, no s-o.  I actually like it when they let me know they are coming to town ahead of time.  That way, if I don't have anything set up already I can make a date with a little more freedom in choosing the time.  In fact, my last date was with a gal that had seen me on DC, P411, here, and on a local board she had recently joined.  She asked if I was interested in seeing her.  She had been on the fringe of my bucket list, so I figured why not.  Had a little bump in scheduling, but got to meet and had good time.  My first new review in over a year.

Swim

how did he know? I am glad you feel free by being out, but I never would. I would feel more like trash if my family and friends ever found out about this, but I don't think it's as bad for a guy seeking sex as it is for a girl who sells it....always will be that way, I am sure.

Girl emails local client out of the blue after reading reviews of providers he did extended dates and overnights with...basically she knew he had money, but he never asked to see her.

She asks "why have you never contacted me and tried to see me, I am in your back yard?" He says, "well I was thinking about it so I will take you up on your summer special."

She retorts saying, "WTF, I know you can afford the regular rate and I want an apology before I ever see you" lol. Just WIN all the way lmao!

I know the lady and situation more than I would like to because I met both of them in KY, and I must say he knows what he is doing. She is the type of gal that gives 4 hours for the price of one just because, but no I would never call anyone and ask them to give me money. I am sure I would not appreciate it if a guy said "Hey London can we fk today and I will pay you next week" lol.

Real names were not used to protect the innocent and any semblance of possible reality was completely coincidental!! LOL...

You are fun London... you are fun

I know and it was as funny as all get out ha ha!

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Real names were not used to protect the innocent and any semblance of possible reality was completely coincidental!! LOL...

You are fun London... you are fun

My info was on her phone with a date and time. What was worse was my wife outed herself to defend my honor. She took some heat as did I form that but other than my family trying to lead us to God nothing bad happened. Small price to live honestly and openly. Truth be told I took more of a beating on this board than from my friends and family. How is that for irony?

LOL London is still upset because she had some drama with this very attractive young lady, and things did not go in her favor.Be aware London causes drama wherever she goes.Only problemis she  is running out of boards to post on.

Please elaborate because I don’t see one. If two people like each other, why should it matter?

Suppose, in an era Jerry Springer, Maury and Judge Judy, everything becomes drama on the public square!