Saw a 21 year old provider today. Just doesn't do it for my any more. I'm 38 and feel that I'm in pretty good shape especially for my age; althought irrelevant. I've been with several providers my age and older and feel that they provide a much better experience. There is something to be said for wisdom and experience. The older and more experienced providers just "get it". Am I on an island here or do many others feel the same?
A real hottie I was excited to see. She talked a great game. The session was a dud. She was really tentative and was way too tight to visit the Isles. Lesson learned: go with some experience.
Older providers always seem to know how to please me and many know how to please both of us. Younger providers usually don't know how to please either party. Its a matter of headspace rather than experience between the sheets, IMHO. I just saw a provider in Las Vegas who is 47. She was simply one of the sweetest human beings on the planet. Miss Marie is her name, but she is leaving town soon. Could it be an over-supply of 20 year olds on the market?
I don't think just because a provider is young in her 20s she doesn't know what she is doing.I'm 24 and most of the gentleman I see are older than me and I have never had any complaints.I have seen gentleman that think the same way they want a lady that is older,but they took a chance with me.I usually hear you do not act,talk,or carry yourself like you're in your 20s.I can carry a conversation on just about anything,but I have heard gentleman make statements that ladies in their 20s too childish or play games.I say don't lump every lady that's in their 20s as being like this their are plenty of us that are intellectual,hot,and know how to handle our business.
Now I'm a LOT older.... but the younger ones just don't do it for me anymore. Frankly, they make me feel my age and feel bad for being with them. Once a woman is in (at least) her late 30s, I relax about the whole thing.
Do you want to fuck or talk? A twenty-one y.o. that likes to do it can be lots of fun, but don't expect any gray matter per se, however, sometimes you can get lucky. On the other hand, someone more in the 28-35 range can really give you both. Since you are paying, buy what best suits your mood and temperament because any thing less gives you the reason for your question.
I'm 28, and I usually see providers that are 20 and 21. And some do seem a bit immature. The best providers I've had all been 23 and 24. I know that's not a big age difference, but I've notice the older the provider the better the sex, and rapport with them is.
I had a young 21 year old provider literally watching the clock during a 40min session the entire time.
It's the experience and maturity. I know some well seasoned ladies that are more like the 20-somethings you describe and some 20-somethings that are more like the mature-somethings you describe.
I am not into a PYT that is going to lay there and not participate. That's why I go for the early 30-something crowd when I can. Increases the odds for what I like. Nobody else, but me...
I have played with older providers who were not open to anything and had way too many rules....they were late, drunk, whinned all the way through the appointment, and were high as hell....I will never play with them again...not even p4p
....and I have played with some younger ladies who are very mature....very uninhibited.....and are really well balanced. Were on time, did their thing and the client was all smiles when we left.
Maturity has very little to do with age.....it is really how a lady is wired. I have a little friend in San Francisco who REALLY REALLY REALLY has her shit together....and I don't think she is a minute over 21.
It is a rare find a young person who is emotionally mature....it is also very weird to be around an older provider who is not mature.
I do my research, and usually have a good time with any age. However, I prefer ladies who are over the 30. My atf is 35. I've had my AARP card for a number of years.
but its whatever makes you happy, if thats the older ladies then why see 21 year olds? Its your money and time spend it how you want to, with who you want too.
Saw a 21 year old provider today. Just doesn't do it for my any more. I'm 38 and feel that I'm in pretty good shape especially for my age; althought irrelevant. I've been with several providers my age and older and feel that they provide a much better experience. There is something to be said for wisdom and experience. The older and more experienced providers just "get it". Am I on an island here or do many others feel the same?
That some of the younger girls are defending their age. Plenty of guys like girls on the younger side of mature as well as girls who are mature. Not only that but it is not like they are never going to get any older . I mean we do not stay young forever
So I guess what i am saying is if some of the guys do not care to see a girl under 25 then when the young lady reaches an age of maturity I am quite sure she would have a new group of guys interested in someone her age at that time. No need to be insulted at all , your going there too ,really you are. It is not like they are saying I reallly want a four legged girl .Clearly something they cannot compete with .
Saying things like older is just older sounds well , a bit young to be honest.A bit vendictive even.There is a certain grace that comes with age. Saying nasty things is smiply not graceful .
I think yong providers are typically beautiful. They are sporty adorable have great asses lol .They definately have their share of the market.You can not please everyone everytime .If the guys find they enjoy the experience more so with a mature girl or a younger girl it is their choice , their time which btw is not less valuable than our time, and their money. It should clearly be their choice ,a choice that at this time the cycle is running in a mature provider favor.I think it maybe recession related .people do not want to take as many chances when money is tight .It is somewhat cyclical as well.At some point the guys will try on another shoe of a different type and be back and then forth and so on.
Then we have expectation and intent. but that is an entirely different thread It really is one of those things ,To each his own There are many guys who want to see girls of all ages.Maybe they want a hot bodied youngster for the visual , maybe on another day they want to explore something in a way that they do not lead. Maybe sometimes the sex organ they are concentrated on is the little head ,sometimes they are in the big head .Personally for me it all starts between the ears not the legs. That being said sometime we all just want to get laid and just having someone there to do that with at whatever age is perrrrfectNot so much about age as it is being on the same page Personally if I were searching for a provider I would try the hellen keller Institute I would like mine to be deaf, dumb and blind Girls talk too much , Kendall Lynn
Saying things like older is just older sounds well , a bit young to be honest.A bit vendictive even.There is a certain grace that comes with age. Saying nasty things is smiply not graceful .
There is nothing nasty about what she said. There's a very strong bias towards the older providers on here and I can see how it would be irritating to read. Not only that, but she's right. Age is not any gaurantee that someone is going to be smarter, more interesting or mature. There are plenty of empty-headed oldsters walking around, just as there are lots of cool, interesting young people that have their shit together.
I did not indicate i felt yonger people lack intellect or that they are not interesting at all.
I do not agree that there is a bias toward older providers as you stated or any in the other direction either.Maybe, but i do not personally see that. In fact this thread is evidence that there is not a bias.
Guys said they liked ladies in both directions.This is just how you feel.One person just like I am one person with an opinion..
I just stated to each his own and that it is cyclical.That saying older is only older is sort of silly it is not different than me saying younger is only youners.Although I wouldn't say that
What I said was they are beautiful, adorable ,sporty and have great asses .So where's the issue? lol I also said guys should get what they want it is their money and time and their choice .Did you read the same thing I wrote?? Don't be a kiss ass Alex It is not attractive lol don't get upset I am teasing you Have a great day Kendall Lynn
That is way too true. Some ladies in this business talk way to much to there friends about their clients. But I have not found any ads from any deaf, dumb, and blind escorts. LOL. I am looking though. PM me if anyone knows of one in Utah. I will travel. LOL
So do I. I don't do the 18-21 year olds unless I see information that says they are mature beyond their years. 22 year olds are game. My perfect range is 23-26 years old. I just can't simulate the feel of being with a young women if I try women that are older than what I prefer. I tried older providers but found that most came with baggage that I rather not have to deal with, there were some exceptional exceptions, but not enough to have me hobbying with older women unless I want services such as greek.
I've been with young providers as well as older ones, and I"ve had really good experiences and really lousy experiences with both age groups. It completely depends on the lady, and that is why reading her reviews are crucial before meeting her.
I like young women. Women that are finished with college, have an education with a sense of what they want to do with their lives. One problem with the hobby is that there is so much money being sloshed around that immature young women who have no idea of what they want to do in life or how to please a man or themselves are setting up shop in droves. Some of the immature ones who stick become top notch providers with time, but one has to be willing to go through some reasoning with them.
Knowadays it seems younger people for the most part were not raised with an emphasis on self reliance. I worked from the age of 13 because I wanted money since in my mind at the time it = FREEDOM. I wanted the power to do and buy stuff. Doesn't take anything all that ingenious if it's spoon-fed to you.
It's been pretty cushy for the last 25 years. In a lot of ways I think that has stunted the individual drive for self discovery and it's ensuing wisdom; it has not been materialistically as necessary.
I agree. As a over 30 provider I think I am a much better lover today than I was at 20. Also, I get much better lovin from a over 30 gent than I have from a younger one. My experience only.
I generally look for ladies between 18 and 40, but I have seen a lady in her 50's and had a really good time, and I will see ladies of any legal age if they get my interest. Age is not a big issue for me and I have had good and not so good sessions both older and younger ladies. Each age group has its own charm that turns me on.
I've been with several 19 year olds that were very mature, and some that I felt were just kids. My four favorite providers are 20, 21, 21, and 22 (as far as I know). I've been with several older ones as well, up to early 40s. If you find the right young providers they're just as mature as the older ones. Sometimes even more so. But for a really good BBBJ I look to the older providers.
there is no "one size fits all" to humanity... you could be missing out on the best experience of your life by giving ANY one type of lady the cold shoulder.
i am 24, so not quite as young as the young lady who left you feeling so disappointed -- but MANY people have told me that i am an 'old soul' and mature well beyond my years. certain events in my life expedited my emotional maturation. frankly, i don't mean to sound mean to sound arrogant, but i also honestly believe that i have a sensual skill the average 20something simply doesn't possess. this is because i am in love with the art of pleasure, and extremely intuitive -- i tend to have a gift for 'reading' my lover's body and learning just how to push their buttons while also drawing out their bliss.
it's obviously within your rights to do whatever you wish -- but instead of avoiding younger ladies altogether, perhaps you should simply make your selections a little more carefully in the future.
I have seen ladies from 21-40+ and each one brought an excitement and energy that was unique. Many of my sesssions are 2+ hours and if I find a real connection with a lady I expand that time to 4+ hours. I find that spending long periods of time with a lady that I have a connection to is driven by commonality between us. While I find spending time with a late 20's special lady of mine is challenging on multiple levels, I thoroughly enjoy what she brings out of me during our time together. At the other end of the spectrum, I have a 40ish lady that finds buttons on me that a younger (and less experienced) lady would have trouble finding. In the end, it is not so much the age issue for me, but the personality and energy a lady brings to the party that I use as my criteria for seeing her.
However, there are a couple of young ladies here in Atlanta that are under 25 and absolutely fantastic (including greek)! Check out some of my posts (namely Melissa and Courtney ). But yes, most younger providers are too busy looking at dollar signs to be concerned with true GFE.
Don't just write off the younger ladies. Many of them also "get it". Do your homework, and you will be fine. Although most of the ladies I see would be considered "mature", I did enjoy an evening with a 27 year-old lady earlier this summer. She was young, blond, hard-bodied, and sweet...I had met her previously at one of the mini M&G's that are held in NYC periodically, so I knew it was going to be fun going in. As I said, do your homework...
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