Just wondering what everyone else thinks. When I provider tells you their real name do you then use that name? I personally think of it as theater and Bubbles ( or whatever) is a character they play while working. For me, using their real name would kind of make it more real and less fantasy. I like the fantasy!!

The only time I know it's her real (as in legal) name is if I see a legal document with her name on it.

Otherwise just assume that she's giving you her other real name...the one she gives to nosy johns.

Whether the name she tells you is actually her real name or not, it's up to you what you want to call her: her stage name or her 'real' name.
Also, it doesn't hurt to ask her what she prefers.

I feel it's a way for her to compartmentalize. But in emails and non action situations I use her real name (unless of course she were to ask me not to).

I'm assuming you're using her hobby email to correspond...and using her "real" name (and for this purpose I'll assume it's a legal name vs just another fake name) within her hobby emails...discretion man...discretion.

And if you're using her "real" email...don't use her hooker name.

Yea...I know...very confusing  LOL

only providers who have complete trust in you will tell you their real name..it rarely happens..but if it does it is always held in the strictest confidence..

Otherwise there would not be the outings here or on other sites.

And it is amazing how many "real" names hookers have  LOL

Maybe we can compare notes sometime and see if the "real" names you have are the same ones I have

Are interchangeable. I answer to both equally and neither bothers me. Best is to ask the lady which name she would like you to use.

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