Has anyone had success with Adultfriendfinder? I mean the whole concept sounds intriguing... people who just want to fuck meeting and greeting.

If you tried it, when did you try?
If you had some success, what's your story?

Just curious.

When I first discovered the world of Internet hobbying, I actually joined AFF and met 2 providers through them.  One was fantastic, and the other was mediocre.  That was 2 years ago.  Any other attempts to contact people through AFF were poor experiences.  The people I spoke to didn't leave me with any warm fuzzies, so I let memembership lapse, and they haven't stopped spamming me since.

Its nothing but a spam site. Most of the ads are fake, just looking to get your e-mail addy then spam the living crap out of you.

Like Fortitude, I joined a few years ago, the difference is, I met no one, and all the profiles I was interested in were fakes.

The spam follows me to this day.

AFF seemed like a great idea, but it never quite lived up to my expectations.  I never met anyone through it and really only had a few good email exchanges through it.  I guess they have revamped the site, but I won't go back.

Their all Bull Sh*t, More Sh*t, Piled Higher and Deeper.

And ya don't even get mustard for your spam.

-- Modified on 6/11/2003 9:18:40 AM

women off of AFF.  Most were really fat women who must have problems getting laid, but I figured what the hell, and they all fucked like rabbits.

I've been a member (off and on) of AFF for over 6 years.  The place used to be an OK place to chat and occasionally meet women - and I met my wife there, believe it or not - but over the last couple of years it has deteriorated badly into a spam magnet.  Nowadays, almost all of the profiles, or I should say, almost all of the reasonably attractive ones, are fake.  Not all, mind you... but the vast majority.

Moreover, of the 50 or so women I have met in the chat rooms there and gotten to know well enough to discuss deep personal issues with, *EVERY ONE* has been the victim of rape and/or sexual/physical/mental abuse.  EVERY ONE.  Many of them are great people, but most of them have hangups and/or emotional instabilities ranging from mild to severe.  Often, they are unhappily married, and what they're looking for is not sex, but a white knight to save them from their miserable lives.

Bottom line: forget finding anyone at AFF by browsing through the profiles.  If you put in the time in the chatrooms at the site, and act like a real person rather than a jerk with nothing but sex (real or cyber) on his mind, you will meet some decent women, and might even bed a couple.  But like everything else, the rule of TANSTAAFL applies - you won't find quick, free pussy there any more than you will here.  And besides... free pussy is invariably the most expensive kind.




-- Modified on 6/11/2003 5:23:26 PM

Good advice--I'll stick to the average and fat chicks and wont hold out hope for the good looking ones.and maybe scour the chatrooms.

you met your wife on AFF--so does she know about yer little hobby?

How would others rate your looks do you think? Do you have a good body? or bradpitt's face? or average SWM?

Aff  sucks..  i really questions whether the ads are real.  i got very few responses..

I wouldn't want Brad Pitt's face...I'm very happy with mine.  Body is in great shape and I receive a lot of compliments on it from both providers and civilians.  I have no qualms about calling people fat, ugly or both.  There are a lot of big women out there that look great but there are also some some that I wouldn't fuck with your dick.  Thank god for variety.

I joined AFF as a paying member in its early days.  '97, '98...  Met and got lucky with four or five (not providers).  Even dated one for a few weeks and amd still in contact with another.  But even then it was about a one in 25 reply rate when I tried to contact a lady.  I'm not a subscriber there any more, haven't been there for two or three years, and I don't even know if my ad is still there.  I've changed email addys since then, so I don't get the spam.  Was nice while it lasted.

Amen to the comment "free pussy invariably is the most expensive kind" I read in Time Magazine (don't know where they got their figures) that the average businessman will spend $20,000 in three months on a new affair.  In Phoenix that goes a long ways with the top providers.

SlowStart

4 or 5 years ago I joined AFF when I was between gals. It seemed great when in the first couple of days I had a very nice email from a young 22 year old black girl who said she loved white guys. Eventually we talked on the phone and in conversation she mentioned that her friends said she resembled Tyra Banks. YEAH!  A phone sex session ensued and I decided to set up a meeting at a popular restaurant bar by her house about 30 miles away from me for the following night. I was excited all day long and could hardly wait for the get together.
I drove down there and walked into the bar looking for my Tyra Banks lookalike. As soon as I walked in I saw her. All 350 lbs of her. She was the only black girl in the place and was eyeballin me and waving as soon as I walked in the door. Damn, too late to turn around and get the hell out of there. Since I was there, what the hell, I will have a couple of drinks and chat. She was actually very nice.
I was dissapointed about the lie she had given me, but did not call her on it.
The positives were her giant breast. The biggest negative was the equally giant hump on her back. I knocked back a few cold ones and told her I had to go to work unexpectantly and left. That is my AFF story, as well as my Tyra Banks story.

I don't hobby all that much - if you look up my reviews, you'll see that there's a fair amount of time between most of them.  My wife is the definition of "nympho" and is highly multi-orgasmic, and we have a great, active and varied sex life.  But I like occasional variety, especially in body type.  What can I say - I'm a tall guy and have always been most attracted to tall, slim women, but all the women I've ever been involved with on a long-term basis are 5'5" or less.


-- Modified on 6/12/2003 5:21:04 AM

Well, should you ever come visit San Diego, I think Elise, and MeaganLee, and maybe even Lara could suit your needs...

xo,
Sedona

Why would you want to fuck a rabbit?

I agree with all of the aforementioned unfavorable comments.  Also, I subscribed to a similar website called Eroticy, and it was even worse insofar as phony profiles.  I 'worked it' in the chat rooms and befriended some of the women, who I eventually corresponded with via e-mail outside of the website.  One eventually confessed to me that she was indeed an employee of the website, and it was her job to talk to guys, flirt with and tease them, and keep their mouths watering enough to renew their memberships.  The photos on her profile were not her but rather were professional shots taken and posted by the website.

Because of the nature of the beast, the odds are overwhelmingly stacked against men regarding these websites.  One message here said the hit rate is 1 in 25; I would say it's easily ten times that.  The Eroticy employee told me that she received upwards of 500 e-mails...PER DAY.  It became literally impossible for her to respond to them all.

Finally, I'm not sure there's such a thing as 'free' pussy.  With nonproviders, the gift/donation is just redirected to the restaurant, Tiffany's, the ice sculpture dudes for those table settings at the wedding reception, maybe the therapist to preserve your sanity, maybe attorneys for the alimony/child support, and to providers for the oral sex outsourcing.

But, that's just my opinion...I could be wrong.