Ladies, some thoughts on making a better session for us guys. Figured the "MONEY" title would get you in here, too. Some thoughts on that from the guy's perspective. Drawn from the eyelash thread.

WOMEN: worry about things that men don't care about. Similarly, women don't care about some stuff guys care about. Will throw out a few thoughts.

Money. Yes, the eyelash thing. I wouldn't notice and don't care. Save your money. Eyebrows, I do care. Groomed or shaven down there, yes, I care. Yes, spend money on the Brazilian was job.

Money. Lingerie, interesting topic. I do notice, and can tell high quality from Frederick's of Hollywood. That being said, its coming off anyways and if a guy rips it, then that's $$$$ lost out of your pocket.  Your call ladies. I'm neutral. One of the hottest sessions I had, was a girl who just had on very simple white cotton panties under a plaid skirt. Must be from my private school days.

Better Service. Ladies, empty your trash bins. Like a hotel, I want to believe I am the first and only person that has been in that room, even if I know otherwise. A trash bin full of tissues in the bathroom is off putting. I can live with a couple tissues.  

GUYS:

Dry off in the tub. A soaking wet floor towel isn't all that fun. Not that you may care, just saying.  

Your thoughts?

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*Dress sharp even if you're casual.  
*Smell great.
*Bring your charismatic A game.  
*Find out what she genuinely desires before the date.
*Be mindful of fiv  (it can hurt and dry up paradise)
***Don't be afraid to communicate your thoughts, needs and wants.  I  do not have a crystal ball. But, I do want to know what makes you tick bcd.

I think some of the smarter hookers down there have figured out that if a guy has already seen three other chicas that same day, she is not going to have a "two pump chump" on her hands, and that she needs to be prepared to earn her money. lol

 
I have to admit, for years I have made it a habit (like all high volume ho's) to keep my trash bins empty of cum soaked tissues and used condom wrappers.  Just like many johns want "low volume" hookers, most hookers prefer low volume johns.

It sounds like you expect champagne treatment with beer money. Just my two cents.

Hard not to when you're taking a piss and its right next to the toilet.  Are you one of those guys who piss all over the floor and walls because you're looking up at the ceiling when you take a leak?

Looking off to the side would seem to me to be the cause of all the splatter.

It's like in golf, you keep your eye on the ball, or in this case, the bowl.

I'm not sure how you got to that point. Its a business discussion. Where a girl should spend money, and where she should save money to maximize profits, yet not compromise service.

If you're offering 'champagne' service, don't put out paper napkins. If you're serving McDonald's burgers, no sense to spend the money and put lighted candles in silver candle holders  on the tables.

If you say you're a low volume provider and I see a bunch of tissues and wrappers in the trash can, that ruins the illusion. Per the hotel analogy, even the low end hotels clean-up and create the illusion of you're the first person in that room, even though you know you're not. No hairs on the pillows, fresh sheets, vacuumed floor. How would you feel if you went into a hotel room where somebody forgot their dirty underwear in one of the drawers, hair in the shower, and pubic hairs in a used bar of soap in the dish holder?

It's called peripheral vision. When you walk up to a golf ball, you don't notice the leaf nearby, if you're on uneven ground, the area around the ball? If not you're a pretty shitty golfer.

Maybe you just don't have situational awareness. Either way, next time look in the trash and you'll know what I mean.

Providers take note: "The co-founder of a blog called Moms To Work, says she recently took a red Sharpie pen and wrote "AIM" in big letters on her home toilet bowl, and her twin boys immediately focused on the target."

"According to the researchers, it was decided that guys want to directly aim at an animal they can immobilize. The ability to use one's natural gifts and achieve victory over the foe while standing is the key, he explained."

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This was a very helpful post. You should do this more often

It's not that I am lazy or anything but I like meeting one person per day. I like to show that I put that day aside just for them.

love it

Agree!
All about them!

Xo

It's not that I put the day aside for her, it's just a concession to getting older. I will still occasionally see multiple women in a single day, but those days are getting rarer and rarer, and the number has gone down from 4-5 a day to 2-3, even on my best days.

 
It sucks getting old, but it beats the alternative. lol

When I book a date it is all about pleasing 1 gentlemen.  I agree with the lingerie because it just comes off & the majority of my friends don't care they just, like me in my birthday suit.  Funny, post.  I need to try the sharpie marker on my toilets at home.  I have 2 young boys & I think it's a great idea.

Thanks for sharing!

My thoughts on your thoughts . . . .

*Dress sharp even if you're casual.  - Unless its  dinner date, I don't seen the need for this.  I often go in shorts and tennis shoes, but I never wear a T-shirt, always a shirt with a collar.  I never wear sandals to a session.  It just seems tacky.  

 
 *Smell great. - Goes without saying, fresh is best, but I still insist on taking a shower at the incall.  If  its outcall, I will take one 15 minutes before she arrives.  
 

 *Bring your charismatic A game.  -  This is great in theory, but a lot of guys are seeing hookers because they have NO game, much less an A-game.  For us older gents that have plenty of game, we pay because we want someone 20-30 (or in GaG's case, 40)  years younger than us.  Its difficult to do that in civvie life without a huge time investment.  

 
 *Find out what she genuinely desires before the date. -  I don't get this one.  I always bring enough money for the donation and a tip.  She should be finding out what MY desires are.  I'll figure out what she needs to get her motor running on the fly.  

 
 *Be mindful of fiv  (it can hurt and dry up paradise)  - Agreed, if you don't do it right, it hurts her arousal more than it helps.  

 
 ***Don't be afraid to communicate your thoughts, needs and wants.  I  do not have a crystal ball. But, I do want to know what makes you tick bcd.  -  Any nervous "ticks" I have I try to suppress during a session.  Lol

I'm just saying that I don't know any high end providers who display the behavior that you described.... Low end providers yeah. You can't go to a low end provider expecting high end experience.

You have no room to complain!
You are much more active than most even "reeled in by age" 😎😜😜😜😜

Ha ha!

I saw a post of a mom who taped a sign to the open lid that read "If you pee on the seat, I will use your toothbrush to clean this toilet"

😂😂😂😂😂😂