TER General Board
Actually there are so many factors that contribute to a provider being able to get wet or not. One being medication or the pill. It can vary depending on the time of the month as hormone levels make a big difference....when I was pregnant I squirted but can't do it now. Also I have noticed that directly after a bath or submersion in a jacuzzi or pool I can be very turned on and not get very wet...also latex reduces how long some women can stay wet and lube should always be used with condoms as a rule to prevent them from breaking. I use very thin ultra sensitive ones so I do always use lube even if I am very turned on. Then there is of course alcohol which can cause dehydration and of course not drinking enough water. I don't think you men should gauge a womens amount of arousal based solely on lubrication. I get flushed in my chest and often laugh uncontrollably when I have had the big O...I have also been told that it gets really hot in there and if you are really good I sometimes can't even open my damn eyes and feel like I have had at least 10 IQ points knocked out of me rendering me a babbling idiot. Unfortunately I do not always get hugely aroused even though I always enjoy myself. Sometimes I get wet only after penetration as I really like o F*&^% and I sometimes don't even want any foreplay just a straight up hard as hell pounding 
and that is best achieved at first with a bit of lube. I always bring it with me as it canreally help the guy get ready for a second round if you use it with a bit of tantric hand technique. We are not machines and a womens body responds differently depending on so many factors. Perhaps the mystery of it all is why some men just don't even try any more...thank God for those that do.
I have mentioned over and over to gents who visit me, that the latex on condoms does dry me out after awhile. Additonally I drink wine, and caffeine and work out heavily. I sometimes use allergy medication. All these factors lead to dehydration. Including the fact that I before every encounter, I like to freshen up with apple cider vinegar, an astringent, but a great PH neutralizer. So a bit of lube makes everybody comfy. In "general" Sometimes lube is really necessary, so I dont see this as a bad thing. (It only makes sense that lube should be used with condoms that are not prelubed - there is a reason for lube other than "faking" it)
Anyway, isn't making it the best it can be for both parties what this is about, rather than a contest of who is real and who is fake? Good God.
As one of the gents mentioned, why ruin the fantasy...enjoy the fact that the lady makes the effort to please And we do love doing that for you; makes things better all the way round.
xoxo
FF
-- Modified on 8/12/2002 1:43:47 AM
I for one have never been able to do pussy tricks. You are never going to see me picking up a penny with my pussy or smoking a cigg with it (EYEEEEEEW) like those crazy girls in Thailand do! Nor am I able to "train" myself to get wet like an actress... HELLO! OMG! LOLLOL I am sorry I just find that hilarious!!!!
The only pussy trick I can do is kegel contractions... Hehe! And those are fun fun fun!
I get wet when I'm turned on. I like to masturbate before I meet with a gentleman to make sure everything is nice and warmed up and ready to go down there ahead of time! (One orgasm just makes me want MORE) BUT... certain things you should know... how wet a lady gets can also depend on age. I have been told mannnnnny times by a close personal friend that as you get older, your body produces less juice down there regardless of how aroused you are. AND... for me at least, something about the way condoms are made can often dry me right up. It's NOT a reflection of my arousal level... just something about my body that doesn't always agree with condoms.
So easy there killer! A need for a lil' lube does not mean your lady friend is not having a wonderful time. It just means... she needs a lil' lube! That's it! Let's not make a big deal out of something that is not a big deal!
Hugs*
Nicole
