Ladies..How does a consumer find out from a specific provide if she offers a specific fetish? I have emailed several ladies: 3 answered me and 3 gave me a lashing for using such vulgar language and the language is not vulgar. How do I find out?

Please follow these three easy steps:

(1) Become a VIP member;

(2) Do your research by reading and searching through the reviews you are now able to access because you are now a VIP Member/Stud, as well as the discussion boards for you local area; and

(3) Have fun, enjoy and be safe out there!!

Nobody is crazy enough to respond to an email and have it 'in writing'; and nobody is crazy enough to have a phone conversation where it can be taped..

I agree with Sparker that you have to read their reviews, read their postings on the boards, and possibly PM some of the gents who've reviewed her in order to do 'your homework'.

I don't know what fetish you're referring to, but most ladies will do most of the most common things (depending) BUT (again depending) you may have to see her a few times so she can get to know you, ie. it's not likely that on the first 'date' she'd let you tie her up and blindfold her (nah...)..
And, if asphyxiation (sp) is one of your fetishes, it's not likely that will be on the menu no matter HOW many dates you've had..

So, do your homework, make a date, get to know her, and while you're visiting with her, chatting about things, let her know your fantasies and whatnot and see her response - but afterwards - and then you can decide about the second date..

NOT SO..I have done exactly that only to discover that a lot of guys simply lie on these reviews for one reason or another. I have been with at least 3 ladies who the reviews said..swallows
only to find out that they do not. I am in very good shape, good looking, and very clean, and I tip..So what do you do IF you get in with the lady and discover that she does not provide your particluar desire?? Is it OK to say, "Thank you, but I believe I will move on"???

AH..but I do not have that kind of time & money to waste. I do not get away that often and I prefer to ustilize my time to my advantage. If you read all the reviews on any particlar provider, you find dicrepancies between the reviews. I believe that we mongers should be completely honest for each other's sake.

Some of the discrepencies may be dued to ymmv

Chemistry plays a big factor for me. Sometimes it may be there with 2 people..sometimes, it's not. There are some clients that I offer everything to, some I don't. If the chemistry is not there (many factors could be him not being clean, gentlemanly, rude, obnoxious), then I won't offer him my full delights. But, generally, I get the majority of clients, where the chemistry is totally there, and we have a great time

Understood that you dont' have the time and funds to waste, but I just want to let you know that many fetishes might take some time together and a building of trust in your partner to perform. Not always, but sometimes.
You can, of course, look for a Provider who specializes in Fetish, and clearly advertises such on her website - that'll save the time and money.

You'll find it.

I say it's your attitude, and hence yu will rightfully encounter more YMMV than most but good luck anyway

What this fetish is....?????

Hugs*
Tamara

OK..I enjoy giving and getting oral and I like when my partner swallows...what can I say..I am into that.

You should read the reviews. Thay all note what is available and many other details you are seeking.All your questions can be answered with a membership.

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I guess that does become a fetish if it is a deal breaker for your enjoyment...

You absolutely SHOULD read the reviews because as your own indicate, they do state this where applicable. If you're in Philly I could make a suggestion for you!

Hugs*
Tamara

Personally, I don't ever ever swallow (my personal reasons).  So, ymmv, does not factor in that particular area. BUT-there have been few times when I allow it in my mouth, but the majority of the times,  I don't allow. The chemistry HASSSSSS to be there for me, for me to do the latter. No matter how much a guy thinks he is good looking, clean, etc., it boils down to how that particular woman may feel about you in that moment. You may feel that you are okay, but in reality, you may not be to her (no pun intended). Just because a review may state she did A-Z, with another man, does not mean that she will do A-Z with you. I think that the problem may be that people read too much into reviews (remember they are stated to be fictatious, with some truth to them). As I told someone, who had pointed out a particular review of mine, stating I did something that was wayyyy out of my nature, I told him to not to believe everything that you read Good luck!

Yes many of the reviews may not be accurate because some guys like to make themselves sound like a pornstar starring in their own review.  However you should be able to find this fetish relatively easily by searching the reviews to see who is listed as swallowing.  Next read the reviews of the ladies you find.  If the lady has 20 reviews and only 2 says that she swallows then I would assume that those 2 reviews are long time regulars, real YMMV or fabrication.  If out of the 20 reviews 18 of them says that she swallows then I would assume that as long as you are clean and don't act like an ass she will swallow for you.

Of course to do the searchs and read the juicy details of the reviews you have to be a VIP member which based upon your requirements would be money well spent.

I am a vip member and I do exactly that and I have met some nice ladies and others who when in the fit of passion say,
"oh that is extra". I find games very irritating.

If the profile of the provider shows that she provides that service and 18 of 20 reviewers say that she provides that service and none of them mention that it is an extra charge then by all means include the upcharge tactic in your review.

My general experience with the reviews have been that if the service is on the menu but with an upcharge at least some of the reviewers will mention that fact. This would especially be true of a lady who has 20 reviews and has provided the service you seek in 18 of them.

I think you would have to make the initial investment and see the lady. No one likes to answer personal questions. It's an insinuation of illegal activity and disrespect.

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