Absolutely do not post their assumed names. Although I've already figured out who you're talking about from the details you've given.

You could have rendered this imaginary story more discreetly. After all, discretion is the life-blood of this business.

To your concern: I wouldn't see a girl who routinely practiced unsafe activities. I certainly would not engage in unsafe activities myself. However, you can't police people. Take care of yourself and leave the fools to their own demise.

At the same time, people do sometimes have sex without using a condom. Ladies and gentlemen have SO’s and other encounters that don’t always include the use of a condom, for whatever reasons. It is a risk we assume whenever we have sex. Because of that, it is doubly important that you engage as safely as you can. We may or may not agree that this guy is a jerk, but that shouldn't be your concern or responsibility.

All respect,
riker

BBFS happens a lot more often than you think. The polite thing to do in mixed company, or at least among strangers in such a fora is not to bring it up. One married Senior Hobbyist acquaintance of mine calls it "the provider offering me a favor". It's an interesting thought as it would likely cost him upwards of 1.5 million to give his wife chlamydia, HSV, et al other undesirable microbes.

In my experience, the working girls have always been much more health conscious than non working girls-they have to be-think about why.

The "SHE should be concerned" comment is obviously out of bounds. Look, it's a public board, what do you expect?

this is not a problem about safe sex or discretion. this is a problem about whether you can recognize when your chain is being yanked, and what you do about it.

this guy told you he had already polluted your lady because, well, he likes to spit in your wine. so you deal with that problem first.

when someone spits in your wine, you can (a) hold your nose and drink it, or (b) throw it out. ("a" really means: wear a condom with her. "b" means, forget the girl.)

you've chosen (c): get panties all in a bunch. which is probably what he's hoping for.

maybe, in a weird way, this guy cares about you and wants to make sure you are always covered. who cares. it's a weird way to care, and you should know how to care for yourself. like, knowing when your chain is being yanked.

find your own minx, treat her right, be safe and true, see her regular, open to her, and you'll have everything you could possibly want. all without posting names or jeopardizing your health.