That's EXACTLY why I don't do timed sessions. The "One size fits all" thinking behind them, forces the mind-set your expressing. A session should be a "No pressure" experience for both Provider and client. Since everyone is different, allowing the pace to develop differently for each individual, makes for a more comfortable and relaxing time and customizes itself to each individual. I believe everyone loves to feel special and not just one of the herd, I know I do....this of course is just MHO...Kisses, Robyn
robyn , I like your attitude!! Are there more like you?
Thanks Sweetie,*wink*, I've been told I'm pretty unique, in more ways than one...LOL But I know there are many great gals that aren't "Clock Watchers"....I've never heard of anyone who has the same thoughts on this as me, except clients, of course, but I would suggest you check the profiles for those Providers with "No Rush" sessions...Or..You could always Cum out and see me...Licks on all your Pink Parts, Robyn
...I've never met Robyn, but her attitude rocks, doesn't it? Damned if she doesn't know what the biz is all about.
Robyn, you should open a provider school, or write a column. Hey, not a bad idea!
Thanks, you guys, I wish all Hobbyists were like you guys, but sadly, their not. I appreciate your sweetness though...Through all the negativity that I usually generate on these boards from the "Loud Minority", it's truly, you guys, that keep me still posting. Now, if I can just get past the Rip-offs and No-shows that plague this hobby, the few Jackass flamers, will be a piece of cake...LOL Kiss Kiss, Robyn
The really super providers I have visited know how to bring a man to the edge and then keep him there, ten minutes, twenty minute sometimes forty five minutes. I have had times where I have to beg to be brought to a climax. It is all in the skills of the provider to be able to sense where her client/lover is at.
When reviewers cite this particular talent in describing a session, that really gets my attention. I value being kept close to the edge above much else.
I hate the assumption that we should be able to figure where that peak is for every man on the planet. The fact is that sometimes I can tell (some gents are very vocal and expressive) other times I cannot tell... it's totally individual. I mean if a guy lays there like a lump, isn't moaning, doesn't breathe hard, looks like he could be watching a football game on tv, guess what... I cannot tell at all!!!!! I need and WELCOME communication from guys... I love guys that are expressive... I think you guys have NO IDEA what a turn on it is to hear your reactions to the things we do. Altho you should.. you love hearing US react to things, and it works the same way both ways.
Soooooooooooo, basically, TELL ME... tell me all your dirty little secrets... tell me everything 
Now I'm all horny, thinking about it!
*smooch*
Nicole
Some guys prefer the time spent as opposed to the orgasm itself. I am not one of those people. As soon as I get to an appointment, I am ready to go. If I cum within 20 min., I know I'm capable of a 2nd pop. One time though, I saw a provider who pushed conversation and I ended up getting only 1 oral pop. I hate to be pushy and just let her ramble. I still had no regrets, because her oral talents were great and she was a good conversationalist. To each his own.
I feel flattered by that. Sometimes, I can see them early if they arrive. Some other times I can't. It happens.
Most of my clients have 2 cups. So they have the first one pretty quick..a little break and then #2.
I take my time with them, since I love to play. (And I love the look on their face.) I never rush them.
Remember also, some just want a bj and nothing else. Others, like to have a variety of events happen.
Just be happy....
Shaye
I think every session can be different. I do not ever push for a quick first pop. I like to wait and see where the session takes us. The joourney can be just as much fun as arriving at the destination. i LOVE WOMEN!
I wouldn't call that in between half mast recovery time a waste.... it's perfect for hunting down his errogenous spots..
from down here...
kissing.. feeling... ooo.. twolips on an organ... good feeling.. wet and warm.. hips start to thrust... i think he's gonna blow... "are you up for two?" i ask... "yes" he says... thats the go ahead.. milk and stroke and kaboom... then touching and talking and feeling and learning and telling secrets and kissing and rubbing... then viola.. he has risen... and then go go...popping now is good.. no pop.. well... it sure feels good...
but...
what if you get stuck?...
hold on tight... gosh its good.. gonna blow.. no no.. hold on tight.. now now.. no hold on tight... hot and hard.... gonna blow.. hold on tight... rock and roll... go go... ready to blow.. where'd it go?
what if you hold out so long you cant when you want to?
Bwah ha ha! Love it! Very funny.
I usually don't have problems coming when I want to. I worry more about coming too soon. That's probably another interesting discussion topic- the psychology involved when you allow yourself to come vs. during sex when you don't.
You have to remember, some people don't have the required physical control to prevent it.
In other cases, they pop the first time hoping that will give them staying power to make the 2nd time the one that lasts.
Because sometimes they can't hold it. When i come quickly I'm usually not interested or , occasionally, nervous
Sometimes that damned little head has a mind of its' own. Little prick. I'm better now than when I was younger, but I still pop early sometimes. As long as a second pop is in the cards, no harm done. The waiting/reviving period gives you time for a massage, conversation, DATY, lots of things.
The only "cumming" that's wasted is the one you didn't have.
I wouldn't look at this as such a negative thing. afterall, even if she gets me so excited in that short amount of time that I just can't hold on any longer, then I've still had a great time, and that is what the intended experience was in the first place.
as for "waiting or wasting half of your one hour", I also enjoy the companionship of cuddling and pillowtalk just as much as the actual act. my most memorable sessions have been with those ladies that I only popped once, but had some kind of connection with, beyond the physical one.
and if I may partially contradict myself, I'm also in agreement with you, I personally always try to hold out during the initial BJ and at least get some FS. kinda feel a little better about getting your money's worth that way, don't ya.
best regards, "enjoys a good BJ and usually pops quick", mr.man
I am capable of cumming more than once in a 60 minute session.
However, in order to do this, I need to cum quickly at the beginning. I try to Pace myself. Start off fast at the gate, then finish with a final flurry. Watch a 10K race of speed skating..
early on can prevent a man from "wasting his time," I always let a provider know that I am only good for one pop and I like a slow build-up. Any experienced provider knows the difference between a foreplay BJ and a BJTC. The former involves lots of tongue, lips, and ball licks while the latter employs vigorous suction on the head with manual manipulation. If a lady is good at the foreplay then many of us will reward her with some good oral stimulation .A lady who is too eager with the suction may end the session prematurely.
Easy one. I have noticed from posts that most of the guys who get multiple bells are the ones who pop real early the first time. If you take a longer time 30-40 minutes I think the odds of a second bell drop drastically.
There was a discussion about this on aspd.net a while back.
