I really enjoy seeing you. But When I do, It's usually because I can't go greek with...the usual suspects. Course when one asks a provider about greek, the LE alarm goes off and ya get nowhere. You dont ask, You look at that beautiful, perfect, round greek island, and see it's attached to everything else thats good. Then ya go see her, pass the LE test, pay your fare, and find out the islands closed. Do not enter. How do you ask, before you meet, while still being discreet.
One of the best and most wonderful ways outside reviews... is in your email or phone exchange the simple question "Are there any particular limits or things YOU don't like?"
When phrased in this manner I don't get offended... I understand you are looking for something and I have the oppurtunity to take the info exchange at a pace I feel comfortable with.
Sadly this is no guarentee... In today's climate some of my sisters are just more nervous than others... understandably. But we persivere.
When guys ask me if I have limts, I think they are absolutely NUTS! What do they expect me to say? "Oh no, I have absolutely NO LIMITS at all so if you want to tie me up, defacate on me, fart on me, make me drink you urine that is absolutely all right because I have no respect for my body."
OF COURSE WE ALL (or at least we all should) have SOME limits.
I won't see anyone who asks such a ridiculous question. I really think men who ask that are totally clueless and looking for someone they can do ANYTHING to without respect for the provider and her pleasure.
I guess my out look on it has always been that we are VERY quick to shut them down when they ask directly so... when they ask indirectly I try to accomodate them.
Plus doing some BDSM work if someone DIDN'T inquire about my limits I would flat out refuse to see them...
I remember when I first started looking at the ads online. I kept seeing "I speak Greek." I was trying to figure this out. Are there a lot of wealthy Greek gentlemen imigrants in this area that I don't know about? Why is it so important to be able to speak Greek that they would put this in their ad?
Eventually I figured out it was code for something and it was some time later that I realized what it meant.
The point is, it's all over the ads. But TER reviews are your best bet. Do a search for "Anal:Yes." There are quite a number to choose from in your area.
You also need to keep watching the reviews every day. The ladies profiles don't always reflect their every skill or offering.
There is a difference between asking "Do you have ANY limits?" as opposed to "What are your limits?" Still I cannot imagine answering such a loaded question. "Let's see...you can do oral and straight but no anal." That kind of answer is enough to get arrested.
I still think reading the reviews is the best option. He can find out what we can't (or shouldn't) tell him.
I personally err on the side of caution. I know of a situation where a cop asked a provider if she did greek. She answered no but he arrested het. His logic was that she said no to Greek but not to anything else.
Even saying you Like something is enough to get arrested when money is involved. I know that a lot of providers don't really care about an arrest because they figure they will post bail and be out in a few hours. This is why you will see the same providers getting arrested again and again. I notice in arrest of those associated with The Other Board that one girl was only 21 years old and had already been arrested 23 times.
Of course don't forget that if he ends up calling a decoy cop HE could find himself getting arrested for soliciting. Discretion protects both parties to the transaction.
The example you mention of the cop asking the provider whether she did greek sounds like a no-win situation for the provider. No matter what she said, her goose was cooked. She said she doesn't do Greek and the cop inferred that she did other things. What would you have done in this situation that would have been cautious? Would you have refused to answer the question?
While I may say what I like... I NEVER EVER talk about money on the phone period. Also this conversation just doesn't take place until after references have been checked. Usually rates are the FIRST thing I hear about.... tends to go like this.
"Wow and what are your rates?"
"Sounds like you need to do some more homework! *laugh* Why don't you give me a ring back when you have found the info your looking for?"
"You won't tell me your rates?!"
"Have a great day though."
ka-click (Thanks Bun-bun)
And so it goes....
On the other note... I DO indeed CARE about getting arrested... I haven't and have no intention of starting now. I don't know of anyone with a laisse-faire attitude concerning it actually... Or rather not anyone that would socialize or advert where we do...
my TER profile says Greek "Yes", but what it fails to clarify is that I deliver Greek, but DON'T receive it. Not an option posted in the reviews, but one that is occasionally requested.
My answer would be "What are you talking about? I don't understand." I would then manipulate the guy into actually stating that he is looking for sex (you wouldn't believe how men take this bait...I should be a vice cop busting clients) Then I say "Excuse me, you are soliciting me for an illegal act? Oh no, I am in NO WAY involved in any criminal activity. I don't have sex for money." Then I hang up the phone or if in person, usher him out the door.
When it comes to solicitation, I don't mess around with that BS.
Having sex with someone is not illegal as long as you are not doing for the money. The only way the cops can prove you are exchanging sex for money is through VERBALIZATION of a willingness to exchange one for the other.
probably had more than just saying no against her. I'm not saying your lying, so please don't be offended. I'm just saying you probably didn't get to hear the whole story. No one likes getting arrested. I'm not speaking for anyone here, I'm just saying some of people are force to hear the door shut. And for those that have heard, you know it does not sound the way it does on TV. As for the review boards, I thought it was ovious that this was refering to someone who didn't have a review. My mistake. I apologize.
This makes perfect sense....except.....TWICE I have tried to make arrangements with escorts who didn't have rates on their webpage, so I had NO IDEA what I should have available. I had to ask, in as discret a way as I could, what the rates were.
I agree that if you know you have rates posted on your webpage, then there is no reason to discuss them over the phone. I am just pointing that sometimes I think you ladies forget...being merely human and all.
(The first time it happened the dialogue went something this:
"Ummm...well....I will see you on Friday, and I am looking forward to seeing you. But...I need to do a little ummm, shopping, before you get here. How much money should I get out of the ATM before I go to the store."
"What? I don't know dear...I am not a really high maintenence gal...some wine will be fine."
"Sure...wine...right...but, how much change should I make sure I bring back from the store."
"Sweetie, I don't know anything about where you shop, but I am not the sort of gal he tdrinks fanct wines. Really honey, we are just going to have fun."
"Fun...right...fun is great. But I want to make sure nobody is disappointed after we have all that fun. So what should I do when I'm at the ATM to make sure no one is disappointed?"
"Huh?"
Finally, I just asked her what her rates were, since it was clear she wasn't going to get the hint....LOL!
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