1. It may sound like a stupid question, but was wondering how many hobbyist were looking for that only!?!?! It seems to be half the fun...Not that the other isnt!
2. Do most men treat you well? I just couldnt imagine them not, BUT, people NEVER cease to amaze me! Because I have read that some women like this profession at times and didnt at other times due to their clientele...What do you like or not like?
Thanks!
Answer to # 2...
The way I do things is that I have to like the person. I usually have the guy tell me a little bit about himself before we meet. I like flowers, compliments, and good conversation. I also prefer non-smokers. This is a side deal for me; so I can be very selective about whom I deal with. This is not the case for all providers. I am not saying that I have never been wrong about somebody and just went through with it (but I would not be willing to give a repeat performance). I think the fact that I like what I do, and whom I do it with makes it much better for both parties involved. I have turned people down when I arrive at their location, and it really is uncomfortable, but I have to like what I do. So there is my two cents worth...
"I have turned people down when I arrive at their location, and it really is uncomfortable, but I have to like what I do. "
I understand....but I'm curious...what sort of things about the guy made you decline?
In one situation, I showed up and when the guy opened the door, cigarette smoke just poured out. I asked to use the restroom when I walked in, and I had to wade through clutter and crap to find a dingy, dirty bathroom! This was somebody who was perfectly nice and intelligent during our prior correspondance, but I didn't want to risk sitting or lying down and having anything "scurry " across me : ). So sadly, I had to say 'bye-bye" nicely of course.
In another situation, I showed up in mid-summer in oppressive heat, and the guy had no air conditioning. The smell on him and in the air made it unbearable for me. Hope this answers your inquiry : )
Yup, and if I had been in your shoes, I would have been out of there as well...
You know, Mom always did say learning how to tidy up and being a neat freak would pay off someday... :^)
I see mainly gentlemen that know how to treat a lady. I have been in the biz for awhile and have yet to have a really bad session happen to me. I do know others that have.
My client treat me very well- Maybe it is because of the hospitality I give before, durning and afterward: Treat me like a queen and I'll treat you like a king.
I love this profession and at no times that I am with a client I do not enjoy the experience. The reason is because I expect my clientele to be professional durning our date. I advertise that I give the southern hospitality treatment. I will makes the experience seem unrushed, enjoyable, fun, relaxing and more like a "real date" not a quick commercial encounter.
I make it my business to balance the chemistry before the date, by private email or phone contact, by follow-up to the actual day and durning the date. When my door open or his the GFE/BFE start so there should be no reason to assume anything but a great time. The Likes and dislike have already been establish before hand. Either I'm the one or I'm not " no disappointment" no uncomfortable situation.
Re: dislike - when they say I'm looking for a girl friend and would you like to change business profession.
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I know you were primarily looking for responses from the ladies. But I think most of us can place ourselves in the ladies position. IMHO, no matter what the reason we seek to see a lady, there is no excuse for not extending the basic common courtesies, such and respect, honesty (don't play games with the contribution) , good hygiene, and courteous and complimentary behavior. These simple things usually pay dividends.
you can really tell alot about a person if you spend a little time with them on the phone.I have answered phones for numerous services over the years and I have found some general things to be true as to what you can expect froma client by his attitude on the phone...I have found that those who immediately call me babe or honey are typically not good clients. They typically have little respect for a ladies boundaries and are often pushy, rough and have little to no understanding of how a women's body should be handled. The same goes for those who act overly familiar on the phone when you have never spoken with them before... Also those gentlemen, and I use that term loosely, that tell you how rich and fabulous they are are terrible clients. They typically think that all your other clients are pigs compared to them and you should bask in their prescence...they are also the cheapest....Of course there are the typical things that are standard DNS behavior and this website does a good job at educating hobbyists on how to treat a lady....nothing however can help you to identify a smelly nasty guy over the phone....I sure wish there was some way because it is just really uncomfortable to have to tell someone you don't
want to stay because they and/or their place is a mess. After one such instance a guy I know called me the next day and begged for me to come back and said he had cleaned up just for me....he had completely overhauled his whole aprtement...gotten a haircut and a shave and had his dog groomed...I was very impressed and he became a good regular after that.