For us in LA, and I think the rest of the country, there is one of those "Signs your hubby is cheating" lists of behaviours.

I suggest everybody here read it and learn to avoid some of these actions, or get more artful.

Now I am sure that it is really for guys who are in a real relationship outside of their SO deal, and hobbyists are less predictable, but nonetheless, its good to know how others have tipped their hands afore ye.  Knowledge is power and one less hobbyists life trashed is all to the good.

Note:  I realize that this topic is a fave for all our boards- but I really thought this might be topical for today as its a list you can read at home or at work w/o arousing suspicion- it's in Dear Abby for Chrissakes!  But anyone ready to flame me for any reason (TS Guys-got your ammo ready?) can do so here just for fun...