Re: Your not so average, and less than typical dates...

I met one lady at the Renaissance Festival. After some e-mail banter, it was her idea, based on my screen name. We had a good time. Later on, she did a dance on my maypole. Both are pleasant memories.

I once accompanied a provider to the wedding of a co-worker of hers from her day job.

It was kind of fun, in a weird way.

We were pretty close of course and had known each other for about four years.

The most fun date was a five day trip to Bali.

Which I'm fine with.  Dinner, Theater, the occasional sporting event, a few movies.  Once a fellow arranged a facial and massage for both of us.. really.. Not so exciting I guess but unusual... for me. ha ha
I meet many fun and exciting individuals but can't say we are out doing the most unusual stuff.

Vibe-ing with one another is A-OK by me!  
Guess I'm easily amused!  

and some have gone a bit beyond. I spent the entire day with a terrific lady. After some early morning delight, we had breakfast and went to a world class aquarium. We even got to see some fucking sharks...that is to say, two sharks...fucking. Gotta love that fish porn.

Another time, the lady had made arrangements for us to visit a nudist resort after dinner. We had a great time frollicking in the pool, although when the pool guy told us that it was time to close the pool, I had to swim a couple of laps to get rid of my obvious "excitement". That was an evening that I plan to repeat.

Another lady suggested that we go to the titty bars. She knew some of the dancers, and saw to it that they gave me a special show. Then we went to a pool hall and played a few games before retiring back to the hotel. Another fun evening.

Occasionally a date will conclude with us getting all hot and sweaty working together on a household repair or re-decorating project.

have nothing to do with anything remotely fu n for they guy!  They want to be wined, dined, maybe later 69'd! I almost have to laugh as most of these ladies seem to think they are royalty, and would never go to a race (luv the drags), and sure the hell not camp out!  Most feel that camping is staying in a mere 3 star hotel, that is near a river!
I give you ladies who would accompany a man on an adventure like that a ton of credit.  To do something the HE actually likes is cool. Eating a hotdog over the fire....NEVER....when he could be buying me a fillet at an overpriced resturaunt in the thinking of the normal Prima Donna HO!
Thank you ladies for pointing out that there are some willing to do something other than be totally spoiled, then paid!

Jaycee

I might be the person you were referring too doing the zip line canopy tour.   In December I took one of my favorite ladies, a well known Boston provider up to the White Mts in NH for a weekend at the Mt Washington Hotel.  

We had a great drive up to Bretton Woods NH.  The scenery and drive was wonderful, and on Saturday morning we took the Bretton Woods Zip Line Canopy Tour.  

This is a 10 leg , 3 hour course with the longest ride nearly a 1000 feet and you are 160 feet off the ground.  
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http://www.brettonwoods.com/activities/canopy_tour/tour

My lady, who was not too keen on the whole idea to begin with, really got into it.  We were paired with 6 other people plus guides and even though it was only 20 degrees outside with snow we had a blast.  In fact the entire weekend is my all time favorite Hobby experience.

Just last week I had regular appointment with a touring provider in the AM.   During our time she mentioned she was a native New Englander but had never been to Fenway Park .   It just so happens that afternoon I had 2 tickets to a rare afternoon Red Sox game thus taking her Fenway virginity.  (Finally a virgin somewhere. LOL)

I'm constantly looking for adventure.  The same lady who did the zip line tour with me is having a promotion this summer where, for a reduced rate, she will split time between hiking or an outdoor adventure in the mountains of New England and of course some indoor time too! .  

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Gawd, what great memories

I have the most fantastic memories of carefree and relaxed providers.  I've taken them four days to the beach.  A few girls went to Florida with me and we stayed on the boat I chartered and did some blue water fishing.  We sat on the deck drinking beer, Bloody Mary's, Margueritas or whatever in the hot sun.  I've got a license to operate so we were by ourselves on the boat.
I've done that three times with three different providers.  Believe me gentlemen, it's worth your time and effort to engage a woman in such a way.

Another time I took a girl to Savannah for three days of shopping, eating, beaching and loving.

None of it is very exotic but I did have a great time and so did the ladies.

It wasn't very expensive either.  I'd give them $500 a day for every day we were out of town.  I get occasional calls from them to do it again.

It's evident to me how little fun these ladies get to have.  The pressures of making money and being on call are huge.  Taking them away for awhile is a bonus they don't often get.

ice climbing or putting up some crown molding...

I've picked up a few ideas for sometime.

Some different ones I've been on:
--Hiking the mountains near Mesa Verda for a couple days
--Walking the Breast Cancer Walk (seems appropriate)
--Working a fund raiser at Kennedy Center (all 5 or 6 of the women from my date's co-op attended and brought a date)

Thanks for a great topic, you've given a newbie some ideas.(EOM)

I have always believed that an essential part of the journey I share with my partner, is not just the physical, but exploring the world, and each other's minds. It's amazing what happens in the bedroom when you can have a blast together outside of bed.

I go up to a beautiful getaway high up in the mountains, where we go hiking, star gazing and spend the nights in a cabin.  We are both quite fond of he secluded out doors and a good physical challenge.  It actually builds a fascinating additional level to the physical connection you share.  I'm hoping to add some canoeing or kayaking to our adventures.

I once did a motorcycle tour across Quebec's country side. I rode behind him the whole time, and we were aimless, visiting all the small countryside diners, where no one spoke english but were always very welcoming.  Being trapped for 4 hours in pouring rain on the highway was memorable, many pitiful looks from drivers - but we were loving it. We got to one diner and didn't even have to order, as soon as we sat our soaking bodies down she came out with soup.

I did a road trip from Tampa, Florida up to Washington, DC. We stopped in Orlando, St. Augustine, Savannah, Cape Cod, San Francisco, and the town of Duck.

I used to spend the early spring with a gent in the mountains, tapping sugar maples and spending the whole day boiling it down in a wood burning stove until we had our own maple syrup. Boy it takes a lot of wood to get it to the right temperature and keep it there.  Snow was still on the ground and air was cold but I sat topless in shorts in the snow to cool down after being in the sugaring shack. We'd feed each other snowballs dipped in the piping hot maple syrup.

I went to Sydney - where we went to the opera house, had high tea in a victorian tea room, ate at fantastic waterfront restaurants, did the bridge climb at sunset, and flew out to the great barrier reef where we were taken by helicopter to a small sand dune surrounded by vast ocean.

Going to Israel was particularly interesting.  Walking though the Hassidic neighborhoods in clothing appropriate to the religiously conservative, visiting the Western Wall, The Church of the Holy Sepulchre, going to the Dead Sea and then up to Masada to see what remained of Harod's ancient fortress.

Another tradition I repeat with a friend includes visits to New Orleans, where I prowl the voodoo temples and Wicaan stores for oddities, go to dive bars for drinks, and hunt down old school jazz acts, breaking to eat peanut butter and bacon burgers. Last time I found a lovely Kaleidoscope to include into my collection.

An increasingly more common event includes attending readings, speeches and lectures.  Last time I went to see a talk being given by someone in government who lived in Afghanistan for two years and only just returned. He gave an interesting breakdown of what life is like there right now. When you have similar interests, learning together is a wonderful bonding experience.

Some of the most memorable dates I can recall involved lavish home cooked dinners, that we either prepared for each other, or made together.  So nice to be able to tear each other's clothes off at the table for once.

spending a night in the cabin, and all that goes with a day/night in the wilderness....with lots of "behind closed door" time...outdoors...

Went to a track and saw motorcycle racing...we both rode our own machines....imagine a full set of racing leathers and then removing the helmet and shaking out the hair...oh and let's not forget unzipping the the jacket exposing a very tight, white wife beater stretched over "the ladies".

Yep we had a blast that day.

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