I was pretty flabbergasted recently when I ran across someone who refused to meet in a hotel.  I had no idea that mentality was even out there and wondered how many more gentleman feel that way?

I would have thought there would be a larger number who refuse to meet at a private residence.....

What's the scoop?

Either one-Some residences are great-some not-just like hotels.....So I suppose it doesn't make much difference!!

I prefer apartments which are not their actual residence. Second I'm OK with private residence. Hotels...3rd on my list. I'll go but I'd really rather have it be one of the others.

he publicly admitted there were both guns and cameras for his "protection" lol. Never! I have 3 incalls that are jaw dropping, and only stay in nice hotels on the road. I am not going to anyone's home period, unless it is my cute doctor friend that I have known for more than 4 years. I know he is single, and a stand up guy. Add to that I know everything about him and his work, as he does mine so we are both understanding about discretion and not trying something stupid.

I suppose I'd draw the line at a dumpster.

Not every client is married and trying to hide his infidelity from a wife or live-in girlfriend. In fact, I submit that incalls only exist thanks to those clients who are married.

My preference would probably be
Her residence
Her hotel
my hotel
my residence

1) Private

2) Upscale hotels

3) My incall

Still new at this, but I can tell you a story.
My very first experience. Before I knew about TER. Was at an apartment. I almost ditched.
The front door looked like it had been smashed in. I was very scared. If she didn't ask if I got lost, I would have. I was sure I was going to get robbed. She turned out to be a really cool though.
I vowed never to do the apartment thing again. I personally like hotels. I have no problem walking in like I own the place. For some reason, I am even more comfy when it is crowded. Easier to blend in.
I've developed some experience since then, found a provider I had to see. She had an apartment ..A nice one this time. I had the time of my life !! So my two cents.. If it is a nice place, I don't care anymore. I will never ever meet her at a Motel though. Not because of a bad experience. Because of the advice I recived reading this board.

I had a heart attack 8 years ago......I can't help but wonder what would happen if I had another and died at the incall. At least I guess I wouldn't be here and have to explain.....but I hate  the embarrassment it would cause my family.

I guess if it's outcall at my hotel and it happened, the lady could just leave.

Am I the only one that worries about things like that ?

I'm not married or dating anyone currently. I still don't want a complete stranger at my home, just like most providers.

live. If a guy insists on using his home, always at least pretend it is for someone else and you are just using it per a favor. That way, the chances of doing something stupid are slim as they don't have a clue who really does live there.

You also don't want a cab pulling up with a hot chick getting out or a different car in the driveway all the time with the same MO, of only an hour or two at a time lol. I won't even park my vehicle in a private lot knowing how easy it is to trace my LP. I have had some crazy things happen to me locally because of stalkers, and don't care to repeat.

If they know my incall locations, fine with me. They are not in my name and I don't live there. Good luck trying to figure out when I will be there being I might see less than 4 guys a month in Nola.

Private homes, especially in apartments, are subject to lots of scruitny from neighbors, and that is never good.

The only time I'm comfortable with that is when I know the gal only sees one person a day, if that.

The best place is my own home, which is very secluded, but not too many want to drive all the way to the 'burbs.  There are a couple who do, and for that I thank you.

I've never met a lady anyplace but a hotel, preferably mine. No way anyone else in this hobby finds out where I live, and my rule is I won't see a provider in her home. Safety first...

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Considering who he might be, that might be more commonplace than you would think. Also you might want to consider in this day and age there are cameras everywhere so if someone wanted to do an investigation they can get a time stamped copy of the tape and pinpoint when he was there and more importantly ask why he was there. Therefore in order not to get caught don't go where they might record.

FallonKelly,

Well, I am flexible if the provider wants to meet me at HER private residence or at a hotel, but NEVER at my residence. Why? I have 2 daughters who are not living with me (they have their own place), but they always visit me UNANNOUNCED. For that reason alone is why I never have a provider at my residence.

Ok, so you were asking... what's the scoop on this guy? I can only give you an educated guess.

This guy probably had some bad experiences with the hotel scene. Maybe got busted, got ripped off or something really bad that he hates the hotel scene. That is my only conclusion that I can come up with.

Serpius

That's why screening works both ways and is just as important for clients as it is for working girls.

True but you can always try LOL. I find observing working girls on forums like TER effective at times!

Absolutely correct. Case in point: Elliot Spitzer, former Governor and Attorney General for the state of NY.

I am not looking forward to the day when I become "somebody" and must give this all up.