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Re: YMMV or beyond?
dragonfly2006 49 Reviews 522 reads
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What you're describing seems like she gives the same routine to everybody.  But have you ever had a negative experience where you thought the provider had a personal issue with you?

Guys, when you get poor performance from a provider, when do you start to suspect that it's not just YMMV, but it might be you?

Yes providers have bad days and sometimes life circumstances can impinge on the job.  It happens to us in civvie life, providers are no different.  For agency providers I consider volume and time of day, but for indies I don't, under the assumption that they can control their volume and working hours.  If I'm wrong on that, then please correct me.  I also try to account for extenuating circumstances.  But given all those factors, are there still some signs that a provider might have a problem with you?  Would you try to talk to her about it?

Obviously this does not apply in cases where the provider is explicit, or where the provider has consistent bad reviews but you, like an idiot, went to see her anyway.  If you are smelly and unhygienic, it's definitely you, but you deserved it.

Dragonfly2006 you should download DF2007Beta.2 for your handle!  But be careful, if you're running M/soft Windows 3.1 your RAM will explode.

Now to your question.  I've only used one agency here in SF and the experience was robotic.  I'll never go there again.

I have had zero problems with other ladies, albeit my hobbying experience is short, uh...not much time doing it (I hate using the word "short" - it congures us bad images for me)  Anyway, where was I?...Oh....and YMMV has been about what the ratings have shown on TER.  So the TER system works very, very well.

I submitted (and there is discussion on this elsewhere) a question about YMMV being the same experience you read about.  And that bothers me - when a provider uses the same phrases with me that she used with others.  Now I'm not so naive as to expect me to rock some ladies world - I don't think that has ever happened!  But when you know it's choreographed a lot....yikes, I cringe when it's happening.  Or I should say, Mr. Dickie goes limpie on me

Net net:  The providers that I've visited that are rated nicely here on TER?....have all be very nice to earth shattering experiences for me.

My humble opinion and may it be further discussed.


-- Modified on 9/23/2007 4:19:06 PM

What you're describing seems like she gives the same routine to everybody.  But have you ever had a negative experience where you thought the provider had a personal issue with you?

I never "blame it" on myself since I am paying for a service but I am willing to accept that not all women are built the same, react the same way to the same stimuli or take their job as seriously as we would like them to. I'm a big guy and I've learned over the years that I hit it off really well with very petite women. Even average size ladies just don't seem to "mesh" with me in a way that works well. Fortunately I like girls in the 5' spinner range so it works out well for me...

I don't really buy in to the whole "agency girls are  overworked" syndrome. I use two agencies in Boston and in both cases the ladies decide when they will work, how long they will work and how many guys they will see in a day or a week. I have never had a problem with a bad appointment that was related to a girl being too tired to perform. If I did, I would blame her, not the agency.

FWIW, I always book the last appointment of the day with my agency ATF and she has never, in over a year of seeing her once or twice a month, made me feel like I was not the most important guy in her life that day. I also see an indie gal who is equally amazing and only sees one appointment a day. Trust me, you would never detect a difference in attitude between these two ladies.

I used to have bad appointments with disinterested girls who were going over their grocery lists in their head while they were giving me head. I learned to avoid bargain providers, to stop booking the hottest looking early-20 something and stick with well reviewed agency and indie girls who have been at this for a while and want to see you again.

commocheif578 reads

As I put on more spare tire you could see it in her face when I open the door. Moved to ladies over 30. If they had any ymmv they hid it well.

Bogus Reviewer217 reads

I have hobbied hearty for year and a half so and I saw several providers who I think were tolerant but with whom I didn't click. I suspect we both breathed a sigh of relief as I exited and the door closed.

I simply mark it up to no-chemistry. I laugh somewhat because the lady I now see quite often I wouldn't have originally thought would be a continuing relationship. I originally went for a massage but things evolved (I wanted to say grew) significantly. We seemed to be an odd couple but when we get together WOW. However, I read her other reviews and they are always "good" but nothing like the fun we have.

That said, I think just as we decide to suffer through a session because we are already there and horny ... providers do the same thing only for a different reason.

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