If a lady is a reputable professional provider, most instance of YMMV will be about the grooming, cleanliness and behavior of the client.

That being said - hobbyists feel rightly that they are entitled to a certain "menu" consistency - if they do their part (grooming, hygiene, attitude etc).

I've been "YMMV"d two or three times over issues that I consider pretty trivial - being uncut and having a short well trimmed and softened mustache and goatee. However this has been by providers with less experience in the biz. These issues never seem to have mattered with more experienced providers.

has main revolved around the areas I've been researching with ladies (enhacning their arousal techniques, spreading sexual energy for more integrated orgasms, extended fuller 'after shocks', etc.)  

While every lady I've seen has had at least a passing curiosity in the materials and info, there have been a few that, after the 'time had been up' kept asking questions and wanted some "Show-n-Tell" that kept me there 30, 60, 90 minutes longer.

The ultimate for me was one lady in the Big Apple asked if something I had just performed on her with thunderous results could be done/shown to her UTR lady friend. Not one to turn up a chance to perform extended oral techniques, I said sure. She called her friend and we met up an hour later after we had gone out for a quick lunch. It was a real life 'teaching' that surpassed those phony porn scenes where someone 'teaches' a newbie.

Not being a Brad Pitt look-alike, I am a prime example of how, if you have a genuine interest, and a lady shares it, you can get a lot of YMMV. Where I've made connections, it's been in the first 10-15 minutes, and when a lady can open herself up 'physiologically' without feeling she needs to perform, we've both gone on to some awesome shared time.

I think GTM had a number of good points.  I believe with the proper grooming, hygiene, and attitude, most gents believe they are entitled to a multitude of alphabet activity.

Some things, like going over, are within the hobbyists control: maybe they talk too much at the beginning, but still want a whole slew of activity on top of that.  Or maybe it's what they talk about - other things they've experienced, etc, which the lady doesn't care for.

Whatever the reason, sometimes the vibes between provider and client just don't mesh - and when that happens, any little thing beyond ordinary becomes an issue on both sides.

Conversely, sometimes thing just click - and a connection is made, and both go way over.  While I don't expect that, it's happened, and when it does, I've even mentioned that we're over, and I don't want to be one to take advantage of the situation.  If she chooses to continue, that's fine.

However, YMMV is natural.  Of course it happens.  No one can expect things to be the same with everyone.  That occurs on the gent side as well.  It's what really makes the hobby!

I will add my own opinion here.  Many ladies are very good at being exactly what the gentleman wants and needs.  When that want and need is who the lady truly is, and both can be their true selves and it becomes mutually beneficial - that makes for a truly special time.

-YR

Personally, the only times I have experienced YMMV issues are when a gentleman has a smelly penis (or other hygiene issues). For some ladies, it is all about hygiene. So get a clue. When she says, “Sweetie, would you like to take a shower and get all wet together?” take it as a hint that you need to freshen up (or that maybe she wants her body to slide up against yours) and take the freaking shower. If I offer a gentleman a shower and he declines stating he showered before coming, only to find him to be smelly down there…expect YMMV all the way.

The funny thing is the one time I had anyone say I was YMMV in an entire year was when I continued to push for the gentleman to shower with me due to him being smelly down there. He declined, so a cover was used (something I hope to implement for all one of these days). After that, he began ranting on the boards about how mature providers are better than younger ones, given they do not have YMMV issues. No Mr. ___, it was that you would not take a shower and had a foul odor down there. Suffice to say, I did not even last a minute down there even with a cover on, because the odor was so strong…GROSS.

I reserve the right to YMMV if a man has a smelly penis (or any other hygiene issues). In terms of time, similar to the alias below, I feel my time is important. If I go over with someone, it is usually a regular I have cultivated a relationship with. If a new friend feels bad because I say that, well try booking me a second time and I will consider giving you such special treatment. Otherwise, expect to be in my incall no longer than 68 minutes total.

Xoxo,
Giamarie (Giamarie ~ lower case "m", no space, one name…or simply Gia will suffice)

... I do not believe there is a single provider out there that is being honest if they post that they booked an hour and gave them an extra free hour for every single client...  How is that considered funny?  As long as provider does not give you less then you paid for... or ripped the client off.  Pay for an hour, get no less than an hour.  

I do not like doing YMMV.  If hygiene is bad then YMMV.  Ladies state on website about this, for a reason.

Reasons some may get more (beyond the menu) or more time?  Politeness, Normally not a first time client, General connectivity/enjoyment.

My menu covers quite a bit so "beyond the menu" is more or less an infrequent thing... Hence why it is not on the menu.  Somethings I do not want everyday.  But it would be wrong to put it on the menu when it is not available for everyone.  So I keep it off.

And if I spend 90 minutes with someone who paid for an hour... More than likely it consisted of conversations that I found interesting, or I was catching up on how the client is doing.  I do not include that in my hourly time.  If I want to have a conversation, I am not going to charge for it.  I do not consider that fair to the paying client.  

Why is there people now trying for the whole get something for nothing?  (Yes I know it is always like this, but being posted lately alot more) I am honest with my clients, I do not rip them off or short change them on their paid time... Most go over anyways...

This topic can be in the same boat as when a guy paid for an hour and got shoved out after 30 mins... He got ripped off of agreement... So why is this any different?  Some recent posts said "let's pay for hh, and try for hr without paying"  Same thing.

In regards to YMMV, I have always took it to take as the whole experience.  Such as some guys getting BBBJ vs some CBJ from one provider, or one allowing DATY with some and not others.  However, from the looks of things, it is looking that we are all referring to physical time spent with the provider.  

I take YMMV to include the particulars of the experience, not just time.  If I am misunderstanding this, please educate me.

With me, the only time YMMV would be hygiene issues or a client who is disresptful.

if more guys would shut the hell up in reviews about getting extra time this would not be an issue. Or if more providers would shut the hell up in discussion about how they go over when they like someone, with their name and reviews attached to that posting, it would also not be  factor. Capise?