Something that happens very frequently is that prospective clients contact providers to schedule, sometimes getting all the way through the screening process, about to confirm a day & time and then: an issue crops up which makes it very apparent the gentleman in question never read any of the relevant information.  
Naturally, this always pertains to something that then makes the date a no-go.  

..it is all fluff. Advertising, if you will. Even the so called "policies" are a few generic paragraphs common to all escorts. And BTW, it has been my experience that those policies are in no way set in stone. What info do you have in there that apparently is a frequent deal breaker when overlooked.

I think, to get the specific answers you want, you need to be specific as to what part of your instructions they're not following.  
Also, I think you realllllyyyy need to understand that in your business you are dealing with men from all walks of life, all educational backgrounds, all economic levels.  
Not sure that assuming the majority of them are going to read your instructions is realistic.  
Sounds like it's not working.

I think that you should put any information you want them to absolutely read where you know they will read it. Put important policies right on your rates and/or schedule page.

.. Now I see what you are talking about and it looks like you have the answer - Stick it right up front in bold. IF that info is buried at the bottom I would never get to it.

And it's not just the shlubs we are talking about.

The most common, of course, being my real-name policy.

In fact, as my post shows, I am VERY aware that many aren't reading it...... even when I specifically ask them to do so!

THANK YOU!  Honestly, it never occurred to me that anyone might not be able to read or not have enough reading comprehension skills for such information.  

It feels like "FAQ", "Ettiquette", and "Contact" could all be streamlined into one section. Your site is lovely, but maybe a little cluttered.  

For example, they talk about how educated and refined they are, how many languages they speak, and how they like to spend their free time. Blah, blah, blah ...

It's been a while since I've read the info on your site.  
Looking at the pretty babe? Check! Creating great fantasy? Check. Reading FAQ? Not so much 😆
But after reading it I'm thinking a guy would have to be deaf, dumb, illiterate and stupid to not understand your requests

I have thought much the same, myself!  

Or better yet, across your chest...😎

I was having the same problem years ago -  
I thought if I put paragraphs in between pictures would keep them interested.
It has helped a little but I put on my screening page a couple of questions they have to answer so I know they looked at a few parts that are really important.

if YOUR process is generating this much confusion, have you ever considered it is too complicated?  You know in any industry they would be rethinking, whatever their process, if they were having this much difficulty with it, with KISS on the very top of their list.  Providers of other services try to consider all the variables that will allow them to attract the largest volume of clients.

First; It's not just me.

Sometimes it is the other gals. What I mean by that is that so many of us never have to give our real name OR the girls who say they need it on their site, will many times accept a date without it, failing to abide by their own demands/rules.

I see a much larger percentage of agency girls than indies.  You just text the booker and go have sex.  No website (in most cases), no rules.  In fact, we don't need no stinking rules.  

I work professionally in a communications, writing and translation environment and upon opening your website I noticed that you are using a cursive style font. This is the type of font most commonly used for wedding or party invitations, graduation announcements and so forth, where information is usually on one page and written in short sentence format. The average person will not be able to read it as fast as say a Helvetica or Times New Roman or Century Gothic font. Imagine reading a novel in the font you have chosen and you begin to see my point.

and I honestly don't see how anyone could miss it.

Visitors to my site rarely claim they didn't know the necessary info.  They try to get me to let 'em slide or make an exception or whatever, but they don't try to act surprised lol.  

Anyone reading this board most likely already knows what to read.  The ones who don't read your instructions don't read this board either.  And so it goes.

I'm just, you know.... trying.  Trying to help everyone avoid wasted time.  Because, honestly, it's very awkward for me to have to point it out when we were just about to confirm a session.  

They take it away completely as I REFUSE to jump through any,

I can relate. I also have a note about my screening requirements at the top of my P411 details, and another note at the bottom. Sometimes I still get guys who contact me without reading it.

Because that is probably the best response I have heard yet.

As much as we try to cram personality and fluffy, pretty, and enticing things into our ads/websites... guys will not read any of it. They simply will not. A select few with peaked curiosity might. Most won't. Your goal should be to provide quality info that is readable within 2-3 minutes. You have to figure out a way to incorporate the hook in that small time-frame.  

Actually, I used to do exactly as you described.  I'd send them my most important (and most overlooked) policies.

I am absolutely NOT talking about descriptions, personality, or any  type of "fluffy, pretty, enticing" nonsense.

...you want my real full name and photo ID on arrival, I would simply move on.  Like GaG, I have nothing to hide as I am out about mongering to everyone I know, but unlike GaG I consider that to be jumping through hoops.  

Actually i think you have that backwards. With the expansion of the internet over the years, indies have taken away market share from agencies the most. And also many agencies do require screening its becoming more commonplace.

You post about really hating the forms and i understand it, but don't you end up emailing or telling her all the info that would have been on the form anyways if she's a provider who screens?

Closer to 30% failure rate. If talking about complex step by step directions it's even worse.  
        Kind of sad at times.

I totally get where you're coming from. I have found that those who don't tend to read my site or any copy I have on my P411 or other bios don't typically become great clients. The ones who do read make the best clients for me. If I have to take them by the hand and lead them down a path with giant signs at every step along the way, we just aren't going to be compatible. I might see them once just in case they're a gem in the rough*, but if that's not the case I'm usually busy the next time they contact me.

Nice try Chino, but she's still not gonna fuck you

"Likes"  clients that read my web page.

Posted By: Debra_Hollander

Something that happens very frequently is that prospective clients contact providers to schedule, sometimes getting all the way through the screening process, about to confirm a day & time and then: an issue crops up which makes it very apparent the gentleman in question never read any of the relevant information.    
 Naturally, this always pertains to something that then makes the date a no-go.  
   
 The back-and-forth, checking references and so on, could all have been avoided if he had READ the information provided, which would have then had him moving on and finding someone else.  Always the best scenario, IMO.    
   
 It's frustrating for both parties to get to the point where we think we're just about set and Whammo!  There's a road-block.    
   
 For me personally, this happens most with P411 members.  I've asked them: Didn't you read my Biography section or visit my website?    
 Well, no.  A few have told me they've never even noticed that section of the profiles!  
   
 Usually, in my first reply PM I will write, "Please be sure you have read my Bio and are aware of all my policies."  
 But a significant percentage still don't do so.  
   
 I know everyone looks at the photos and rates; most likely the provider's statistics too.  I'm guessing a lot will follow the links to her reviews as well.  But not her own written text?    
   
 If you are one of those who skips the Biography section there and you also don't read her site's details, why?  
   
 That's what I want to understand: why don't you read it?  
   
 AND.......what could GET YOU to read that section?  Or to visit her site to read it there?  
   
   
 I'd really appreciate feedback on this, because short of holding up a "Read My Bio" sign in my pics (or body-painting it on my ass!)  I'm out of ideas.    
   
 TIA!  
   
 

You screen ONE time, and then you're good to see the steady stream of girls that pass through the agency over the course of several years.  With indies, you have to do the screening EACH time.  

What!? Screening every date??? No way. You must let some time lapse in between seeing a girl for her to double or triple screen you. That or something else is up.

There was recently an amazing provider on tour that was beaten, tazered, raped and robbed. She did not have the man's  real name or ID, and of course he hasn't been caught.  Another beautiful  lady was held at gunpoint and beaten and raped. He had a handle ...no real name given. I know both of these women. They are mothers, daughters and friends. They are real people who are kind and giving.  

Almost everything she needs to know is already in my profile there.

unlike with an agency where you get screened once and might see dozens of different girls working for the same agency.

At the risk of not giving your frustration it's due I would like to offer up this simple answer. That is, there is no answer.

Well yeah.... it's expected that guys will have to be screened seeing a new girl. Anyone afraid of what some crazed indy girl, as he put it, will do with their information have three choices. Don't do the hobby, see a girl who doesn't screen, or be more selective of the girls they see. Simple.
 

You say go to the 'biography' section, but there is a "FAQ" and "About Me" tab, no biography.  Yes, i know what you meant, but it sounds like you're not clear in your communications.  People think differently, you'd be surprised.