You make a great point about "life experiences"... as I've come across individuals older than myself who don't have a clue and still have the mind-set of a teenager. Some individuals are just more prone to maturity at a younger age, and some are forced to grow up more quickly than others, due to circumstances in their life. It really has nothing to do with an individuals age, but their maturity level. And then you have the group of individuals who "think" they have it all together in their mind...but in reality don't have a clue. You have individuals who have been through more in their life than those three times their age...sometimes it increases their maturity levels, & other times it works exactly the opposite, & they are forever stuck in the mind-frame of when things in life first started to go wrong & can never get over it.
Posted By: ChgoCPA
And now you're just summarizing what YOU said to spin it slightly. Not a biggie all the way around, but own what you do post.
You are also quite generalizing that all women under 35 are less equipped then over that moment in time. That is also just your perception, and again you are suggesting that for a reason. I have not found that to be true...and I've been around for a few years. As have many of the other posters who have shared that same sentiment with you.
I gather you are suggesting that someone with more life experiences would be better to chat with...during the down time. Maybe, maybe not. I've had many a great chat with a "kid" of 25 and listened to a 50 something drone on about TV garbage. The reality is that my initial reason for seeing a hooker is NOT because of her chatting skills. If that was the most important part of the rendezvous, I would be at any University college hooking up with those actively pursuing their studies.
Nope...I am there to see a cute pussy and hopefully a cute face. If I see her again then she has piqued my interest beyond that. YOU are looking to find guys who want to "date" you. No problem...but this is P4P and most seem to want to find a hole to fuck. There is an audience who will babble that the chat is important, and honestly I am one of them. But I sure as hell won't pay to listen to you babble. And I don't charge you to listen to me babble. Fair enough?
Posted By: mstaylorsteele
a woman should be 35+...I said with what is really going on and with the maturity level now that I'm in it, it would be at her best interest to wait until she was older. You can't speak for us CPA no offense, you're not a Provider...you're on the other side love. There is alot to take in emotionally, physically, spiritually, in this aspect...it is NOT just fucking and giving our bodies away...no matter what you all think. And yes, in my opinion, there could be some serious repercussions on younger women who have not had life experience to deal with the aftermath of that. I don't agree with you.
Of course there will always be the young amazingly beautiful face and young bodies in their 20's, hell look at the teenages, they 'appear' 10 years older than they are...but in reality, they are still young girls any way you butter the bread. It's a facade and society has made them 'grow up' sooner than they should...doesn't mean they are grown up, that's my point. That dear sir, takes years to do...to actually grow up. And to even insinuate I have an ounce of jealousy in these beauties, you are joking right? hahahahaha trust me I'm the last of the jealous group of women, I don't know why I'm one of those women who wasn't given the jealous bone in her body, but I don't attain it. My personal life would attest to that, trust me. But I can assure you, the 'competition' I think you are hinting at, is not there whatsoever. Being an older woman, you tend to naturally care for the younger ones almost like a mother hen and their well being. Nothing more than that. And god knows this business can eat you up if you're not really 'ready' to do this even when you think you are. I'm actually surprised you would even think that, but oh well, not too much surprises me these days?
If it's not pretty clear, I'm all about independent women and taking what's theirs and being successful so they can make a life of their own independent of anyone, either in this business or another...I'm just saying, starting early in this business, may not be the healthiest move now that I am here as a 43 yo. I can say these things because I am in it. I see what is going on. And I don't like it. Some girls are too young. Period.
Don't take it out of context and assume CPA...that will make you an ass bud. And I know you aren't that.
