It is indeed impossible to lick your elbow....

Yes, every person is capable of loving other person, regardless of profession.. Having sex for money doesn't mean she can't love another man..especially when she is doing it willingly.  

Now if someone is forced into prostitution and being abused by strange men, day after day, fucking and sucking 8-10 men a day, it might fundamentally change how she feels about men in general...

But you start an interesting topic....Much better than whining about provider being 10 min late..

I sent in all pertinent info...along with the advance payment you requested.

Is there a problem?

Self-imposed hiatus?

This isn't giving me a warm fuzzy that the 2013 tour is going to happen.  We're nearly halfway through the year.

What if a hooker is 10 minutes late?  Oh sorry...that was the last thread  

Can we get my pal elusive1two laid.  He seems to be a bit grumpy that many of the mongers make a shit load of money here.  Maybe we can start a thread on that?

Posted By: Ridgetucky

On my self-imposed hiatus from the hobby (please, please my friends don't worry I will be back to something kinky real soon)  
   
 .... I was watching the hit series Bates Motel on A&E and Vera Bates said something so profound it hit me like a BRICK  
   
 & I quote "Norman, sex affects a woman mentally and physically".  
   
 Truer words have never been spoken my friends!  
   
 And that led me to posit the question (Can a Provider Love a Man?  Any man?)  
   
 With a Provider having so much sex (and for $$$ nonetheless) it HAS 2 affect her mental state of mind.  
   
 And with it the capability to ever truly love a man.  
   
 I mean I feel sooooooo bad that these women will never truly have what I have.  - Well I mean I don't feel that bad after all I just paid you like $300 or $400.  I mean damn really c'mon but hey I do feel kinda bad.  
   
 Anyway, if a woman has FU---- like 50,100,500 guys can she really ever find true love?  
   
 R Providers using sex as a substitute for Luv?  
   
 Think about  
   
   
 RT Says:  It is impossible to lick you elbow (ha ha you R busted!!!)  
   
   
   
 

Come on man,

kind of a rude question imo.
Did u forget they are human, first and foremost.
Geeze, the question almost pisses me off.

There's a difference between having sex with a man you love and having sex with a man because you're getting paid for it.  The enjoyment I get from sex is directly proportional to how much I like the person.  The better the sex is the more likely I will start to feel feelings of attachment.  This is generally why in my personal life I tend to chose FWBs that I'm attracted to and like as a person but could never see myself with.  Women can seperate sex from love just as easily as men can, provided they don't have more than friendly feelings toward the person.

Well, everyone is capable of love.  Even the most sadistic evil people on the face of this earth who deserve to rot in hell, like those 3 brothers I am sure are capable of loving their let's say... mother.  So I am positive that providers are capable of love.

But I do wonder if the fact that they are seeing so many men might skew their perception of love.  Something I might ask the next time I see a provider.  Or should I not ask at all?  If you ladies wouldn't mind answering that, I would definitely appreciate it.

Thanks for bringing it up Ridge.

I could rebut your inane post, but that would be pointless for such a troll.  So instead, I offer this brief ditty

They love my cock and make me promise I will be bYet I have none call me and want some more euither p4p or OTC.

I can't detach and have sex with someone that I don't love. I love my clients..sometimes I cry when they leave..I find it difficult. I love people in general. But I remember every thing my clients tell me and I truly care. If someone comes to the door that i haven;t met and I don;t feel that I can be genuine. I very nicely describe that it isn;t right, it has zero to do with looks. I appreciate a well mannered gentleman who is kind and has a keen mind and appreciates those qualities in me. I could not have a relationship and provide ..never. I see about two regulars per week and that is all the love I have. I would be insane if I saw multiple men. I don't know how they do it. Bless them.

While sex and love certainly do go hand in hand, for providers I think most of us seperate the emotions from our work sex, so that when we have sex in our personal lives it's so much different and more enjoyable and just on a totally different level.

I'm very capable of loving and I find that escorting makes me realize what I want and don't want in a partner and also allows me to appreciate and realize what a rarity a truly good guy is. One thing that I think may be difficult for us ladies when it comes to love is- being able to 110% trust our man for ever and always to never step out on us. We've heard and seen every excuse and story in the book when it comes to cheating and why it's okay or what they are saying or thinking in their heads, so potentially that could give us ladies a hard time when it's time to settle down and committing to only one person and believe that one person is committed solely to us.  

Just an educated guess and opinion from my own point of view

With a John having so much sex (and paying $$$ for it nonetheless) it HAS 2 affect his mental state of mind.

And with it the capability to ever truly love a woman.

I mean I feel sooooooo bad that these men will never truly have what I have.  - Well I mean I don't feel that bad after all I just got paid  like $300 or $400.  

Anyway, if a man has FU---- like 50,100,500 women can he really ever find true love?

R johns using sex as a substitute for Luv?



Makes about as much sense as your post )))

OMG yes but it has to be one she knows through friends or one she has relationship with as friends for a long time that has got to know her not an obvious guy who just wants to get laid.

That's only meant half in jest.

All people are capable of love, regardless of what their day job (or night job) is.

Whether we ever achieve that or not is up to how well we practice the basics of love:  Respect, knowledge, and care.  If we practice those, it matters not what else we do for a living.

of course we can fall in love be loved and return the affection.

Not everyone here gets lost in this world. Many stay grounded and seperate who we are from what we do.
And the Men we love are able to see us as who we are and not what we do.
Im not saying this is easy on a relationshipo but its doable with the right two ppl and the right frame of mind.

I am a provider as a profession not as a person.
Its what I do not who I am.

That would be like saying *Can a John or Trick really ever love*
Do you see yourself that way?
I dont.
You are a client a man who too is capable of love as well as Lust.

why would it be any different for us.

More than not  we are low volume. Most dont put in a 40hr week its one or two days a few clients then back to our real lives, our family friends and lovers.

Kinky!

How open minded can you be assuming providers have sex all day?

I think some guys have no clue & sex is not everything.  Some of us are more, than just sex workers.