What are your thoughts when a lady greets you with 'hey love' or 'my love' or otherwise uses the L word too often when you aren't exactly her lover?   Do you guys find that it sounds sweet and adds to the GFE?  
Or do you just dismiss it all and simply consider it as just a part of courtesy?

I realize it's a GFE illusion, but for some odd reason, when a women whom I only met a few times start using the word 'love' too many times....
yet still expects the donation, three letters pop up in my mind:

First is..... W
Second...  T
Third....... F

Well there you have it!!! You hit your nail right on the head there, Drunk.

Those are your FEELINGS, not what you realize the case is by using rational thought. And your aversion to a petnmame containing a form of "love" is odd.

I've had providers who have a more flirtatious style use a variety of petname terms, e.g. sweetie, honey or big papa with me and I don't think anything of it. (then again those are completely accurate descriptors of ol' HalfHour)

Maybe sobering up could help???

Or get with Madabi51 about some kind of desensitising therapy???

Or ask the lady at the beginning of a session to call you EXACTLY the petname you prefer, like PeeWee or Dutch or BooBoo, or whatever feels right to you, you know?

Good luck with that! It sure sounds like a real bitch for you to endure that. My heart goes out to you, bro.


HalfHour

Doesn't mean shit in this world. A lady calls you, or me, 'love' or 'sexy', is like calling a kid 'cutie'.

We pay them to say that, no matter how much they deny it. It enhances the mood and makes you feel more special than you actually are.

You're 'sexy' cuz you brought an envelope, and they 'love' you cuz your dumbass will be gone in an hour or two.

Am I right, or am I right?...

If he thinks he's being abused he can always pull some strings at work and get the NAACP, or NAMBLA, or NOW, or whatever that acronymed organization it is he works for, to get involved.


HH

Hell yes you can!!! If they call you a petname you can do the same! abso-malut-ley.

I like to be creative, but you have to ease into it.

"Sweetie" is the best starter. If you see a lady several times you can move to "sweetness" on the next visit. Then over to something like "sweetcheeks" or "sweetpants."

The book a longer date and move into something more personal and intimate like "moneypanties" or the bolder "fuckdoll."

Depending on your realtionship and how much dirty talk she likes, you can get really wild with it. fun! fun! fun!

Now go get creative, cashcock!!!


HH

I say hun, honey, luv all the time to women and men ....i'm a friendly girl and well it's how I talk. I hope guys will simply take it as a term of endearment NOTHING more.  Please don't think i'm in love with you or that i'm starting to fall in love....I assure you i'm not. But if it bothers a gent I'd rather he say so....making someone uncomfortable is not my thing.

yeah i'm pretty sure it's a term of endearment. lmao

What else can it be?   So does this mean that it's ok for guys to say this to providers as well?

Soemthing tells me ladies are not going to be fond of the idea lol

I promise I will never ever refer to you as Love as long as your promise never to refer to me as
"Hey darlin" or Honey or sweetie"

This behavior in my mind is Lazy and drives me Crazy and not in that fun and good way..

His self-esteem is already in the toilet.  I am afraid if he absorbs more abuse here I will have to increase his meds.  He is already dependent on his Flintstone vitamins and they are rotting his teeth.

Love ain't anywhere the same as darlin, honey, or sweetie. Just sayin. lol