"an interest to share with it others, bragging rights, the simple pleasure of doing whatever it is that makes them happy. "
This may explain why they participate in some hobby, but not why they choose to excel. There's a huge amount of work and sacrifice that goes into excelling at something. Men generally seem cut out for that because the rewards are somehow related to sex. But for women, what's the motivation?I believe everything men do is because they have hopes of getting rewarded with sex ( even if there's a 0.00001% chance of hit ). SNL did a great skit on this concept here:
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=lMYOQ3NAidg
Or read this Scientific American article about whether men and women can be platonic friends.:
https://www.scientificamerican.com/article/men-and-women-cant-be-just-friends/
To quote from the article:
"However, the possibility remains that this apparently platonic coexistence is merely a façade, an elaborate dance covering up countless sexual impulses bubbling just beneath the surface."
Having said all that, I often wonder what motivates a woman to become highly skillful in something? I have a few interests like tennis, soccer, guitar, comedy, computing, engineering etc. I belong to many online forums for these hobbies and they are all male dominated. It's full of men trying to one-up another in hopes of increasing their chances of getting sex..
So what motivates a women to get great at these hobbies? Social media is full of attractive females excelling in all these hobbies. All I can do is think how do they do it? What motivates them to get better and better?
I call BS on just about everything you posted. First of all women and men can be just friends. It happens all the time. It's as if you want to simplify and condense gender interactions to only sexual ones and that's just not the case. Everyone isn't sexually attracted to everyone. And AFA women's motivation to enjoy hobbies? Same as men's- an interest to share with it others, bragging rights, the simple pleasure of doing whatever it is that makes them happy. Your "beliefs" in these matters seem one dimensional and simplistic. Maybe it's time to think of people as multi dimensional beings and not just walking gonads.
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If I want to be generous, I would say he is naive, has no social skills, and has very little real experience with women except for paid sex. If I'm feeling not so generous, I can't say what I should say because my post would be deleted due to being "slanderous and trouble-making." Lol
except for paid sex?"
Sounds like most of the guys on here.
Sounds like most guys in general. And I love the white knights going straight for the ad hominen . Like they are trying to get a one-up with any provider who notices..
"an interest to share with it others, bragging rights, the simple pleasure of doing whatever it is that makes them happy. "
This may explain why they participate in some hobby, but not why they choose to excel. There's a huge amount of work and sacrifice that goes into excelling at something. Men generally seem cut out for that because the rewards are somehow related to sex. But for women, what's the motivation?
I don't know what kind of hobbies that you partake in, but everyone that has hobbies will try to excel and improve their involvement in them. That's the drive. Men aren't "cut out" for it. That's BS. Women are just as driven and successful in their endeavors. Your stereotypes and generalizations are as fucked up as this misogynistic thread is. Maybe you'll meet a woman someday and you'll find out for yourself.
don't agree with the OP's premise. Lol I don't, either. To prove your point, challenge him to a pussy-eating contest. I'll be your second at the duel.
lol you kidding? Superior, sex driven misogynists don't eat pussy....they aren't there to pleasure women. It's all about THEIR pleasure! And besides, sex isn't important to women since it doesn't drive them to excel in hobbies. That's proof right there, right?
Lopaw
It is like the pride of being a champion. First you like the activity. Then once you are into it then you try to master it. It is not always about hedonistic or copulatory pleasure.
I already mentioned the hobbies in my first post. If women are just as driven as men then why can't the #1 women's tennis player beat the top 1000 ranked male player? Why are wars always fought by men? Surely there are billions of years of evolution supporting me. Try arguing with some facts and data instead of woke virtue signaling . It's obvious you are just trying to score some brownie points with any provider reading your posts... Ironically you are just proving my point i.e men do stuff just to increase their chances of sex !
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Tennis? War? Just the fact that you used those as examples to try and support your argument really sheds light on your very limited comprehension of the world. Its embarrassing, actually. Your lack of understanding of basics like human biology and societal mores comes out stronger with every post. You are a waste of time and not worth the bandwidth to even try and reason with. Your childish and immature impression of the world is both hilarious and troubling. It's true that you can't fix stupid. Good luck to you and your incel philosophies. You'll need it.
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Billie Jean King and Bobby Riggs. And I know some women who could beat the snot out of any guy here. There are always outliers. It’s the influence of testosterone during growth and development. It’s why trans athletes don’t belong in women’s sports. But, where body mass and strength don’t matter, women are competitive. Any talented shooter will tell you that women make very talented marksmen.
Many sports don't require body mass and strength. Even those that do, women can easily compensate with their superior flexibility and stamina. But the fact remains that the top women will be competitive with the top 1000 man in most sports. The women are just not as motivated as men to excel, which results in a smaller pool size which means fewer champions..
Didn't anyone watch When Harry met Sally? Harry gives a whole spiel about how men and women can't be just friends.
Harry Burns:
You realize of course that we could never be friends.
Sally Albright:
Why not?
Harry Burns:
What I'm saying is - and this is not a come-on in any way, shape or form - is that men and women can't be friends because the sex part always gets in the way.
Sally Albright:
That's not true. I have a number of men friends and there is no sex involved.
Harry Burns:
No you don't.
Sally Albright:
Yes I do.
Harry Burns:
No you don't.
Sally Albright:
Yes I do.
Harry Burns:
You only think you do.
Sally Albright:
You say I'm having sex with these men without my knowledge?
Harry Burns:
No, what I'm saying is they all WANT to have sex with you.
Sally Albright:
They do not.
Harry Burns:
Do too.
Sally Albright:
They do not.
Harry Burns:
Do too.
Sally Albright:
How do you know?
Harry Burns:
Because no man can be friends with a woman that he finds attractive. He always wants to have sex with her.
Sally Albright:
So, you're saying that a man can be friends with a woman he finds unattractive?
Harry Burns:
No. You pretty much want to nail 'em too.
Sally Albright:
What if THEY don't want to have sex with YOU?
Harry Burns:
Doesn't matter because the sex thing is already out there so the friendship is ultimately doomed and that is the end of the story.
Sally Albright:
Well, I guess we're not going to be friends then.
Harry Burns:
I guess not
It’s a movie. Written to make Harry look like some kind of an idiot….
My twin & I loved to wrestle. If you recall the show GLOW. Lol Smile for me! We were the only girls on the all boys wrestling team. Sex was never the motive in middle school, or high school. I’m athletic by nature & competitive. I run almost everyday. I swim 4 days a week. I like to be active & fit.
I have found that competitive women are the best sex partners.
They must be trans, but don't know it.
Moron.
It was way, way, way, way, way more than one.
bait and switch. Well done.
I also believe we may see him back here in the not-too-distant future.
Even though he claims to have given up whore-mongering.
several nominees, but in the end GaG decreed who the SPOTY was.
Also, CKS, the official TER vote counter, didn't have enough fingers and toes to tally all the votes.
Oh this gem of an OP has got to be in the running. His ass must be pretty jealous of all the shit that comes out of his mouth.
Well.. Tell him to get his ass over then... If he ain't here someone has to do the job.. It's not like we can task gdaddy with it.
GaG might have given up mongering but I don't know why he gave up talking to the mongers.
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girlfriend, you would know why he would rather talk to her than to us. I think I'd rather talk to her than to you guys, too, but I don't have that option. Lol
I've talked to her myself, several times, and actually seen her.
She's hot.
Facetime, but I don't do that stuff, only emails and texts. If she is hot like you say, I may have to rethink my Facetime policy. Lol It seems you have settled your differences. That's good. Life's too short. Now, if only a certain troll's life would become a little shorter, all would be right in the world. Lol
Yes, I have officially retired from whore-mongering. I know "all you all" (Yes I am still in Texas) will have a hard time believing this, but this old whore-monger went out and fell in love. Go figure, right?
That said, I guess I no longer have any claims to make any SPOTY rulings, but I have to agree the OP should put the poster in question immediately in the running. We all know hookers don't have real lives and that they just hang upside down in the closet like bats in between sessions, but ALL women??? Just how stupid does one have to be to wonder why a woman would want to succeed at something besides sucking dick? lmao
Anyhow, this post does not mean by any stretch of the imagination that I am "back" but I do have some unfinished business with HPY, he and I made a bet a year or so ago that I almost certainly am going to lose so since we made the bet publicly I suppose I should acknowledge my concession publicly as well. Unlike a certain Prapussy, I am NOT a welsher. This gambler pays his debts. lol
Now since you have retired, are you going to write a book about some of your favorite copulatory conquests? You would probably get a hefty royalty for it. After all everyone wants to know what you know about hoe.
Yes, I have officially retired from whore-mongering. I know "all you all" (Yes I am still in Texas) will have a hard time believing this, but this old whore-monger went out and fell in love. Go figure, right?
That said, I guess I no longer have any claims to make any SPOTY rulings, but I have to agree the OP should put the poster in question immediately in the running. We all know hookers don't have real lives and that they just hang upside down in the closet like bats in between sessions, but ALL women??? Just how stupid does one have to be to wonder why a woman would want to succeed at something besides sucking dick? lmao
Anyhow, this post does not mean by any stretch of the imagination that I am "back" but I do have some unfinished business with HPY, he and I made a bet a year or so ago that I almost certainly am going to lose so since we made the bet publicly I suppose I should acknowledge my concession publicly as well. Unlike a certain Prapussy, I am NOT a welsher. This gambler pays his debts. lol
Nice to see you back if only briefly. And props to Mikey, a/k/a MP67, for getting us back together. It's a shame you won't spend much time here, as I always enjoy kicking your lame, Chink ass around. ROR!
Good to see you all good and well GaG
Falling in love even. That's crazy. You a married man yet?
Cheers
Good to see you again, especially under these circumstances, lol. Hope you're enjoying domesticity. I'm hooking up with as many hot little Asian chickies as possible, all in your honor ![]()
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Lopaw broke into the Kgirl scene and now every week is like Christmas for her. Lol
I'm seeing my little kgirl on Saturday ![]()
Eros is the force that drives evolution. Life is designed to always move forward. This drive affects everything and keeps it all in motion. Women notwithstanding.
But to save me from writing a huge diatribe, a quick google search found this to be quite sufficient to anyone curious for more details about what I just said.
https://aljeffery.com/wp-content/uploads/2021/08/Eros-the-Evolution-of-Life-and-Mind-and-Moving-from-Psychology-Toward-Soul-Making_Al-Jeffery.pdf?fbclid=IwAR0Yu79mlEKZRLscG1AoCPhlYPdBGk-UhvSnN7Z2O9EDqTGe4XddiE2tb1s