Waves hi

You have a regular provider, perhaps you have a few...  

If one of them gains weight or loses weight....do you continue to see her.  

If she was a slim size 4 and went to size 8....are you disappointed.

If she was busty, curvy, thick, etc and she lost the curves....are you disappointed?

How do you handle this?

 
Sounds like a stupid question.....I know.....however....might be some interesting responses.

I really have never figured out how to tell a "fat broad" that she's fat. So being the shallow, cowardly pig that I am, I usually just stop calling when they start getting fat.

 

Weight is VERY important to me, nothing turns me off faster than a fat broad. I divorced my wife in large part to her "letting herself go" and no way in hell am I paying to fuck a fattie. Actually this did happen to me recently, a 19 year old sugar baby I had been seeing for quite some time now had been gaining weight over the last few months and the last time I saw her she had gained enough weight to where I was simply no longer attracted to her, in true "mature" GaGambler fashion, I simply stopped answering her texts. lol

to GaG, although I never had to divorce someone because they let themselves go.  My late wife was still 5-2, 103# the day she died.  But like GaG, I can't see myself ever fucking a woman with a lot of extra "curves" (I'm still in polite mode this morning).  I don't consider a provider a regular of mine unless I am seeing her a couple of times a month, so I think I would notice a 5 pound weight change sooner rather than later, in time to say something at least a little bit tactful about it without completely destroying her self-image, but the last thing I would do is keep seeing her unless she took corrective action right away.  

I have found that I like big women and thin women. Your question is about changes in physique. I have been seeing some women for almost 3 years and in that time a few of them have gained some pounds and lost some of those pounds. One big girl who was what I called seriously voluptuous, but was not a BBBW. Over a 6 month period she lost about 30 pounds.  
I'm not intellectual about beauty, I look and if she looks beautiful to me, she is beautiful to me. And this woman lost some of her great hips and arse. But, her humongous beautiful boobs were still there and I was just as turned on as the day i started playing with her. I must add that she could suck the chrome off a trailer hitch and perhaps that colored my perception.  

So, maybe I'm one of those "most over 50" that cdl was talking about in another thread, that performance is more important to.

I've never been attracted to big women, so the possibility of a size 8 or larger provider being a regular is unlikely for me.

 
Now if my size 0 or 2 became a size 4, I'd take notice but stay the course. Much bigger and I become a memory.

Man or woman, when they develop flaps and folds its kind of revolting.  Youngsters can pack on the pounds and they'll have tight skin for a while.  But eventually the folds will develop.  

I'm afraid I'm a man of few words.  More actions, like taking her off my list.

Women (and people in general) should take care of themselves.  If someone is fit and in shape then they should do their best to stay that way.  There are acceptable ranges of weight fluctuation but a slim fit person should not allow themselves to become significantly heavier and expect to be physically admired as they once were IMHO.  

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But I have no problem seeing a BBW for BBBJ.  In fact, I have repeated with some for their excellent BBBJ skills.

As to the original question I was very happy seeing a girl 5'8 who was in fact a bikini model at 105 lbs.  She was a bit flaky in scheduling but I was always pleased with her looks and service.  One day after a 6 month gap I see her again and I could not believe it, she was 200lbs!  I was not going to walk out because I liked her from previous experience and her BBBJ were still the same.  She did have an explanation which made a lot of sense.  [Don't want to go into more detail because this girl was well known.  She has dropped off TER and P411 but is probably around 35 so she may come back]

I had quietly decided I would not call her again.  6 months later she emails me that she is coming to town and says she has lost 60 lbs.  I did see her and she had lost the weight, and we had a good hour with lots of BBBJ and conversation...I know that's kind of an oxymoron.  My hope at that point was that she would continue losing weight and I always had the slim image of her in my mind.

Not long after that she did drop out of hobbyland.  She pulled her reviews and de-activated her P411.  In fact I still have an okay from her P411 which is still there, inactive status.

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Back in the early days of Craigslist...around 2005?  when pictures were just starting in Craigslist ads.  I read an ad from a girl who seemed very intelligent and in fact had leading edge technical skills.  She had automated e-reply to her emails which was new technology back then.  She did not post a pic and said she was only interested in seeing men for her passion, not her looks.  This was before P411 and TER was not so widely known.  Screening [both sides screening each other] was based on a 30 second phone conversation.  

So I get to her apt and this woman is 300+...maybe 400.  I don't think I can estimate accurately over 200.  She had a classy porn flic playing next to the bed for men to keep their eyes busy.  She had a sweet voice, which is probably what hooked me in our phone conversation.  Anyway I had an hour to kill as I had plans to meet a friend at a nearby strip club after the appointment.

I asked her to lay down and let me fuck her mouth, expecting her to stay fully clothed.  Service was not bad, and I kept my eyes on the porn flick.  Staying hard was not difficult in her mouth.  When the hour was over I was totally disgusted with myself.  For a few minutes I considered driving my car into the ocean...or something similar.  Anyway, met my friend at the strip club and got over it after viewing a few naked dancers.

I do have to give the woman credit for going onto Craigslist and doing what she did.  But not my cup of tea.  I'll never fuck a fatty...would never be able to get it up anyway.

I will put this in caps.....

I KNOW why I wrote this....

SIZE 8 IS NOT FAT

SIZE 8 IS NOT FAT

 
Where does anybody see where I wrote to that....

Was there a hooker meeting I missed and I am now branded a slobbyist....... REALLY!!!!

 
And for no record, oddly no one mentioned anything about their provider losing weight......they went straight for the fat jokes. I guess that's my fault as well.

 
Rolls eyes......

I change my photos as I go up and down in weight. I don't want anyone to have a surprise when they cum to visit.  I have never been teeny - it's not how I was born to be.
 
'Tuties' are people too and life happens to us, just like it happens to every John or Jackie.  

I agree, that it is John's & Jackie's $ nickle $ and they should spend it where they want to. And where the woody likes to rise and the land Y wet.
I happen to like meeting a variety of shapes and sizes and the personalities that come with them. It keeps thing interesting.

OH YES -Lisa, I know why I responded-  
I appreciate my sweeties,  
I appreciate my sweeties,
I appreciate my sweeties.  
The wonderful people who go through the ups and downs with me!!! Thanks you guys!

First off, Mick did indeed talk about a provider losing 30 pounds.

 
Secondly, Fat is in the eyes of the beholder. A woman who is 5' 9" weighs 135 and wears a size 8 is most definitely NOT FAT, but a former spinner who is 5' tall who used to be a size zero but is now a size 8, that girl is most definitely a fatty.

 
Don't blame me, blame the fat. lol

if you are 5ft 9in and 135lbs you are probably a 4 not an 8....