A few years ago, back home in NYC  I had lost my job because I don't think I can work under someone else.  

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I've always found it interesting how people got into this business on both sides

...it a second time?  It seems that all was well with your world after you got on your feet.

I was invited to a very exclusive private party that had over 40 ladies in attendance.  Yes, ONLY ladies.  It was a weekend long event, in Miami and Fort Lauderdale and it was hosted by a great friend of mine, ironically somebody that I met while I was dancing in Miami in my earlier years.  The gracious host kicked off the weekend event with a gift of perfectly sized new sexy high heels for each lady who RSVP'd.  Prostate massage lessons followed, food, booze, and ladies.  I fell in love with so many ladies that weekend.   We went swimming with the dolphins, we bonded and I was hooked.  I was introduced to a lifestyle and people that loved to love.  It was an easy step to make, as I hated dancing, escorting seemed so much more authentic.  My only regret is not having started sooner.  

After graduating college I got a decent offer from a company I had intern for, in my head I was thinking " okay great got a entry level career to start off with". What I did not realize is that entry level in Southern California does not make that much when I took into account of paying my student loans off. I like my entry level career it's just not cutting it, so I was in LA with a few of my sorority sisters when one brought up "escorting" she told me about a few boards along with some safety tips. Her & I met up again she showed me how to make use of the boards, I recall my first meeting I was slightly nervous. After screening him we meet, he was very polite not the stigma that some people assume about this line of work, not saying everyone will be nice but he was and made it that much more fun. After our meeting, I decided this can be a line of work to help supplement my income to make paying off my student loans way more manageable. So far I like providing, I have made nice with a few providers/hobbyist who have been helpful.

I get to fuck sexy men on a weekly basis.what's not to like about the sex industry!?Loving it

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i ran into a girl that was doing it and she introduced me to the San Diego people

So I said you know what, I used to work for an agency, now let me try this on my own. Because my regular job wasn't paying well and I was in school full time too so money was not too much. That's why, and to be honest now it's balanced, my life is much better, I have a great place, goals and plans for my permanent future. Because we all know as a female this business is not permanent, at least that's my theory.

I asked her why she did this, since she had a degree and parents who had money, she told me exact words: " I was a slut in high school for free, why not get paid, to have sex with different guys. Plus it's safer than being a slut"

At least, I happen to find the reasons behind my own "comeback tour" more interesting than how I got started. LOL.  

NaomiGrey, yes and having fun along the way

Culturally I grew up with the mentality that a man should never pay for sex, and to tell you the truth I've never had a problem with getting laid outside of the hobby.  I was on deployment in Spain and some of my buddies came back from liberty raving about some brothel they had went to in Barcelona.  I had mixed feelings because it went against what I was taught but I thought to myself, you only live once and I have regretted not going to at least visit during the entire deployment.  Fast forward to 2007 and beyond, I was stationed in good ole San Diego, CA. Keep in mind this was pre TER, and even BP. My avenues during that time were CL and Cityvibe.  Around that time I had received a a nice sized re-enlistment bonus, so i had a quite a bit of disposable income and I created some lasting memories with some if it (wink wink).

I was doing well. I just thought I was good at this and I had flirted with escorting before. Then met the right person at the right time who gave me great advice. I had money saved. Was going to school. My job was changing management and I used that as my Segway to get the hell out of there.  

Do NOT make light of R2D2, the REAL hero of the first 6 films.  

Since then did you ever travel to Barcelona to see what that brothel was about? I would go!!

Hahaha that is a great explanation but most girls actually won't admit that the first reason they get into this is money. Lol I just talked about this with someone lol  

Too deep and too intelligent for normal conversation and relating to others. Too busy also with work and hobbies. Prefer much younger women, have lots of money. There ya go. I'm finding I make a fantastic sugar daddy though to girls that like to laugh- my wit is sharp as a samurai sword and they end up having alot of fun. There's never been much more to my relationships than just laughing together- I have no interest in revealing myself more or getting to know them better. Every therapist I've seen says I'm a fascinating man, and not one has been able to help me. Too bad they don't have sex with their clients, one of them was a dmoking hot petite Latina. I imagine she might have given me a celebration fuck if the therapy had been successful, she was really into her job.

No, I didn't go back to Barcelona, but we had a wash down in Rota, Spain before we were to head back to the U.S.  I visited a brothel there, it was unreal, bar styled with hotel rooms connected.  Seriously some of the most gorgeous women you've ever seen just walking around in lingerie and bathing suits.  I made up for missing out for so long!

You say you lost your civi job because you don't think you can work under someone.
So you. choose THIS profession?

So the mother tells the daughter who is 12 what she does for a living. Daughter turns 18 and then goes into same biz as the mother. (BTW: both of them work at a place where it is legal.)

There was a lot of bullshit going on in her family.  That, and other factors, led me to question my beliefs about everything, and I became an atheist (hence the number on my handle).  She couldn't handle my atheism, and her response was to drink like a fish and start having affairs...with thugs and gangbangers.  My response was to start looking for a girlfriend.  That wasn't working so well, and then I saw a news article about some Canadian politician getting busted as part of a national police sting on pageback.  I figured the cops would be tied up with the courts, and the pimps would be in hiding, so I decided to try it out.  I met my ATF three days later.

I'm glad your ATF happened so soon in the beginning

The advert asked for ladies for an upmarket gentlemans club and I had no clue. I was backpacking in Australia and had run out of money so needed to work fast and when I called the advert they told me to go there immediately. I thought I'd be a barmaid or a waitress or something and when the recoetionist told me she'd take me upstairs and show me the bedrooms I nearly had a fit!!  
As it was I thought well why not? I dont know anyone here and I've never put sex and love in the same category and I'm pretty and young so I'll give it a go. I made more in one night there than I'd made in the previous two weeks and after being there for a while and learning the ropes and then taking a long travel break, I went independent and have done that on and off for a few years

Then katie-bar-the-door. My last couple years in my marriage were sexless. Lot of porn and having off. I decided not to "cheat" ... really my mistake. That's it's own story.

I mean they know, but don't really know. Ya know? Haha

After my divorce, I got custody.  Between my job, long commute and taking care of my 10 year old, I had no time to go out and try to find a normal romance.  Somehow, I don't really remember, I heard about finding escorts via the internet.   This was about 20 years ago, before TER but AOL was a source, believe it or not.  I found a local agency run by a couple of young gals who would do outcall to my house.   When I tried it, and pretty girls came to my door (late at night when they tyke was asleep) and all it took was a phone call, wow!   I was like a kid in a candy store, calling 2 or 3 times a week. Even some doubles.  Took care of my itch, and kept me sane.   Eventually the kid got big and on his own, but I still enjoy the hobby from time to time.

This is my second - third go around. I've been on "hiatus" for almost a year. Went back to the 9-5 (8-6) while still being a student. How in the hell do you accomplish that? So, I had a choice to make..stay at the entry level job and place college on the back burner or find something that would allow some flexibility?

with a lousy sense of humor can get laid.   Well, that and the fact that I am socially awkward and nobody really likes the hump on my back, it scares people - now, no jokes about humping my back please, I may be differently-abled but I do not want anybody to make fun of my hump although the stump is fair game.

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A lady of the evening walked across the street, came up to me, smiled, and stroked my cock. From that moment on the idea of forbidden sex has had a hold deep in my brain. If it would have been one of the church girls to have done that, it would have been a different story.

When I graduated college I didn't want to go back for more college. So I moved back to Atlanta and started bartending while I decided what I wanted to do...  

I am 56 y/o, single, never married, not children and retired.

It's a great story!!! So unfortunate that your work blocked your access

I like blowjobs, always have and always will.  Dated around when I was young and single and most girls did not like giving BBBJ.  Met my wife (35 or so) years ago and found she had the skill and did not mind giving BBBJDTCIMNSNQ on a regular basis.  She moved in with me, kept me smiling and we got married.  I never touched another woman during the 5 or so years we were living together and the first 20 years we were married, not one!  Then one day she tells me she won't be servicing me anymore.  One month later I found TER and started hobbying.  Have had a fantastic time hobbying ever since.    
 
Our marriage has endured because we both have what we want, or at least we both have what we say we want.  We both enjoyed sex when we were young.  Early on I remember having sores on my dick, not because of STD but simply abrasions from having so many hours of sex everyday. Have always believed in fitness and was a regular runner for many years.  I was 32 inch waist and 155 lbs from high-school till my early 40s. At around 40 the wife tells me to stop running to spend more time with the children, so I did.  Five years later I was 200 lbs 38 inch waist.  This is what led to that day the wife told me my blowjobs were at an end, because I was too fat.  Doing what she had asked was the reason I had put on the pounds.  Well the hookers didn't mind my beer-belly, and I didn't mind being sucked off by pretty young hookers, and every night I would come home to the wife and sleep next to her and everyone is happy.  I slimmed down to 185 shortly after hitting the 200 lb mark because I could not see past my beer-belly while receiving blowjobs, and I was totally disgusted with my body for not being able to cut my own toe-nails (and a few other reasons too disgusting to post) while at 200lbs.  
 
About two years ago I was at home reading TER and sharing emails with hookers and fell asleep.  The wife was out somewhere and I did not expect her to come back until late.  Well, she came back early and found my laptop open with TER and my hobbymail.  She woke me up and I knew instantly from the look on her face that I was in trouble.  She cried: “how can you do this” and I told her the story written above, I tell you no lie.  I also told her I would be much happier “getting it” at home.  I would never stray as long as she takes care of me.  That put an end to the argument, and leaves us where were are now.  She knows I hobby.  She could stop me by taking care of me herself but she does not.  She enjoys many of the finer things in life and is happy letting other women suck my dick.  And that's my story, till death do us part.  I still appreciate the great service the wife gave me for 20+ years, and we are both happy (more or less) with the way things are now.  I have seen others divorce and it is always a disaster, even before considering the effect it has on the children involved.

We're not machines!  

we have been married for over 25 years, and have had some hard times....i suffer from ptsd and had a hard time with sex and affection, it started to get better for a while,and we were having a decent regular sex life (or so i thought) he felt i was just going through the motions ( i wasnt) and he wanted to experience whatever it was he thought i wasnt giving him.......well it backfired on him. i found out about everything, he had a falling out with one of the girls he saw ( she was BSC) and threatened to out him, i already knew by then, fast forward about 6 months, i am still shattered but want to make it work as he is and always was my entire world as i was his, i decided if this is what he needs  then i might as well join him, so we started to hobby together, now 2+ years later we are still together and more in love thn ever and still enjoying the hobby together, i have always been curious, now im a convert and love what we do.

All good Naomi! We have smart phones and tablets now. And at my job(major airline) we have lots of time in between flights!! Exactly what I'm doing now and every day. Scrolling thru TER. Fun fun fun! I love this site

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It's a great story!!! So unfortunate that your work blocked your access

Yes great story! Lots of great stories here! Come on people keepem coming!
 

Holy moly your story is compelling, it's so wonderful that it turned around on both of you for the better, love wins

Your outcome is actually also great, as long as your wife has an understanding of your physical need and that's all you get then everything is ok. Because you love your wife it's not like you're falling in love with providers.

thank you, its still hard at times, im still putting myself back together, but hes the one i want to do it with!!!!

Thanks, it has been an interesting ride!!!!!

Thanks!!!!

it all started i was in charge of my best friend bachelor party many years ago (more than 20 years ago), so i started to look for strip club, well, i was lazy at that time, plus very career oriented so without much search we picked some club in mid-town manhattan and went with it.  they serve dinner and entertainment so everyone though it was good but i was cuious if there was a review about clubs so I seriously started to look and i found one of the site that talks about clubs and all, and it also review on escort and massage provider.  Long story short I started with few massage provider here in nyc (they all well reviewed on this board) and after year or 2 seeing massage provider, i started seeing some escort providers (as you can see from my review list).  It wasn't any issue for me because the great reference i got from my massage provider and now you know the rest..