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Re: Would be nice to have a place to review 'our' side of an encounter....
famkejensen 646 reads
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That is the general consensus most hobbyists have and I'm not sure I disagree, after all restaurants don't review their patrons, however having said that this is a totally different animal.

I'm quite certain that the review this young lady is talking about is NOT based on your performance as a lover but as a paying client.

In other words are you a DECENT paying client, one that is welcomed back or one that should be avoided.  All I would want to know are a few very basic things about a guy:
1. Does he possess good hygiene.
2. Is he respectful and gentlemanly.
3. Does he pay the required donation and not short.
4. Does he respect boundaries.
5. Is he discreet.
6. Any quirks that may make another ASP go Hmmmm?

That's about it. There is nothing there that even remotely refers to his looks or sexual prowess.

Now, many have already said that the escort only boards are for this. Well yes and no. Many ladies do not enter a great guy on that system , they only enter the bad ones and you know we want to see the good ones too.

Also there is the lack of anonymity for the client involved with this venture. How would we know who was who as the guys could change their handles and emails when ever there was a not so hot review about them go up. It just isn't feasible or safe, but I do see the merits of such a forum.


Nikki_Greedy1999 reads

Bit 'unfair' not to be able to..
Just my opinion..

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foodcritic387 reads

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hungry1951817 reads

I have had a couple of ladies say they wished there was a section on the review page for their comments. Good or bad, it might be a nice addition. There are other sites that have this.

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BrokLanders773 reads

Could you imagine fellow hobbyists reading about each others performances in detail with the ladies?

Like who couldn't get it up or who has a tiny dick?

Or maybe the guy who blew his wad before he could get his pants off?

Sure would be entertaining but I can here the guys now thinking....No way!!!

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MrHoffa186 reads

When you start paying to see us, you can start reviewing us. Just my opinion.

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famkejensen647 reads

That is the general consensus most hobbyists have and I'm not sure I disagree, after all restaurants don't review their patrons, however having said that this is a totally different animal.

I'm quite certain that the review this young lady is talking about is NOT based on your performance as a lover but as a paying client.

In other words are you a DECENT paying client, one that is welcomed back or one that should be avoided.  All I would want to know are a few very basic things about a guy:
1. Does he possess good hygiene.
2. Is he respectful and gentlemanly.
3. Does he pay the required donation and not short.
4. Does he respect boundaries.
5. Is he discreet.
6. Any quirks that may make another ASP go Hmmmm?

That's about it. There is nothing there that even remotely refers to his looks or sexual prowess.

Now, many have already said that the escort only boards are for this. Well yes and no. Many ladies do not enter a great guy on that system , they only enter the bad ones and you know we want to see the good ones too.

Also there is the lack of anonymity for the client involved with this venture. How would we know who was who as the guys could change their handles and emails when ever there was a not so hot review about them go up. It just isn't feasible or safe, but I do see the merits of such a forum.


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rockchick355 reads

You have no idea. The men who generally do the horrible don'ts are the ones to go spew venon in reviews.

-- Modified on 2/27/2008 9:59:44 PM

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dblhappy517 reads

Just a thought.

Maybe the "Hobbyist" reviews section would only be accessible to Providers.  Also, there could be a kind of scale rating system for the basic things that Famke mentioned above.  For instance:

Hygiene:  (1 poor to 5 great)
Manners:  (1 terrible to 5 perfect gentleman)
Payment:  (none, short, full, plus tip)

etc.

Then, perhaps a very short area for a couple of sentences if something needed to be elaborated on.  Such as:

Comments:  "He was basically nice, but he was very nervous."

This way, hobbyists don't have to worry about their performance being reviewed and/or ridiculed.  Yet, providers get a basic overview of whether the guy is worth seeing or not.

-- Modified on 2/28/2008 11:28:59 AM

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famkejensen1217 reads

That is EXACTLY what I mean. Finally, a guy that gets it and is not intimidated by the thought of a very general review like situation. If only it would work...

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rockchick680 reads

You ARE getting a service. Get my point?? It's a little one sided! Without the girls, you wouldn't get the service, and wouldn't have anything to review!!

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tallslim26452 reads

I posted about this a few weeks ago.

I find myself asking certain questions when reading borderline reviews or even medium to poor ones. perhaps the experiance was affected by the reviewers appearence or demeanor.

I personally would like to hear their opinion of my performance and the overall date.

Many guys in the hobby are very particular about discretion so this fact makes this idea a good idea that would never get off the ground.

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Chuck Darwin475 reads

I'll worry about it.

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billymack314 reads

I think it is a good idea!  I think it would help improve things for the provider and client.  I see this as something that would help me improve in my abilities to please a woman.

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Allison Monroe239 reads

If it was a basic form as mentioned above, it could also relieve us of the ever-so-cumbersome time consuming getting the clients verified and screened???

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