I am a an older guy who loves sex and likes to hobby. I'm in very good shape for my age, exercise regularly, am not overweight, stay hydrated, do kegels, etc.  I take low doses of ED pills prior to sex, probably just as a precaution, because I am able to masturbate fine and to completion without them. (Higher doses do not make any appreciable difference.) I have no problem getting an erection or maintaining one or ejaculating during a blowjob or a handjob, but once I get the condom on, I tend to lose my hardon after a few minutes.  Condoms have never been great for me, but now it's just getting worse, almost to the point of causing performance anxiety. I have used different brands of condoms without any noticeable improvement.  

The condom goes in her pussy and you just fuck her like you would bareback a woman. Nothing goes on your dick. I used it couple of months ago, and although the sensation, for me at least, was not too different from using a regular condom, it could prevent losing erection.  

Kimodo Micro Thin (red box).

Thanks.

do they come in big sizes? I use Magnum XL want to try something new.

ED issues, have you thought about seeing a Tantrika yet?

Don't vote for the incumbents! Oh sorry, you said "erection."

Sorry, others have given you good advice. I'm just in a silly mood.

"a nude erection!

Swim laps 2 to days a week.  Also walk on treadmill after weight workouts for about 15 minutes.  Make sure you take whey protein.

Gals have lots of toys to play with:

There is Russian (between tits), Italian (ass crack), stomach (I wonder why no one has named that after a country yet.  I'd vote for Hungary for obvious reasons.), and recently I had the great pleasure of fucking someone's armpits.  It was quite divine.  Facials are always fun too for some gals.

Another favorite some gals will allow is between their thighs with their legs tight together.  Only warning on that one is for her to have her hand down there so that the penis doesn't inadvertently pop into a place it shouldn't go, at least not without the cover.

For all of these I'd advise some massage oil for lubing up the areas.

I'm convinced it's a mental thing, I've been wanting to try FC, but haven't found a lady yet that uses them.

the latex, but since he will not have an erection, he will move a lot better.   However, steering may not be as good.

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Anyone have experience with them?  Think they would help?

Probably he has a blood flow issues. Swimming laps in the pool will help with circulation.

I'd hate to waste a hard on; especially fond of the over 50 hard ons... Mmmmmm...

It's weird as shit, but it worked for me.
I fucking hated condoms. I just wasn't used to them.

Great idea!  I'm going to try it.

They work great and they are pretty cool. Took one to a 3-way and it was a total blast (2 hours & spilled 3 times)

I do all this during my Nuru session sans the facial. Nothing like a lubed arm pit! Any intense oiled body to body will typically get most people worked up to where they can't help but release. It's great because you don't see it coming, unlike most acts where you're tense and expecting it. Multiple pops are my speciality when this happens!  

Says Google. But of course using Google to access such information would rob you of the opportunity to ever so subtly let providers know you're huge...they'll be so thrilled, better watch out you don't run out of space for all those PMs!

I'm honestly not a fan. The whole insertion process, both of the FC and me, is such a buzz kill. they're ok once you get going and I will admit they're great for alternative finishes like CIM, but I do just fine with Trojan thins, I've tried many and they seem to provide the most sensation...that's my perception anyway. But there is always a limit what I can do wrapped vs. not, most notably I can go twice in a relativeliy short period of time uncovered (not an option with providers of course) but when wrapped my second needs to be from other activities..and I'm not complaining! Good luck...

Maybe it isn't just the condom but a either a biological or psychological reason to avoid vaginal sex - both possibly very valid.

I have found the same to be true masturbating with a condom.   You are conditioning yourself to the slightly decreased sensation of a condom before hand and it seems to work.   I have also found that condom size/material makes a difference.   With latex, I seem to get better sensation with a larger condom like Magnum with lube inside so that there is a little sliding as I thrust.  Other latex condoms just seem to choke you off.   But with non-latex Skyns, the regular size seems to provide more sensation than the large ones.   Maybe because non-latex transmits body heat better and when it is stretched thin it transmits even more body heat.   Experiment.

Beside the numerous suggestions for FC above... well you can try seeking out BBFS providers!

I have a similar problem and I fit your age and shape demographic.  I mentioned to a provider once that once the cover goes on and penetration starts that it is hard for me to stay hard.  She put some lube on the outside of the condom and bingo that did the trick.  I'm just curious if lube and latex are safe as far as the cover is concerned, i.e. Keeping its integrity.

Nothing brings you out from under your rock faster than the mere mention of BBFS, does it?

Would Lovng to try one out. Except the Provider I'm seeing likes me to go BBFS. If I suggested using a FC or regular Condom she'll think there's something wrong.

don't know for certain...

I searched and found nothing,  I'll go to Walgreens out here and ask.

yes have been told that lots of times with providers, they have told me I should do porn.Actually have done some  video's with some well know providers and have one in the works as we speak.

thanks for the info,my order is on the way!

I'd blush for real but my blood is busy elsewhere....bwahaha!

Me tooand I want to scream. I know it's mental.  I seem to have the problem when I get emotionally attached.  Tell me that's not mental....