Not counting before you lost your virginity of course which for some of you may have been very late in life LOL. For me it was close to two years at the ripe old age of 30 when I met and fell in love with a beautiful girl of 20. I was not looking for a girl that young nor did I mean for it to happen but we met and it just did. I been lets say fairly wild during my misguided youth and she was this sweet innocent thing who I decided was the one and wanted to become a better man for. It was one of the hardest things I have ever done abstaining from sex but I never thought about cheating on her nor did I partake in P4P and though we did not have sex we did go after each other quite passionately making out and looking back on it I think she got off working me up and then sending me home blue balled which I informed her was not healthy for a guy but to no avail she was steadfast in her view that our life together and the wedding night would be soooo much better and sooo more special if we waited.

What a sad story though. I know you like mongering, but I'm sorry it didn't work out. I made my first bf wait for me for nearly a year and I made my xh wait for me for about 3 months. That's plenty long, so I can hardly fathom 2 years, hammerhead.

gals can be on the coo-coo side at times.

As for myself, once I joined the club, I stayed pretty busy sexually with either civies, my wife (for a while anyways), and mostly the hobby.

I think the longest hiatus I might have had was about 3 weeks when I broke my arm in a car accident way back when.  Fortunately, it was not my jerking off arm.  8o)

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That's when I lost my virginity at age 20..... I was missing out!!! Should of spread my legs sooner!!! Since losing it, I can't seem to get enough!!! Woo whoo!!!!  Fuck me fuck me fuck me!!! 😝😝😝😝😝

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I went from 9 am Sunday morning August 16, 2009 until August 20th, 2011 without sex. August 16, 2009 was the last time my ex and I had sex, and August 20, 2011 was my first time with providers.

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Not counting virginity.. 13 years from the time my wife told me that she was finished with sex until I finally decided that I HAD to do something about it and started my recent activities.. It's like riding a bicycle.. I discovered..

From the birth of our son till I started with you lovely ladies.  After our son was born, the bedroom door was closed.  It was, as you can imagine, way too long and it has left some scars.  Still married, but obviously, no longer faithful.  I thank God for you ladies, and especially for one of you that has helped me cope with the scars and is my regular.  You let me feel like a man again.

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I don't view my situation as all that unusual.  Some guys take their vows very seriously, that's why I'm still married - better or worse, sickness and health.  I can deal with that, but am at an age where I can see my ability to have a sexual life having an end someday.  I was unwilling to stay abstinent and faithful any longer.  I'm sure that some guys stay faithful for life under similar circumstances, so I don't consider myself a martyr or a saint, just a man who had endured the lack of being a man long enough.

...is this a brag or a gripe? I think an equally important question, in regards to this lifelong human interaction experiment we're all involved in, would be, How long have you gone without any contact of ANY kind with another human being?

no "needed" to experience more guys .. rotfflmao  what a bitch , fucking young man hater . and know because of it you see hookers . and how is she a "good girl" again ? your confused and should have dumped her sorry no entry ass .

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they take advantage . seriously , you respected her and thought like a guy. she was the one sex wasn't the entire relationship and she would be yours and love you for the sacrifice you made but in the end ... she said ......................sorry I want cock but just not yours . fucking shame and you condemned to hookers ...lol please tell me you've have a lot of other civvies besides her ? cause if not she ruined you . pal if your not married , go out and date or mingle . or something .

Two guys scribbling about sex. One can't fuck and the other can't spell. STILL it's somehow entertaining!

'good girl' lol. And I like to be called a good girl by the 'right' guy. You should know this. You're sinking yourself pretty quickly there HH. Hmmm, not sure about this 'me and you' thing afterall lol. You just raised the stakes to triple charges buddy. Keep going and I'll hit a new record in rates lol

I made the mistake of falling for her also. She was a divorcee who married very young and I guess had not lived out her wild side yet so she did it with. Almost put me in a early grave and everything was great until I caught her banging one of my best friends. I told her that she should have let me know she I could have set up a gang bang and believe it or not she was the one who was pissed and slapped me right across the face and marched out.  

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one question , would it be fair to say that you believed sex should be part of a relationship ? and perhaps you considered girls gf when they should not have been . also and not judging but you had more respect for them then they had for themselves in various ways .

please talk sexy to me like bib cause he didn't fall for me and its Saturday night and well you know I need it bad .  

twice. I'm good lol.  

Just post normal will ya, I like this side of you. Not that jibberish noncohesive shit you write about most of the time. I know you can post like normal lol.  I know it. Plus if you wanna turn me on...................you know the deal lol. But you have to agree to my terms first and no...I'm not pushy. It's business. First. Then lovin'.  

4 years.
With my hand, maybe a week.

So I guess I'm ahead of the game?

you're a much better man than me, because I would've made it maybe a month, but I'd have been spanking my monkey, bad monkey, the entire time. I have absolutely no problem (well OK I had) being monogamous and faithful to one woman, but she can't hold out on me, that shit ain't happening ever again. Now, I get what I want, when I want, with who I want for as long as I want, that's fucking perfect! They'll say "no free milk from the cow" I say that's fine I don't want "free milk" I just want to pay for it a quart at a time. That shit spoils if you keep it around for a long time.

I never cheated on my ex, but when the well ran dry I moved on. There are two ways to look at that scenario, it's bullshit that they can hold out on it, and try to use it as a tool to get their way. I made the decision that I'd be better off alone than with a manipulative bitch. We all make decisions and we have to live with them.  I get that she may not want it anymore, OK, see ya. But now my life is SWEET, hot, rockin babes that rock my world. And then, see ya!

After ten years of 3-4 times a year (in good years, and not all were).  Since getting into this, a couple of weeks at most.

I don't even care how long you've abstained from sex, but the fact that she went for the knife through the heart is cold. I don't think I could have recovered through an event like that.

Yeah, you can call it the GENERAL Discussion Board if you're too chicken-shit to use the "C" word. Besides, why the hell are YOU jumping up at me?! YOU'RE the one who knows how to spell!

it was that Conan asshole who PM me to let you know lol.

quite a lot of bank for that and basically says I am really fucked up! Not sure why I pay him for that as I get told that for free here lol.

(with one small qualifier).  Between the time the first Mrs. Krinn and I split, until the time I started "getting serious" with the second Mrs. Krinn was literally six years.

Qualifier:  Somewhere around the two year point, in the pre-internet-as-it-is-now, pre-AOL days, the primary "thing" in the era of the earliest digital modems was Prodigy.

I actually ended up "meeting" two different ladies online, and both were close enough that we were able to get together for one night hookups.  No muss, no fuss, and barely any followup contact after that.  Those two one-nighters just dropped in my lap, about ten days apart.  Then back to celibacy for another four years.

How does that rate?

An infant son that needed raising changed the balance on the decision for me.

If you phoned or emailed me a 911.  I'd be there in an hour!  You're way too hot to be left unattended.

why we do what we do .. not worth analyzing anything for any of us . hey have a good day nice story .