I have received very negative comments from the providers on this board when discussing bbfs. Most providers find it disgusting that a hobbyist deposit his semen into her vagina as if the hobbyists were the least desirable men on the planet. Moreover, many would not have a hobbyist's kid for $1,000,000 cash since they find the hobbyists so repulsive.

On the other hand, they are usually allowing their deadbeat boyfriends to do all the above with them since they are not repulsive men like the hobbyists.

Let's call a spade a spade here. If the provider's really view this as only a disgusting business transaction, the hobbyists need to stop fooling themselves and acting like they are in some romantic relationship since it is all about money.

The providers in Thailand, Mexico and Philippines are then more honest than US providers since they provide the hobbyist bbfs. The providers in these countries say they would not treat a paying customer worse than their boyfriend. They do not get disgusted by a hobbyist fully enjoying himself. This is not about disease protection; it is about provider disgust of hobbyist.

In the Philippines, bbfs is common in about 85% of 'dates." In the Philippines, AIDS is extremely rare so apparently it is a safe practice. Finally, some of the older hobbyists (like my 63 year old cousin) can't have sex with a condom on because of blood flow issues. So a hobbyist in advanced age should never again have vaginal sex with a provider since a condom destroys his erection but she will have bbfs with her loser boyfriend?

Let's all be honest about this being a business from the provider. There is no romance for the dirty hobbyist. It's all about money!

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I think that the US hobbyists should understand that many US providers find it disgusting that a hobbyist partake in bbfs while allowing whatever their loser boyfriends to do bbfs.

It's not about disease prevention here. It's about the disgust that they really feel for disgusting hobbyists. They don't want you cum in their vagina while they throw up at the thought of having you ugly child growing in their womb. However, their loser boyfriends get all the privelges from your provider while most likely the provider supports the loser boyfriend with you monger money.

Let's all admit this is ony a dirt business with no romance.

providers, you shoud think about becoming a permanent expatriate.

Dont let the door hit you in the ass on your way out.

(Take your cousin so he can enjoy some BBFS and won't have to commit suicide as per your previous post.)

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Point well taken. I still have many years of work in the US before I can retire as an expatriate. The guys overseas get better service for lower cost.

always clean.

Unfed trolls eventually rot away and die.  

Don't feed the trolls

Maybe tomorrow you'll wake up with "Posting Regret".   Or maybe you won't.

If you are so happy with the options somewhere else. Shop there.  If the options here are so bad.  Do not shop here.  However do not think you are the cultural savior of the rest of the customers as we are all able to decide what we want for ourselves.

On a second observation is the repeated bringing up of the same topic a desperate cry for attention or a psychological attraction to negative responses.  Either way someone who has been on the boards for even a short period of time could see that certain topics garner certain responses.  Kinda looks like drama is more attractive to some of the people here than the lovely ladies.   I personally like the ladies more.

Between 2007 & 2011, the HIV rate in the Philippines has RISEN 500%... due to widespread prostitution, multiple sexual partners, & low condom usage. Providers in the U.S. don't partake in BBFS with their clients because they are educated in the repercussions of such a retarded act. Engaging in BBFS with a complete stranger has NOTHING to do with the ladies being disgusted with a client... it has to do with the lady having something called common sense.

We won't have a hobbyist's child out of repulsion? Where do you get these ideas from, lol? No, how about most ladies choose to have children with those they are in a relationship with? Whether that relationship lasts or not, at that point in time, they were more than likely in love, & in a committed relationship & chose to have a child/children together. Two completely different concepts. Most ladies are not in this to find love, or a relationship... it is a job. A large majority do not find hobbyists "repulsive"... unless they start spewing dribble such as yourself.

And yes everyone, I know he's a troll, but I've been reading these pointless threads that make no sense to anyone with an ounce of common sense, & had to say something

How can you not understand that?



This is not the porn industry.

Poetic justice would be that you catch a disease that actually makes your dick catch on fire and fall off before you have the opportunity to infect someone else. It would be great if you were hit by a bus.

A provider letting her boyfriend cum in her, gives her boyfriend something that no one else can even pay for. It lets her boyfriend know that he means more, than some mindless jackass like you. Although if my girlfriend were a provider and fucked someone like you with a hefty bag over your entire body, we probably would not be dating any longer.

Thank you for your time, I hope you spontaneously combust

and why do you keep posting this shit? Do you think you're going to convince even one provider to engage in BBFS with you by beating them over the head with statistics from foreign countries? Sorry bud, this is America where most people actually care about not getting sick or dying from sexually transmitted diseases.

While it may be true that providers have loser boyfriends who they fuck BB, they're in committed relationships and they love those b/fs. No provider loves you nor would they ever want to have a kid with you no matter how rich you are. Forget your BS stats about disease rates, why in the hell would you want to get providers pregnant and have to support kids? Just because you like BB? You're out of your f'ing mind if you're not worried about fathering a bunch of kids with hookers.

FYI, there are plenty of providers offering BBFS on this very site but you'll pay a high price. Go blow your wad on the super high-end babes doing BBFS and stop badgering everyone here because they prefer playing it safe and staying disease free. How about doing us a favor and listing all of the TER providers you've banged BB so the rest of us know who to avoid. Now that would be a service to the community. What's that? You haven't found any cheap providers doing BB? Poor guy, time for another trip to Thailand, enjoy the trip and let us know how many kids you have by the time you get back.

We all know that you love BBFS and somehow think that you are being safe by seeing only certain types of women.  We also know your preference is for women in other countries where this is more or less standard practice.  My advice?  Go there.  Your dollars are welcome there; no one really seems to want your money here.

BBFS is a very risky practice.  I'm sure some of us have done it with providers, but that doesn't mean that just because nothing happened in the past, that it won't happen in the future.  All it takes is one person to get infected, and the way that everyone fucks everyone else...well, it will quickly turn into an epidemic.  If you can't see that, there's nothing more to discuss.

Really...quit telling us about the other parts of the world.  It works for you there, so go there.  Seriously.

All of this just comes down to a transaction.  And the stipulations of the transaction are very simple:  BBFS is something that people just don't like.  No amount of arguing on your side is going to change that.  You can argue til you're blue in the face, but this will not change.

You seem to be assuming that every provider does not engage in BBFS because they are disgusted by the hobbyist. While I cannot speak for everyone, personally, I am not disgusted by the gentleman, it is just not worth it to me to take the risk of contracting something. There are many men I see that I find very attractive, however I wouldn't risk getting HPV from them just to engage in unprotected acts.

Aside from the risk, even if the hobbyist is a regular, you are not seeing him as constantly as you would a boyfriend. They are two very different relationships. When I am in a relationship with someone I call my boyfriend, I do not engage in BBFS until he has been tested and we are monogamous. In seeing a hobbyist, those two factors don't play in. Furthermore, how can you label all boyfriends douchbags? I am sure many women on here have dated well established nice men in their lives.

To touch on another point, just because girls in other countries allow BBFS, doesn't mean it's not still seen and treated as a business transaction. You think just because they allow BBFS it means they are more into it and honest. NO! It's just the practice in that country, and a lot of them are actually forced to follow a set of rules. I am sure just as many of those women are equally "disgusted" by the men they see.

Lastly, I don't know where you gain your stats or do your research, but STD's are actually higher in the areas where providers engage in unprotected activities. (I can send you all the research on that if you so wish to open your mouth again and spew facts)

In order to think you need a brain. Udo has proved time and again that he does not possess one.

I've had flings aside from my paying friends, and have always used condoms.

In civvie life, I'm generally the riskier one, being that my job is what it is. I get tested every few weeks. However, day to day, I really have no idea if I have something or not. I don't want to infect anyone unwittingly. Once I'm done this business and have tested clean for AT LEAST six months, then I will *think* about having bbfs with someone. However, it would have to be an exclusive, committed relationship.

You say Mexica they don't use condoms, but you write only about border towns where they do.
Thailand has Aids, granted small compared to East Europe.  Last few times I was in Bangkok, everybody seemed condom savy, maybe sex city has droped for a reason.

Could you just be talk and smart enough to know better?

Except stable monogamous relationships, that aren't in Africa or East Europe.

That's not long enough to find out if you have HIV.

You are warped and don't make any sense. And your point SUcks like an overseas whore. Your posts here really are comical though.

I thought that was the point of the business. Provide a gentleman with a good time and make some dough in the process. Since when has it ever been about love and romance? I'd go to a dating site if I wanted romance.

...take the girlfriend EXPERIENCE for real.  Too too good a job and you get stalkers and men who want to date and have a ton of off the clock time because there is a "connection".

Do less than what is expected and you get nailed in a review for having a "lack of connection"...seriously, it's a freaking business transaction for which you  guys get an EXPERIENCE...it's not real. Solely due to the fact that you are paying us to be with you, and for the most part, we wouldn't.

Lines are blurred way too often.

But ur certainly working on it. How OLD r ur pictures now?

Quit perverting the titles of "Gentleman n Lady". Hypocrisy exists on both sides of the coin tho. How often do YOU crawl up a hookers ass with shallow compliments so she affords you the PRIVIEDGE of fucking her?

There isn't a country where BBFS is common and AIDS isn't.  Regardless of what info you believe, AIDS as well as other STD's are alive and well in this country.  I absolutely refuse to play Russian Roulette with my body.  My health and well being are very important to me and my loved ones.  There isn't an amount of money or and test a gentleman can pay me or show me to risk a good thing (my health and career)  I KNOW I'm not the only provider who wants to stay healthy for themselves and their loved ones.  

Yes, providers do BB with their husbands or boyfriends however, that doesn't make them losers.  You have clumped us all together in one catagory of being with losers.  A loser isn't good enough for me.  If a man is going to have the privledge of being with me in an exclusive relationship, he will NOT be a loser.  Don't under estimate our intellience.

As for me, I'm also an adult actress, if I get sick, my film career will be over.  The porn industry does NOT take diseases lightly (regardless of the false info main stram media likes to put out there).  Now that I mention it, if a nonporn provider gets sick, her providing career is over.  What self respecting man will use her services?  

You can be careless with your health but don't put down those who take good care of theirs.

Appreciate the fact that providers are alreay taking a risk...and so are you.  We can never elminate the risk of getting sick, we can only minimize it.

Awesome response. Btw: please visit Palm Springs SOON!

I don't think it's who you are, it's the fact you have had your togger in other girls who may not have the same value for their health.  Yes, their boyfriends may be doing the same but if you can't picture the girl he's been with you can't freak out it's all a state of mind

I doubt you speak with other hobbyists who have said girls call them disgusting, so I'm inclined to Think you're going off you're own experiences of girls calling you or the thought of bbfs with you disgusting...your disgusting because you're a cheap haggler type who doesnt recognize the importance and very real dangers of stds. Wow. You're attitude makes you very disgusting and to be blunt despicable