Here I go again!!!  As I was taking my daily walk/run I started thinking about the hobby life.  As I do frequently.  I recalled one particularly hot scene with a provider that gave me a hot sensation on an already hot day.

Right after I BBBJTCIM she looked up at me and said "almost got it all".  Then it occurred to me how many women in my life have made it very clear to me that I was NEVER to CIM on them.  One even threatened me with violence.  And believe me this chick was serious and she probably could have put a real beating on me.  I mean I am not joking this chick was feminine but she really could have a mean streak especially with her upbringing.

Furthermore the few women who have allowed me to CIM (providers and non-providers) seem to love it!  Which makes me wonder why is it that women seem to have a love/hate relationship with CIM/swallow?  

For all of you sarcastic people please don't post messages asking me why I don't CIM/swallow.  Remember what your mother said if you can't say anything nice then don't say anything!

I used to allow CIM, in fact, I love it.

Then one evening while seeing a gentleman for an evening appointment, he asked if he could shoot his load on my ta-tas. You bet sweetie, fire away.

Since it was an evening appointment, I had the lights down low to set the right mood. After bathing me with his creamy goodness, I looked down, and even in the dim light, realized something didn't look quite right. I excused myself to the bathroom to cleanup, and in the bright light of the bathroom realized what wasn't quite right. His creamy goodness was brown. I'm not talking a little tan colored, like some men. I'm talking BROWN. In other words, he had blood mixed with his semen.

And that is why I no longer CIM.

I guess for the same reason that while most men love it when a squirter Os in their mouths, others find it unpleasant.  There is simply no arguing taste. [I assume neither you nor any of the rest of us would enjoy doing something our lovers, professional or civie, would really not like. I exclude, of course, things "pretend terrible"  in the setting of mutually agreeable BDSM.]  There is also a mis perception that it is risky behavior.  [It is not risk free, but in the absence of inflamed gum, cuts, etc, it is relatively low risk.]

I love CIM, and I love to swallow... but I don't swallow for clients.  As silly as this is, I figure, what if swallowing is the ONE THING that seals the deal for spreading of an STI... I know it's illogical, but it's still a precaution I take.  I wish I could swallow for everyone, though, it is just like the hottest simplest act of submission in the world, to me...

its a biologic, and its the same thing as if you bleed on someone these days, its a risky thing to let someone cum in your mouth, and I am not one to engage in risky behaviors, I want to be around a while,
my 5 cents( inflation)

You say that women who do anal with you seem to love it. Now you say that women who let you CIM also seem to love it. Well OK, what does that tell you? I know! Women who enjoy a certain activity will do it while women who don't won't!  Dude, this is not rocket science.  

I gotta ask, Do you enjoy snowballing?

And have been for more years than I would like to mention. I don't swallow any more as I feel it is a little more risky but do miss the extra excitement it brings.

Every lady has here own comfort level and most gentlemen know how to pick who is right for them. If you didn't get what you wanted you must have read the reviews wrong.

Kisses Haley

For guys who do multiple pops, you could check their jizz after the first one, and if it looks OK, allow CIM on the second. Might kind of spoil the mood though.

The gentleman you saw most likely was having a prostate problem. I'm sure his PSA count was over the top. He either knew and didn't mention it or has no clue about his own body. This is a very common problem for men over 55 so I am surprised it's a first for you.
   Kisses Haley

I had a client cum on my chest too and his had blood in it.  I told him immediately he needed to go to the doctor.  Well I was right, he has prostate cancer and is now under going treatment.

He called to thank me and tell me the diagnosis. He said he would have never gone but since I told him that is almost always a sign of prostate cancer he went - and was glad he did.

So make sure you tell your client to go get checked out immediately.

I like it that way.

If I'm not going to allow it in one hole, why would I allow it in another??

NO THANK YOU.

There are some things that are HOT in fantasy land that I don't offer to strangers...  It is a risk I am not willing to take, no matter how many articles are cited stating the risk is low, saliva/digestive juices kill whatever, blah, blah, blah.  Logic tells me that if I don't want it shot in my pussy or ass, I don't want to swallow it either.  

Now my MAN that I have a COMMITMENT with that has been TESTED...that's a different story...  I will clean him up every time, and love every minute of it!  Swing partners, casual aquaintences and any general fuck buddy: no can do.

It's not a love/hate thing...it's a safety thing.  We all have our own lines to draw on that...

xoM

Boy oh boy....lets see, while it can be quite the erotic, sensual moment for both parties involved, it can also spread:
Herpes
Aids
Hepatitis C
Syphilis
Chlamydia
Genetal Warts
And yeast infections.

Hmmm... guess right there is reason enough not to do BB anything, much less CIM and swallow.

Except for yeast infections, all of these diseases will stay with you, have costly treament, and are painful.

So if you are sexually active with multiple partners and do not use protection, well..that is simply a no brainer....and if you are sexually active with partners outside of your significant other, and then want to have your significant other to perform this for you.... you must not care much about them, for your first concern is your own pleasure and not their well being and health.

Many of these diseases sit dormant in your body for years, before any real symptoms appear, and even testing does not always show the disease. Thus the belief that just seeing something off is an indicator is just not using your smarts.....

Are you really going to first check a lady or gents mouth thoroughly before proceeding ?  Are you truly able to see to the back of their throat, or to see any inflamation of the gums that may be present at the back molars ?  

I dont think so....and its a sad day when someone would put their own lives and those they care about at such risk all for that over the top enjoyment...when all of it can still be so pleasureable while being safe.

he had a in office prostate biopsy, the blood in his seman hadn't cleared yet, usualy takes a good 2 weeks, what an ass hole he was to see you uncovered in that state, the dr's warn you about that when they biopsy. happened to me a while back, took a month off. jerked off till it cleared. the first time i did it,a week after, when i came it was like someone stepped on  a ketchup pac from a fast food joint, spurted out & looked just like ketchup, & as i beat off every other day, it when to steak sause, then to carmel then finally back to my natural man yogurt...

Hey remember what your mother said!

I think I just threw up in my mouth! Gross!

"Just wait until your father gets home!" ??

That happened to me too... ONLY IT WAS CIM but I spit. OMG I got very sick to my stomache seeing it and was so glad I SPIT. I gargled listerine and brushed and disinfected my toothbrush with the listerine and then gargled AGAIN. EWWWWWW I mean seriously you guys... WOULD YOU WANNA SWALLOW THAT? Or even just CUM? Most of you would say no.

Secondly, If you want to post this silliness you best be prepared for the onslaught of reasonable adult thinkers who don't understand what you are whining about...

There are other possible causes besides a biopsy - it is possible that he really didn't know it would happen.

Couldn't agree with you more. Unfortunately, you won't make many friends on here with that way of thinking...sad but true. I'm surprised someone hasn't jumped on you, telling you that if you're that safe you should'nt be an escort.

Reach for the happy medium ...Just ask her for a snowball..

Many of the ladies on here who do only CBJ think and say pretty much the same thing... and we have plenty of friends on here.

.02

I might be in the minority but I for one LOVE giving a woman a facial much better than CIM/swallow. I guess I am more of a visual guy and just love the look of cum on her face...especially when she is really into it. How come more providers dont allow this? Especially on Long Island where I am located.

I'm not doubting that the ladies who are very safe don't think the same way. My point was that almost all the guys on here want GFE and CBJ is not considered  part of GFE. And if I read her correctly, she is not into swapping fluids and with the exception of BBFS and BBG, the other fluid swapping is again, part of GFE.

I actually applaud those providers who have themselves and their loved ones first and foremost in their minds while on the job. It's just that with GFE being the number one preference, it appears that the extra safety is not looked upon as something the guys are concerned nor particularly happy with. You know, the old "risk vs reward" adage.

Then again, maybe I'm wrong.

Why don't you calm the F--- down.  They are just a few questions.  Since when are questions whining.  Reread the posts.  I simply asked questions.  Why don't more providers....?  

It's like going to your favorite restaurant and asking the owner why he doesn't carry a certain  brand of wine or beer.  Would the owner then go

* your silly
* your whining

it's just a question.  Think about it.

Where are you getting the impression that, just because we don't agree with you, we are getting worked up about it?  As I have said to you once already, take your own advice and calm down.

homer12345  , 7/16/2008 9:34:12 AM   [homer12345 has 31 reviews]
I might be in the minority but I for one LOVE giving a woman a facial much better than CIM/swallow. I guess I am more of a visual guy and just love the look of cum on her face...especially when she is really into it."


 Why do they call me a slut when I kiss her after her facial?