"But I still find it odd at times she has to take off for an hour".

 If she's the wife I am thinking about, I send her packing after a hour.
She's a tad too dizzy for me to enjoy longer meetings.

long post but kinda stumped..So anyway about a year aga I joined a dating site called Ashley madison..Met a girl and make a long stor short it did not work out..but we remained friends and one day she sends me a link for sugardaddy for me.com..I tell her what I'm not rich,so no thanks..She then says "your not cheap" and you did buy a few(I mean few) things for her kids..

so anyway I join..I see this girl who is "all access" so I message her and we chat..she send me some pics in some really nice victoria secret outfit(no nudes)..she ask to send me a pic so I did..She then sends her phone number and says call me..So I do and we decide to meet..I basically tell her I'm married and can not commit but dont want to be "that creepy married guy" trying to hook up at the bar but I have needs..

she tell me going through a divorce but not ready for love or constant text or emails..Not ready to go "dutch" ofor dates cuz she is raising her kids on her own..

We have dinner and hit it off..Not to brag but I'm a good looking guy and basically she has the body looks of pam anderson but with dark hair..No money was exchange but "stuff" happened..Next time maybe third visit I saw her bought her some boots ($40) nothing big..We hung out maybe 6 times..The last few times she has brought me to her home and its a big house..We dont really speak all week other than o meet up and hang out for about 4 hours or so..I did notice a couple of times she did have to take off for an hour to either tan,or today go to a appointment but she comes right back and we hangout..

I've always thought in the back of my mind maybe she provides on the side(nurse works 2 12 hour shift)to make ends meet which would not be unheard of..So you guys or girls thinks so? but is not like when we hangout she expects anymoney?

She showed me a pic of this race car driver she met on sdforme..she mentioned he was loaded with$$..I said yeah saw he posted on your facebook..She then says I appreciate the things you have bought but money is not really needed..But I still find it odd at times she has to take off for an hour..I can see at 3:30-4 to pick up her kids but what about the other times..You guys think she is aprovider and is just keeping this from me?..should I ask her or just enjoy the ride?

Seriously.  Would her being a prostitute make any difference to whether or not you continue to spend time with her?

Do what you want.  Ignore the fucktards here.

And yea, I noticed that too -- Ashley Madison is a great place to hook up, and yea definitely popular with women looking for sugar daddies.

I guess it would not really matter as long as she is safe..As far as the whole sugar daddy thing I dont really give her a ton of money or anthing..she got a speeding ticket to meet me some where and I offered to pay it and added a little,but its not like we meet and she charges a meet and greet..

today when I met her (11 am) on the drive there she ask if we could meet earlier as she had a 12pm appointment...She says here is the keys to my place and I'll be back in an hour and that she got an appointment she forgot about...The restaurant had a bar and I told her I'd just shoot pool and wait..So we eat lunch she leaves and comes back..

This has happend on about 3 occasions we met..just trying to figure out if she is one..Cuz I hear alot of girls on sugardaddyforme.com are which is not a big deal but like I said its not like she charges me for our time together..But you know how the girls here have an add with many pics in diff outs fit well she sent me a few pics in corsets etc and it appeared the were shot in a hotel room,so I thought that she might but never questioned it..

So have any of you providers ever met someone "online" and then just ended up kinda dating them..I say kinda because I'm married and yes she knows about it

sorry lost ya there..but she is not married well actually in the middle of a divorce..

They do! Especially if they work overtime. I have nurse clients who make nearly $100K with overtime. Sometimes they make more than their husbands.

She may have reached that stage where she wants her next relationship to supply financial security and not end up with her supporting a bum. Is she supporting a bum now?

I like what HalfHour suggested above.  Live in the moment and don't fall in love.  She needs a friend.  Heck, I'm looking for a few friends in Dallas to have JUST the type of buddy system that you have.  Out to dinner some.  A fun fuck buddy (do they still use that term anymore?).

So enjoy it for what it is and don't over think it too much.

Even "us bad women", grin, are generally good people who just like the company of a fun, good looking and gracious man!

Good luck!
Elisabeth

I have a friend who is a dancer at a  strip club and she told me the same thing..she said if she is aprovider it does not mean that they dont actually meet people and like them,so she said have fun if she is providiing dont ask and to enjoy the ride

funny you mention this..her add stated she want someone her age (37) but fit who looks young,so I jokingly said "poof wish granted lol) so we chanted she asked for a pic..I sent one then she sent me here number..

I called and we had alot in common and at the end of our conversation she said "here is my facebook feel free to look me up I have nothing to hide I just want to meet a good looking well built guy who's NOT a cheapass to spend time with,Basically a fuck buddy were her exact words..

So we met up..on our first meet toward the end she was VERY forward about her attraction towards me so I moved in and kissed her..We have agood time when we hangout..dont really exchange a ton of text or not alot of phone calls but when we set up a time to meet we have agreat time..

evrything points in the direction that she is a provider and which I really dont have aproblem with..Hell I use to be a male dancer and yes there was atime or 2 I whent home withsomeone and they laid money down so who am I to judge..Just wondering if any of you providers date someone and eventually tell the person of what you do..

Witness protection program?
Illuminatus?
Alien lure looking to find healthy men to provide human seed for cross breeding experiments?

LMAO!

HalfHour

From the evidence you submit, it does not appear that she is a provider.  You note that "a couple of times she did have to take off for an hour" . . .  An hour is much too short for most provider arrangements (drive from home to location, prepare for client, service client, clean up, and return from location to home).   Furthermore, it seems odd that she would be charging others and not you.  I know that providers sometimes have boyfriends.  However by joining the sugar daddy site, you marked yourself as a hobbyist ripe for the plucking.  If she is engaged in any illegal activity, it is likely that she is involved in drug dealing.

where we meet is 5 minutes form her house..also there are alot of high end hotels up and own the street from the restaurant where we meet

Unless she specializes in quickies, I still think that one hour is too short to accomplish what is usually involved in a provider/customer liasion.