A few months back I sent a provider a deposit, it was a significant sum of money sent via Amazon gift card.  I ended up realizing I couldn't make the appointment, and to be honest she didn't really seem to want to do an outcall anyway.  So we just decided that I could "cash in", with a skype show in the future.  I ultimately never followed up on the skype show, its just not my thing I guess.  Long story short this provider sent me a nice message saying she is coming back into town.  I wasn't all that interested in seeing her so I sent a nice message back saying I was unavailable.  Next thing I know she accuses me of taking back the funds I sent her on the Amazon gift card.  I didn't do that.  When I went back and checked the card I purchased, it said it was redeemed.  I certainly didn't redeem it for myself, but she claims I did.  

She then changed her story and told me Amazon has been stealing gift cards from her because a client reported her.  She demanded I send her the original amount via another method and said I should call Amazon back and get the gift card funds returned to me.  She appears to be a reputable provider, but this just doesn't sound right.  I don't believe her.  I think she spent the card.  She is now blackmailing me, and saying she is going to tell my girlfriend.  I honestly am not all that worried about her telling my girlfriend.  It won't bother her, she sometimes asks me to find a provider for couples appointments, and she knows about escort sites, even this one.  I know this is a lot, but because she is a reputable provider with really good reviews, I am wondering, am I in the wrong here?  I did look into the gift card and it definitely never came back into my account.  She feels she is owed, I really don't agree with that.

but I would do it very nicely of course. lol

 
First off it looks like you aren't going to be getting ANY services here, which of course looks to be more your fault than hers. But that hardly excuses blackmail, or even attempted blackmail. Once someone threatens me like that I no longer care if they "were" in the right or not, Blackmailers don't get a fucking penny from me, nor should she get a penny from you.

 
I would suggest looking into her claims about Amazon "stealing her funds" just to be sure, but to be 100% honest, if I were in your position and I found out she was telling the truth and I did get the money back from Amazon, I'd still tell her to fuck off because of her blackmail attempt. Keep in mind, she was "hoping" she could ruin your life over a few bucks that even she doesn't dispute you actually sent her. Do you really want to reward some cunt who threatened to ruin your life. Personally, I'd out HER on your regional board and let everyone know what kind of vindictive bitch she really is.

 
BTW, we have completely skipped over why you gave her a deposit in the first place, just another example of why not to send even the most "supposedly reputable" hooker a single dime in advance.  If you just make it a blanket policy to NEVER send a deposit you won't ever find yourself in this kind of mess.

And if you want to do this board a favor, tell anyone who wants to know who she is to PM you for the info.

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^^^ ...yes, Ga has it right.

I’ve seen a lot of these type of posts on this forum, and yet no one ever wants to say who these scammers are. I for one would love to know which providers are doing this sort of thing.

That said I definitely don’t do deposits with providers. It’s very simple, if I don’t know a person I’m not gonna give them any cash just so I’m stuck hoping they won’t screw me over. I especially don’t do it because I don’t want to get stuck in a position where I might have to cancel a session for any number of reasons that could include global cataclysms like a pandemic, or she might have to cancel due to a “family emergency”, and then I’m out money and stuck with blue balls, waiting for the chick to be available again someday, if she ever is.  

Also, why does this provider have enough of your info to blackmail you? What are you doing that you let her know that much info about you? Upon request I give providers two references, an email account or phone number that are used only for contacting providers, and that’s it. No provider I’ve seen can possibly blackmail me because I don’t let them know personal info about myself. They don’t even know my real name unless I’ve been seeing them for a very long time.

So my advice to you is stop doing deposits, and stop telling these girls so much about yourself. You did this to yourself so stop screwing yourself over. Also, cease all contact with this escort, most likely she’s just fishing for more money to scam off you, because it sounds like she was always planning on scamming you and you were never gonna get to see her anyway.  

Also PM me who this provider is, I’m really curious and I’d love to see what a “reputable provider” that scams people really looks like.

The crazy thing is I never told her enough info to know anything about my girlfriend.  Although she does know my name due to screening, I don't really have a presence on social media, and I am not worried about work either if she somehow figures that out.  It would be difficult for her to find me and even more so difficult for her to find my girlfriend.  You're right, it was a total shakedown.  I would PM you man but I am not a VIP, I am retiring from the hobby at this point.  Just not worth the hassle.  My previous ATF who I saw for years and I thought was a friend totally ripped me off too.  She also came up with a crazy sounding story that made zero sense, and cursed me out just like this girl when I questioned it.

ghost her .. she want attention as much as the money.   just ignore her - she aint going to do anything.  ..lets say she did contact someone - then you would report her on this board with no fear at that point and that would be end of her money train.

Those of us who've been around here for a while have seen some spectacular meltdowns from women who were not obviously deranged, at least before the meltdown. Could be this lady has fallen on hard times and has grown desperate. The stories I read about Chasey Lain's decline make me glad I never touched that live wire. But it's proof that it can happen to someone who previously seemed fine.
Maybe she's off her meds. Or perhaps someone has hijacked her account and is pretending to be her.  Whatever the explanation--which we will probably never learn and is largely irrelevant--I agree with the advice here to put this one in your rear view mirror.  If she persists, I agree she needs to be outed.

Why do guys come on here and complain about providers and wish not to disclose their name? This baffles me, providers blacklist clients and blast them on all platforms. I for one find it spineless.

It could be that since you gave her money for nothing and then let is slide, she decided you were a push over and doubled down.  

And always use a burner app!

Well....I actually looked closer at her history on here.  Her record indicates that this behavior is something she has done in the past.  Its available for anyone to see.  Wish I had seen it before I reached out to her.  It was almost the same script, down to the letter.

I agree coolcat23andme after I got blasted by the guys on here(mainly GaGambler)for not naming a well reviewed provider because I wanted to give her the benefit of a doubt and not ruin her reputation after GaGambler got done saying what he had to say and others,I put her name out there and amazingly I got my 300.00 deposit back,thanks guys

in using your alias to call out someone as having no spine?   LOL

 

You buy an AMZN GC with cash = no name. You gift escort the GC; still no name associated with that GC serial number, PIN, etc.. AMZN doesn't know who has the card: you, your grandmother, or this Provider.  
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MAYBE, if she used the card once (or more) and left a balance. They can now associate THAT card with her. But even if they think that she violated terms of service (spending GC money?), by what right can they seize the remaining funds?  
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And what does someone report to AMZN?  "She's an escort but it was a lousy BJ so you (AMZN) should punish her for me and seize the funds."  I think AMZN is more concerned about vendors: "Her ad said "Genuine Rolex" but she sent a cheap knockoff that said "Rollex" not "Rolex". Terminate her."  
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Oh ... I think this has already been explained ... she is BSC.