Ladies, I am certain that many of you have had to deal with someone who became a real problem, either stalking or harassing you.
I have an escort friend who confided that she has a stalker, but did not give exact details except that she has his real information.

Why are you looking for "input"?  Are you a stalker?

The farthest I have had to go is a cease & desist letter from my criminal attorney.

I’ve learned one thing. Stay out of an escorts personal life. A lot of them have drama. The good ones don’t tell you about it. I had to stop seeing one girl because her ex was causing  issues. It was affecting my time with her. Im not compensating someone so I can hear about their issues. Shame she was hot AF.

That is a ridiculous response and not helpful. Perhaps go back and actually try to read my post. SMH

Thank you Bia.  That option did not occur to me.  I will pass it along to my friend.

He is asking because it's not your problem and is they type of question that someone that did go down the rabbit hole of falling for an escort that didn't have any interest is such a relationship would be asking if they were concerned about the PII they had provided and had a lot to loose if she exposed him.

Courts take these applications a little more seriously than perhaps 20 years ago. Local PD can still be skeptical and unhelpful, but they can't stop the lady from pursuing the TRO, and if necessary, a permanent order.

Isn't it quite possible that he's simply trying to help the provider in question here? I am not sure about your experiences, but many women have raised this issue with me privately over the years because, unfortunately and sadly, getting stalked is fairly common.
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Not all providers have the support network you seem to think they do with other p4p women. Gaining access to the PO for providers is often a lengthy process as it isn't something that is granted automatically. They need to have at least 3 reviews and also need to have a lengthy posting history on multiple boards.  
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Newer providers, in particular, are very unlikely to have accomplished that feat to gain the privilege of the PO board, and some more experienced, veteran women never gain access at all, even though they request it and feel like they have met all the criteria to do so.
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I don't think there's anything wrong with people discussing ways to help a provider who may be in need. QB offered up one possibility. I think we should take the OP at his word unless you have evidence to suggest otherwise.

How did you deduce all that from the original post?

The guy asked why the other poster asked why he was asking. I gave the explanation.

Especially if he has her personal information.  
Obviously,  if he's truly a risk, and not just an annoyance, get the TRO, but she does risk being exposed herself.

You can't possibly know whether the provider asked him or not, so why assume otherwise and take a position against the OP without that information?
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On top of that, you used absolutist language when you said, "The escort can deal with it and certainly has better connections to other providers for advice if needed." How could you possibly know the extent and quality of this provider's support system??? lol.
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You also suggested he may have fallen for the girl, despite there being no evidence whatsoever to support that.
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My issue with you, in a nutshell, is that throughout your entire response, you consistently interpreted things in the least charitable way for the OP on virtually EVERY SINGLE POINT, which is why you are getting the pushback you are getting.

There was nothing in OP's post to suggest, imply, insinuate, hint or intimate any bad intent on his part. Your answer that he "could" be a stalker is the functional equivalent of saying that any question by any player about a bad experience "could" suggest an ill intent.  

There were potential warning flags in the OP’s post. And you yourself confirmed that many providers are harassed by stalkers. If a provider wants to give the OP the “advice” he’s asking for, she can do it. But I can understand why some women would be leery of providing advice that may actually be more helpful to the stalker than it would be to the target of the stalker.

I encourage her to read the providers only section. As many people have already mentioned, sharing or posting sensitive advice in a shared forum can be risky.  

I was not being unfair. Holy raised the question and ask. The guy said that he is not and no one should be asking. I was explaining why someone might question such a post as they guy didn't seem to understand that. We have seen stalkers making similar types of posts "Trying to help/trying to find my good friend but my burner phone died and I lost contact....."  
In short, I was NOT responding to the initial post but to the exchange between Holy and the OP.

Thank you Brielle, and to those who have made reasonable suggestions. To those who jump to conclusions, I guess this is where you get your exercise.
As for some of the point brought up here, no, I am not a stalker or THE stalker. Yes, she is a friend and relatively inexperienced.  Yes, she did ask if I had any advice and it is not someone from her personal life.   I did not realize that my failure to put in that detail would provoke unreasonable speculation, despite that "some" stalkers have made posts like this.
Next, I actually forgot about the Providers Board but will point her in that direction.  Although it seems that the legal route may be her best option, it is for her to decide.
And last, the unfortunate part of TER is that now so many people feel the need to have the ultimate word on something, troll others, and get involved where they have no business.  Just one of the reasons I feel TER is no longer the forum it once was and perhaps, the Providers are less likely to participate.
As I said earlier, thank you to those who had a reasonable suggestion.  This post was directed towards the LADIES, I wanted to get THEIR perspective, as it would be THEIR experience.

Some people here, sadly and incredibly, read malevolence into the OP for reasons that boggle the mind, as they have yet to provide a single shred of evidence that the OP is acting in bad faith. NOT ONE.
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Jumping from "someone asked how to help a provider with a stalker" to "the person asking could be the stalker" simply isn't a reasonable conclusion. People ask for advice on behalf of friends, partners, clients, coworkers, even in hypothetical situations all the time. Their motives should not be impugned without evidence. "He's guilty, and then we'll have the trial!" is not a sound basis for discussion.
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If someone were actually stalking another person, drawing public attention to the situation and inviting dozens of strangers to analyze it would be a VERY odd strategy. It is far more likely that the OP is simply seeking information because they don't know how to help and just trying to get the best course of action from people experienced in this regard.  
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Accusing the OP without evidence can also discourage people from asking for advice in situations involving harassment or stalking in the future. It's just better to respond to the question itself or not comment at all in the thread than to assume malicious intent by the OP based solely on his mentioning of the topic.  
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As a final point on all this, two women have weighed in on this thread, and BOTH with useful ideas on how the OP can help the girl in question. In Brielle's case, she actually told the OP "You’re a good person for caring and opening up the discussion!" I couldn't have said it any better.

You got done dirty in this thread and its a damn shame. Isnt it ironic you got help from both women and condemnation from a few guys? You deserved better bro.  
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Thanks for looking out for the community, and this girl, in particular. You didnt deserve the ridiculous blow back you got. Thankfully the women in this thread, along with multiple gents, gave you constructive feedback and/or appreciated your efforts.  
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Keep fighting the good fight! You did good here as other women who may just lurk here and never post, or the many that do not have acess to the PO board, can benefit from you bringing up this topic publicly. Hang your hat on that and be proud of your OP.

Thanks Robert, (and the other reasonable gents)  
This is my second go-around on TER. I had an account before it went dark, thought that was the end. There were trolls then too, but it seems worse now.  So many think they can say whatever they want bc they are anonymous. They would never dare to say the same things face to face.  
Unfortunately TER, like society in general,  has many sociopaths, psychopaths, and any other path you can name. They take away from the good people here who are just living and playing.   I don't have the time or desire to fight them all, not that it would matter.  But I will continue as I have, always respecting the women I see and who participate here. That has given me access to many wonderful ladies who provide me a terrific experience.