Let's say you meet a rich guy that wants to take you out of the business and of course your are not a provider for the joy of having sex with fat, old, hairy, smelly guys, you do it for the money.
So tell me the weekly allowance you want.
I'm not a rich guy, but I love to dream.
I would never leave the business under those circumstances...and I say this from experience.
One of my former clients liked me so much that he wanted me to stop escorting and move in with him. And see him only.
The man wanted to pay me $1,000 a week for allowance. I turned him down flat.
When I leave the business, it won't be because some rich man wants me to.
seriously, was this dude joking? that is not what I could call a living wage, especially in some of the cities that I am familiar with. Double that? with 5 weeks vacation and holidays thrown in... as well as health care? Now we're talking.
I know, that seems a bit cold, but I've been looking a jobs recently - and one - while a step up in prestige was a cut in pay.... need I say more. I don't care whether you are talking about providing or any other profession, the package (compensation wise) has to make sense... and 1K a week does not (heck, I will spend that one night in a titty bar! for what it is worth, I agree with your assessment.
Considering I make 1/2 that a year with my regular job, I'm surprised I haven't started this sooner. Thing is...outside elements limited me in doing this. Now that the kids are grown, and folks are in another state. I CAN NOW. I can do so many different things, but with my schooling, no one will hire me without a bachlors. Whatever happened to on the job experience worth it's weight?
seriously, outsourcing is the greatest reason I tell kids - get AT the very minimum a BS or BA degree - and get it in a physical science, a business major, or some other very practical vocation. Do NOT go for the english major - unless you are so damn good that someone will absolutely guarantee you a job.
What outsourcing has done is put the american worker on a par with every other person on the planet. and there are a whole lot of very skilled, highly trained and educated people in the world who can live the "good life" whereever they are for about half of what it costs to eek out a bare bones living in the good ole US of A.
Remember - corporations are not US citizens and they are not necessarily loyal to US Citizens if they can get their labor done at half the cost.
So.... service jobs in the US are on the rise... while the other jobs? they go to china or india... heck - even Peurto Rico is now being relegated to too costly - as is Mexico (for industrial production).
The world changed... and our educational institutions have failed to change with it.
Add in intangibles. Likely FREE room and board. That greatly increases the value of the $52K/year.
Hard to say...But I think 2k a week, and someone who gives me PLENTY of sex to suffice my raging hormones!
I may be pushin it a bit with the sex tho. LOL
Now if only I could come up with 2k/week..
Are you SURE??? Im told I am Insatiable!!!! LOL
or a "hobyist co-operative"?
I've had open relationships before. Having started my sexual excapades on AFF, I found it's very much to my liking. Unfortunately...finding the right person for the job seemed to be as difficult as finding a needle in a haystack. Their NOT as sexually active as I am. (and here I thought I had found my place for multiple pops) LOL NOT!
You have one review posted in July. You gave the lady a 10 in appearance but a 7 in performance.
I have not read your review, but the above facts makes one wonder if you are a fellow who was celibate for some time and is now infatuated.
Some of us have given providers cash gifts, loans, and other consideration as a result of "falling in infatuation". Most of those who do learn that it seldom works out.
Play the game for a while before you jump in.
-- Modified on 9/21/2007 8:52:26 PM
I just am not sure that I could satisfy the sexual needs of some of the ladies that I particularly find attractive... they are indeed very sexually active... and to tell the truth that does turn me on... but as I have posted numerous times, I want to see ladies who are happy - and I wish them to stay that way!
And somehow - I think some of them enjoy the sex... not all of it, but certainly the variety of it. and they do not see only fat old hairy smelly guys.... some of us shave! 
...all the rest I may have to admit to.
Now to your rather odd question. As they say, if you can't afford the answer, don't ask the price. You don't need to take a poll to know that the vast majority of hobbyists do not have a spare $100 - $200K/year lying around. That's the neighborhood you have to be in if you want to even tempt a successful provider. Then the real issues start
- Do you have this kind of money indefinitely?
- Is there a provider you would want to see exclusively for the next 3 months? 1 year? 2 years?
- If not, why would you ask a businesswoman to take an extended break from her business/ advertising/ client development/ opportunity for great reviews? She would be taking a big financial risk to see you exclusively.
- How does she feel about you?
- Is your relationship good enough that she will remain interested in you for extended period of time?
- Granted she is doing it primarily for the money. Her other motivations may be: excitement of meeting new people (and fucking them), the thrill of being desired, the appreciation of many men, travel, being taken to great restaurants. Can you make up for all of that? After all, you are asking her to give it up.
Perhaps you want to join one of the many sugardaddy sites and try your luck there. This is an escort site.
filmat11
I had a relationship somewhat similar to this before I started providing and my allowance was 2K a week plus extras like all my household utilities, bills, car payment and gifts and travel. That was a great experience and ended well and I would consider doing it again but not sure if I would. As of now I like my freedom and the choices I have with it.
Egads!!! There is no amount of money that could get me to rely on one man for anything. It would be like prison to have to put up with his moods, his smell, his attitude, his opinion, his patronizing rich man's sense of entitlement.
It would be worse than a job at Caribou Coffee, wiping countertops while some 19 yr old pretends to be my boss!!!
I would never want to be a kept woman, an owned woman, dependant upon the whims of some asshole who even had the audacity to ask ...
"How much money would it take for you to live your life the way I think you should live it, instead of the way you have been doing it so far?
How much money would it take for you to see things MY WAY and ignore your own intuition and the small voice in your own mind that tells you that you've made the right decisions for yourself so far? How much money would it take for you to sacrifice your values, your ideas, your taste, your choices, your whole life.... in order for me to keep you secure?"
hmmmmm...
I would suck spit before I would let someone pay for my life!!!!
Sheesh!!! But.. that's just me.
Will this imaginary rich guy set up an annuity or perpetuity to benefit the provider for a set amount of time? Or are we just relying on someone's word, which everyone knows can be broken on a whim? Then again, this sword cuts both ways: with an annuity, the provider can accept the automatic payments and then refuse to ever see the gentleman again. So let's say the money were somehow secure, so long as the lady agrees to continue to see this client on an exclusive or semi-exclusive basis (a blatant fantasy).
There are some benefits to this situation for the lady: no more advertising costs, more short-term certainty of income, theoretically safer working conditions, less stress, no more no-shows, etc. These intangible benefits could justify a lower price-tag for this arrangement.
But there are some drawbacks, too: less freedom, the inabiliy to take lots of time off for yourself, boredom, potential lack of job satisfaction, psychological insecurity that stems from relying on one person for sustenance, lack of financial security for the same reason, less long-term certainty of income, inflation eating into a fixed income, etc. These intangible drawbacks could justify a higher price-tag for the arrangement.
The benefits probably cancel out the drawbacks, so a lady who makes, let's say, $3,000 per week on average, will probably ask for a similar amount in this type of arrangement. Most of them will deny it, but I bet many of them would accept such an offer. Remember, they can always go back to providing if it doesn't work out. What's the loss?
I've personally fantasized about making such an offer to a provider but, like you, I'm nowhere near wealthy enough to afford this type of arrangement. Once every four to eight weeks will have to suffice for me for now.
When I was in my office going tinkles.
I was thinking I am going to be 52.
Granted I have a sexy body, a bright mind...SEXY..yes I am SEXY..but...I am lonely at times.
I want an SO..and I would want to retire..and it is not about the $$$$ for me.....
I don't need an allowance..I just want to provide for my kids when they need me.
So here I was sitting in my office thinking I am going to post something in my blog.
I want to wake up every morning and go to bed every evening in HIS arms.
Yes I am not a super model...but I am very SEXY and so full of life.
Read my reviews and read my blog and tell me if you think I have a future in becoming LUCKY IN LOVE?
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of course u do sweetie, the same work ethic u put into making your hobbying business successful just has to be applied to a relationship....and u would make a great so. best wishes on finding someone
My biz is great.
I have had several wonderful careers.
In 2 years my 2 youngest of 4 kids will start college.
I already have the passion and drive for a relationship..but finding the right MAN is not that easy.
Firstly I really don't want to LOOK and I don't.
I want him to find me.
When he does he will find a confident, intelligent and sexy woman rfeady to enjoy every moment with him. Playful and energetic.
I can understand the younger ladies wanting to be independent...as they say..I am def not interested in an allowance..that went away with the chores....
I want a relationship where $$$$ is not the framework...
The framework for the relationship is our bodies and our mind......our desire to share, have fun and LIVE out the rest of our dreams and more.
When you have lived a full life....sexually and in general...you have a keen idea into what brings you O's!! What floats your boat. What puts a smile on your face....You also know yourself..love yourself....and love LIFE..and not because of prozac.....And so you come full circle...Like I did....and you are ready for the next adventure in this wonderful likfe..except in my case.. want to experience them with
HIM
Who, when where..I don't know but until HE shows up....I have a few tricks up my sleeve!!
XOXO
Sexy Carolina
I say that "wow" in small letters because it's a hushed and soft "wow."
I have a lady who I've agreed to "keep" - she's 6ft, blonde and very , very pretty. Bubbly personality. Sexy beyond all get out!
I have paid her with two cars, two homes - both in nice vacation areas. She has all the spending money she can reasonably (and unreasonably!) spend.
All she needs to do is love me and give me a reasonable amount of sex.
The relationship started well but then she started to get lazy and the relationship went down hill - sexually. Oh..I love her still - so she's still enjoying all these assets while I hobby. I do NOT want to hobby but my right hand isn't very attractive (or effective) anymore.
If you would ask her about me.."Channelguy" - she'd say "great guy, kind, provides well, affectionate, highly sexed."
YOU are the type of woman I should have made the arrangment with.
You see, the "arrangement" I made with the lady is MARRIAGE. And that arrangement is 25 years and counting. It will get no better despite lots of attempts to "fix." Therapists, doctors, you name it. She just can't get romantic. Back to her childhood issues.
IF...IF...I could. I'd come to your North or South Carolina and scoop you up and make you happy.
So I could be happy too.
Most guys who would make an offer like this are spoiled, rich, and infatuated with the lady. He will try to control every aspect of your life, not just who you sleep with. The chances are very good that he will go back to seeing other providers eventually as well. Ladies please be smarter than this. Always be your own woman, always have your own money.
I've turned down NUMEROUS "rich guys" before even getting into "the business"....plus I don't need anyone taking me anywhere....
I have my weekly rate posted on my website...I just assumed that all ladies have long-term rates. There is nothing caged about spending extended periods of time with a sweetheart. It gives us plenty of moments to treasure, and lots of playfulness. Chances to sneak away from business meetings or client luncheons and be naughty. I do have restrictions on long-term engagements (month or more) that they get me for 5 days a week. 2 on, 1 off, 3 on, 1 off. It keeps us fresh and allows us both to handle more personal things alone.