intersting thought in most cases, when a lady visits with a gent,who leads the passion first??
i myself have come to enjoy the lady taking the reins [sort a speak]and take charge,tell what and where to go.its nice to follow at times, you find out things you didnt know.

how about sum other views???

not just a smooch but a nice long slow erotic kiss. Who ever makes the next move is anyones guess but things always do get going and very fast.

Kisses Haley

All depends on who you are dealing with! I am a woman who loves to be in control, so I myself take the reins. I am aggressive, but passionate at the same time. I love to give directions. I will tell my gent how I like to be licked, what to grab (my ass, my thighs, my tatas) and I will push you back on the back and let my lips do the walking! Thats just me!! Im bad!

If I am visiting the lady at her incall, the floor is hers, and I let her set the pace.  Vice versa if I am hosting...I will set the pace if necessary, but in general, I will adapt to her game.  Over the years, I've found it always best to play the game her way...

or gets me hotter than a woman who is a bit aggressive, who acts like she really really wants it...

But - you gotta take turns leading.....

(because if you turn me on like that, you are at some point really going to get it!)

and not mind if at some point I roll you over, pin your arms down and give you a really proper GoodTimingMan seeing-to!

You're not bad, your'e GREAT!

i just make sure to always be very warm and welcoming, so that a man feels at ease and comfortable to do what he wills. the most i will initiate is a quick and gentle hug, after that i retreat and let him set the pace.

I prefer to let the lady lead. For a couple of reasons.
1. I make decisions and lead in my job day to day. It is nice to be able to let go and be led.
2. I feel i have had better experiences by letting the lady lead. This is probably because the lady will try or suggest things I wouldn't. either because I didnt think of it, or I am too shy to ask.

I prefer to have the lady take the lead, since it's usually the opposite in my civi life.

I'm also on the shy side, so I'm more attracted to providers who are more assertive.  I find it rather exciting when a lady senses my shyness and decides to have her way with me ...LOL

-TheKarateKid-