Look under "My TER" - "My Referrals". I perceive it as synonymous with P411 and D-C provider references.  

Now, what I would like to know is if there is a provider-only board where providers can exchange reviews of clients... like, he is gross/handsome, he is great/sucks in bed, he makes me laugh/yawn, etc... I'd pay to see what providers HONESTLY think about me (besides the ubiquitous "all clients are liars, cheats, yada-yada).

And Dude, could you drop the "Your thoughts IF ANY" tag line? It's redundant when you've already asked your question, and annoying since we all have our own thoughts.

for the girls that are a little difficult

I was on the white list before i joined TER it just means you are ok to visit. I helps with the more difficult providers when what to screen you like they are a FBI agent.

If any provider has put you on white list! escalade you have 7

Wanna know what I'm thinking?
How many times did your mom drop you on your head when you were little.

The whitelist function helps with screening. But I usually have it disabled.
It's bad enough that everything I post could be cross referenced with my reviews.
I refuse to use an alias. So the least I can do is not show who has vouched for me when I decide to get drunk, and post something stupid.

An assclown like you should disable your whitelist function as well.