Thanks man. Really.
Im not new, just don't review them all. New to this community though and y'all helped a lot.
Im not new to this and I am very decent guy, well to do, look half my age, yada yada...... My last interlude was so good I am still smiling. I mean, she was so attentive, passionate, sharing, giving, over the top in every aspect I almost dared to think she may actually like me. Without the play by play this knock-out was so much more and gave so much more, it seemed like an ex I once had who was obsessed with me. Not creepy and told me loved the connection 'way too much'.
Totally sold me.
If I pursue this ATF more as I travel a good bit, what can I expect as I am torn between, 'she's a really good service provider' to 'this is how they get ya to come back' and if ......................
Anyone have experiences like this? Thoughts?
If you're asking about a "real" connection vs. Just a pro doing her job the best she can...
It's her being a pro. Until you're not paying for it.
Just enjoy it.
Had much the same thought but would add one additional item that was not mentioned. What is the OP open to? Is the possibility of a real connection and replacing a professional relationship with a personal on something he is open to or fears for whatever reason.
See her again if she was that amazing. You’re overthinking this way too much. If it sizzles at some point, then you move on.
I don’t get what you’re talking about . If you had a good time see her again. Why else are you doing it?
My take is that I would expect the same/similiar level of care and service, IF...you pay her rate and are respectful during the second date. Thats what good providers do. They dote on you, give you plenty of attention, etc because they take great pride in their customer care, value their reputation, and want you to return. Its simply good client retention really.
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Btw, you are also describing most of my dates, so yes, I have had many experiences like the one you describe. They are not unusal at all but I dont read anything into them as I think that is the key.
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Now dont get me wrong, I do get fully engrossed in the illusion when I am with the girl, and that good feeling and amazing relaxation from the date often bleeds into the next day, but then reality kicks in and I start looking forward to my next date with somone else.
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You alos said you are not new to this, but you come across as if you are and your review history seems to support that impression. People with more experience typically don't have this kind of reaction after a single date.
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It also sounds like you may have developed a bit of a crush, which is understandable, and usually harmless. Many women in this lifestyle are incredibly atractive and exceptionally good at creating a convincing girlfriend experience but I would avoid assuming the feeling is mutual.
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Keeping your expectations inline and your head on straight is probably the best way for you to move forward in this incredible lifestyle, but keep in mind just one thing as you do so...stay grounded, my friend! lol.
Thanks man. Really.
Im not new, just don't review them all. New to this community though and y'all helped a lot.
your two takeaways, i.e., "she's a really good service provider", and "this is how they get ya to come back" are mutually exclusive. To get the most from this lifestyle, these two thoughts should be able to co-exist, and they do with the most accomplished providers, many of whom post on this forum. Many providers are willing to be travel companions, if that is what you meant in your reference to "travel," and there is a wide variety of how they approach it from a rate perspective. Ask around.
The statement “ I am torn between, 'she's a really good service provider' to 'this is how they get ya to come back' and if .........”
It’s like wait a minute, those things aren’t even the two sides of the same coin; they’re on the same side of the coin!
Also what’s the if…. ? If what?
To the OP:
your choice of language in some of this sounds like you’ve fallen for this woman and think she’s fallen for you. “If I pursue this ATF…” wait what? You don’t pursue providers, you pursue the women you’re dating.
Do not catch feelings for her. Even the cockeyed optimists here who will point to the once in ten million occurrence of a client marrying a provider will admit you can’t be catching feelings after one appointment. If you see her again, you should probably see four or five others first before you do.
move on. you have come across someone who knows how to separate you from your $.
See providers who give great service but dont make you feel like it might become something more.
Experiences with a great provider does not come with the pressures, stress and underline expectations that an experience with a "civilian" would, so your feeling may be valid to you, she was truly doing her job.
I travel tons for enjoyment. Many trips are with the guys. (golf, GT3 races, offshore poker runs, beer, whiskey etc) I also travel to experience art, culture, music and explore different counties, so female companionship fits with those trips. The last 8 years on those types of trips I now choose to take a provider because when there is no expectations other than enjoying the time together you tend to do just that, enjoy the time.
No expectations, no pressure, no jealousy, no "why are you taking business call when it's my time with you"- can make an hour in a hotel room or a week in Nassau feel great, but you need to remember "the why".
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