This is probably better asked on the providers board but I would like male and female replies.

"Here's your hat; what's your hurry?"

You need obviously to know how time is running and how you want the session to go - does 60 minutes mean out the door in 60 minutes, in which case you want him in the shower at the 50 minute mark, or getting in the shower at the 60 minute mark? It's your judgement call, no right or wrong answer, but once you make up your mind stick to it.

Do providers usually start to say goodbyes around 50 min?  1 hour?  1:15?  

I thought you were going to ask about managing clients within the hour, and what to do if they're on their second pop right up to the line, for instance. But preventing from staying an whole extra hour shouldn't be too hard. That's a long time, and guys know about when they're supposed to go, even if they don't act like it.  

So I can agree with you one this so why don't you as a first time meeting on your site say as I just did first time clients 90 min is best to have the full time and not feel rushed in a session and get to know one another. I just added that to my site and it is working out rather nicely. Just a suggestion.

For example, if clean up/shower is planned, allow time for that.  If nothing is mentioned about that, work it into the convo, eg "Would you like to take a shower before you leave?"    

You let him stay though. You have the power and control my dear. Learn to speak up and communicate. If you can't articulate your words,you shouldn't be in this business or even having sex for that matter. He paid for an hour so he stays for an hour. As time approaches and doesn't look like he is moving...just politely say hey "I have to get to my next engagement "or "would you like to paybfor another hour?" If you wanna be blunt. Generally a guy will wind down the time,get tired,hand me my stuff..but be aware. Don't leave it up to them. At 50 minutes start finishing up. I've only had one guy who pulled this shit on me and he is now on my dns list. I don't like to be taken advantage of and neither should you. Don't put up with this shit. IF A GUY REALLY LIKES YOU HE ISN'T GOING TO TRY AND GET YOU TO GO OVER FOR FREE.

I find massage places typically hustle you out faster, and have the clocks set like 15 minutes ahead. An hour session means 45 minutes max to a lot of them. Not all; there are GFE-type massage providers.

An exploding dildo in the guys ass with a timer on it. Few, if any, will fail to leave on time.

"Thank you for coming."  Then I give her a passionate kiss, reiterate my love for her, and slip out the door, leaving her with a big smile on her face.

And being gracious, smiling, can definitely help with the overall vibe and the feeling your caller has when he leaves.  
Personally, I like to use humor to cushion any such "time to extend or move on" statements.  

So sorry to hear that! I've only ever had a couple of guys that really wanted to stay longer and were having a great time so before we went for round 2 I said something like "are you comfortable giving me the donation for an extra half hour?" he said sure, handed it to me and we went at it for another 30 mins. To the men that expect me to stay longer 'just because' I stay for the amount of time I was compensated for and that's that. Sometimes a few mins longer if I'm enjoying myself, but theres no reason to stay past that.  

I agree with what you said about them helping to keep track of time.  I hire a photographer periodically and she charges for her time too.  So if I book a 1 hour photo shoot, I anticipate only getting in a few looks/styles.  At 20 min left, I know the shoot is about over and know I don't have time to change outfits again.  I like her and want to keep shooting with her, so the last thing I would do is try to milk extra time without compensating her.

As a client, how would you handle it, or what would you want the provider to do?  Like if your session is going over but maybe not quite enough to ask for 2 hours donation.  Should she just let it go?  I mean, she may be enjoying herself too...

It's really amazing the amount of balls it takes to be a successful provider.  If we don't, or if we're pushovers, we will absolutely get taken advantage of!

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Why would a client be napping during a 1 hour session? and the line "Would you like to extend your date?" typically works for me. If they book an hour the the envelope will be for the 1 hour rate (always count your envelope before you start the date! Once you know what he paid you for go with that amount of time). why would they stay an extra hour and you think the extra rate is already inside, if they don't add to the envelope it's not going to magically appear.  

As a client I hate hearing things like this. It gives the rest of us a bad name. No matter how good a time I am having I am always alert to the time and what time I should gather my belongings and leave. One disclaimer you could put out at nauseum is something stating that if a client would like to extend his time then he should make sure the proper donation is include. Sure you could try the old yawn yawn I have an early flight to catch routine or if the guy doesn't take hints well you could ask if he would like to take a shower before he leaves. If none of those seem to work just flat out say your time is up, please leave.

At the 5 or 10 minute mark, ask if he would like to take another shower before he leaves.  If he still doesn't get the hint, put a robe on and start tidying up and let him know you have to prepare for your next date/lunch with the girls/krav maga class.  (That last one should really get his attention).

Just get up and start getting dressed....that usually gives him a strong signal

At the start of my "Companioning", and I too was
often taken for a "pushover", when it came to  
calling "time".

Work, class, Skype meeting. Workout. Pick someone up at the airport. Call your grandma. Feed your pet. Pick your child up from the babysitter's. Catch a train. Etc., etc. Lie, if you need to.

I'm a very punctual, business-like person so I show up on time and make sure to leave on time too.

and if the guy has not shown any indication that he understands the session is up suggest it's time to feed the meter again.

We're kind of stuck when that happens. Say he's still going at 1:15 (some guys, particularly older gents, take a while to come), or he initiates a push for Pop #2 at the :55 mark. You can always ask him if he'd like to extend his time. But, it's a mood killer/boner killer for sure, and you risk getting labeled a "clockwatcher." Definitely one of the downsides of reviews...

I'm a one round kinda guy. Since I like to shower afterwards, if I haven't finished as we approach the 50-minute mark, and I happen to notice the clock (sometimes I don't), I'll take over. Usually I can finish myself within a couple minutes. However, I'm not always paying close attention, and a few times I've ended up going 10 or 15 minutes over. More often, I'll have time to spare.  

I usually finish well within the hour, but I remember one time I didn't have chemistry with the girl, couldn't finish, and one minute past the hour, she said "we're out of time"

I WON'T use that one.  

Legend has it that one of the first timekeeping devices ever invented was devised by a Greek prostitute named Clepsydra.  It was a metal bowl with a pinhole in the bottom, floated in a larger bowl of water.  As time passed the inner bowl would fill up and eventually sink; when she heard the "clunk" of the bowl sinking she knew that time was up.  Different sized bowls could be used to time different intervals.  To this day the word "clepsydra" is used to refer to any water-based timekeeping mechanism.

...my pimp will be here in 10 minutes and he's been in a bad mood all week.

This made me spit out my water LOL

if you know it takes awhile to finish with a lady you just met an hour ago then book a longer time slot. it seem like you know you tend to go over by 10-15 minutes and you think that's ok... it's NOT you're taking advantage of these providers and it's wrong. you wouldn't want them cutting you off after 45 minutes and we don't want you staying over your time.